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Low Self-Esteem, Shyness, Fear, Shame, Over-sensitivity   Message List  
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Re: [SocialFitnessForum] Low Self-Esteem, Shyness, Fear, Shame, Over-sensitivity

At 12:32 AM 9/25/02 +0000, you wrote:
I am new to this group and I am happy that I found it.  I was
wondering if Shyness is also related to low self-esteem, fear, shame
and over-sensitivity.

        Speaking only for myself - yes, yes, yes and absolutely yes.

I was thinking of therapy but I read somewhere here that Counselor
would be better. Does someone have experience with counselor, where
can I find them? Are they  as expensive as psychologists are?
        
        Generalizing quite a bit here - don't want to offend anyone. "Therapy" and "counseling" are pretty much used interchangeably today. By a counselor I tend to mean someone with a Master's degree verses a PhD psychologist or MD psychiatrist because their course work and practice tends to be more focused on practical solutions and behavior rather than relying on medication or testing or trying to unravel past issues. Someone with a MEd, MSW, MA or MS who works with cognitive behavioral therapy, reality therapy, etc. And yes they are generally less expensive.
        Just one man's opinion. Welcome aboard. =)


Wed Sep 25, 2002 1:20 am

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Hello everybody! I am new to this group and I am happy that I found it. I was wondering if Shyness is also related to low self-esteem, fear, shame and...
lse_buddy
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Sep 25, 2002
12:32 am

... Generalizing quite a bit here - don't want to offend anyone. "Therapy" and "counseling" are pretty much used interchangeably today. By a counselor I tend...
Ron Mills
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Sep 25, 2002
2:36 am

Hello Ron, Thanks for your response. Did you have a personal experince with conselour with a MEd, MSW, MA or MS who works with cognitive behavioral therapy?...
lse_buddy
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Sep 25, 2002
9:40 pm

Personally, I love the social fitness model. The idea is to start with small activities, and work up. I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't really...
Bob Mayo
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Sep 25, 2002
10:23 pm

Hi JB Thanks for writing back. Been in individual therapy twice in my life. Neither time was specifically for social phobia but that was the major issue...
Ron Mills
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Sep 25, 2002
10:30 pm

Hello Ron, Thanks for sharing your past experiences with us. One question: What is ACSW MSW whose primary methodology was CBT? You have also mentioned some...
lse_buddy
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Sep 26, 2002
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... ACSW - Academy of Certified Social Worker's. Professional designation showing a certain level of competence. Have to have at least a Master's degree, 3000...
Ron Mills
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Sep 26, 2002
12:20 pm

Hi Ron, It seems to me that you are very knowledgeable about therapy. That is so great to be able to get all this info. Being about your age, I am 35, it's...
lse_buddy
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Sep 27, 2002
1:32 am

Hi JB Happy if I could be of any help. I'm no expert but have worked in mental health and know some of the terms. It probably would be hard to find someone who...
Ron Mills
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Sep 27, 2002
2:56 am

Also be aware that there are many approaches! If you try one for 6 months or so and don't feel it is doing you any good, consider a change. Many people claim...
Bob Mayo
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Sep 27, 2002
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