Hi. Like many of you here I have had a hard time coping with an alcoholic loved one. As a result I decided that it was time for me to take some action. I...
Thanks so much for this group. I to am living with an Alcoholic and to say the least its exhausting. I am engaged and not sure about marriage and recently...
Hi everyone, thanks for including me in your group. These messages are very serendipitous. I have an ex-boyfriend who is an alcoholic. We have not been...
I am also married to an alcoholic, have been for 26 years and we have 4 kids together. We just kinda ignore him around here and walk on egg shells and he goes...
Hello all, I am no longer living with an alcoholic. I broke up with my boyfriend almost a month ago. I broke up because i had had enough of his being angry,...
Thanks for letting me in and giving me an outlet for which to share my experiences and learn form yours. I have an alcoholic husband to whom I've been married...
Hi,everyone.It's been quite some time since my last posting. My stepdad is drinking again.My mom e-mailed me and said that he hasn't gone to work at all this...
Hey, altered, I'm wondering where you are now. I just joined this group today (1/9/08) and I'm in the same position you were when you posted. Years ago, my...
i have been in counselling for a little while, recently... but have had much over the years of living with the addict... am currently on the path of divorce,...
hello everyone. i am brand new to the group after reading some of your emails, i know i'm in the right place. here's my story. which i am sure is very similar...
well, it seems I have done things backwards...lol... I joined this group, and can't recall if I introduced myself... I did look to see if I had posted...
Hi Kathy It sounds like you are having a tough time... It is all too familiar, and glad you could talk about it. I remember the saying, you can't talk to the...
http://www.aa.org/bigbookonline/en_BigBook_chapt8.pdf To wives This is from the AA big book... Just substitute the word alcohol or alcoholism to drug...
Hi. I have been married to my husband for 9 years this year. I was recently divorced when I met him from an abusive man and an alocholic. I knew when I met my...
... have ... and ... denies ... asked ... My ... day. ... given ... do ... is ... Honey, Don't blame yourself for his problems.You are not to blame for his ...
I'm scared. A friend of mine took his own life 2 days ago. He drank , he was going through a nasty divorce and all the time he told me that he never wanted to...
Hi. I'm Michelle. I'm 35 years old and got married to my husband when I turned 25. We will have been married 10 years in July. Being married to an alcoholic is...
Hi, Thanks for sharing your story... Like you, I've been through hard times, with my A boyfriend. He's been the only A that's been very close to me, but I...
I am so sorry that you are going thru this. It's awful when you live with that fear. I felt like that too when I have left my husband in the past. Fortunately...
thanks michelle.!!! i guess i should have made it clearer. he isn't suicidal. he od'ed on accident. dumb ass! kathy, ill talk more later. ow i must run to...
... 4 ... either ... really ... if ... me ... Hi Jamie, I remember the days of eggshell walking...My children also grew up under circumstances I wish they had...
Hi Jamie, I know the eggshell routine and it SUCKS!!!!! and its not fair to you or the kids! i know its extremely hard, with no family. i really don't have...
Hi Kira, and Amen... Ditto, and are you in my family?????? lol sure sounds like my dad was. he just past. but he was extremely controlling. you must...
hi michelle, my kids and i live for Intervention every week. we love that show.. and your right you do have to draw strength from some where. mine are my...
i am so sorry about your friend. and i know how you feel. i would die if my husband killed himself over me. but also remember. his problems also lay deeper...
Hi Kathy, Yes, i know about that kind of life of walking on eggshells. I used to be so shy as a child, but i just looked at the things around me, and i would...
I'm also really sorry to hear about your friend. I used to be suicidal as a child. But I haven't been since probably 10 years old, at the latest, 15. I can't...
ya know, when i told my husband to leave. for my kids sake i knew i did the right thing. i gave him chance after chance. i followed the program, with the...
thank you miranda. that is wonderful! i appreciate it. i might just investigate the tax dollars. my insurance is too expensive ... From: Miranda Camp...