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Hi I've finally realized that i have a problem talking to women that
i have an attraction to. I am usually a funny witty person, somewhat
quiet around people that i don't know to well. heres my problem, if
i'm around a girl that i am interested in i get all nervous and it
seems like i have nothing to say to her. The more i try to think of
stuff to say or be myself the more nervous i get and that makes it
even worse so i look like a really quiet person when i am actually
not. I like when we go out drinking with the guys because i don't
feel as nervous. and why is it that some people i can warm up to and
talk to right away like we've know each other for 10 years. anyone
have an ideas or suggestions i would greatly appreciat the info.
also if you know of any other good resources to check up on i would
like to know that as well..

Thanks for the help.
scott




Mon Jan 21, 2002 3:20 am

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Hi I've finally realized that i have a problem talking to women that i have an attraction to. I am usually a funny witty person, somewhat quiet around people...
springsrv9
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Jan 21, 2002
3:20 am

Hi Scott, Most people (including women) are pretty friendly when you show a casual interest in them -- so you might try to think of some questions in advance...
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Jan 23, 2002
5:10 am

Another approach would be to "work up to it". Start with smaller goals and when you are comfortable, raise the goal. For instance, start with a good...
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Jan 23, 2002
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Hello There, I'm Claire, 27 from Midlands UK. I've just been diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder (with the unfortunate abbreviation of SAD!) and I'm so glad...
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Jan 23, 2002
12:25 pm

thank you for the tips. i will give them a try....
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Jan 23, 2002
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