I totally get what you're talking about. I am in practically the same
situation except that I'm a girl and I often find it difficult to talk
to guys that I like. Sometimes what I try to do, and it often works,
is try to imagine that the guy is some other guy that I have no
trouble talking to and just go from there. I hope that helps. Good
luck.



--- In SocialFitnessForum@yahoogroups.com, "kunzie99 <kunzie99@y...>"
<kunzie99@y...> wrote:
> Hello! I am 18 yrs old and I suffer from shyness. One of the
> reasons why I am shy is because I stutter. Stuttering also gives me
> a low self esteem and a low confidence. I just have a part of me
> that prevents me from talking to people like it blocks me from doing
> what i want to do. Whenever I have a crush on a girl, I am too
> scared to talk to them in person. This last december I really liked
> a girl and she liked me a alot too but it never worked out because I
> was too scared to talk to her in school. Also she was a freshman
and
> I was a senior. Shyness is a big and serious problem for me. I have
> been told that I am very goodlooking guy but that doesnt mean
> anything if you are too shy to talk to girls. I am hoping someone
> knows how I feel. If you could give me some advice, I would really
> appreciate it. Thank YOU!