my husband has been in recovery for almost 2 years now, about 4 months ago, he started having a relationship with another recovering addict (14 yrs younger) now he moved out and wants a divorce because while he was working on his 4th and 5th steps, he realized how unhappy he has been. I did'nt think these kind of relationships in the program were acceptable. I've already accepted it, and am moving on but I am upset about the fact that the people in the program allowed this, I would think that something like that would make his recovery dangerous. any thoughts??
my husband has been in recovery for almost 2 years now, about 4 months ago, he started having a relationship with another recovering addict (14 yrs younger)...
Well, i wish my husband would find someone and leave. Even if he ever recovered, which I don't think he ever will, I would not be happy. He has pushed me...
I want to respond, but first wanted to say I will say a prayer for you Lesa. I have just met you, but feel a kinship. You helped me so much last weekend...
Dear Belinda, Â The fact that your husband found that he was unhappy because he was "doing a 4th and 5th step" and used that to justify dumping you so he...
ok, how about this,,, we have been married 20 yrs, from day one, he has been sober and relapsed, sober and relapsed, etc... there were a few times that he was...
Belinda, I am new to this online program. I feel for your concern and hurt.  I actually had to get out my book and remind myself of the 4th and 5th...
very true, and what he always says is that people make their own choices and it's funny how he can't own up to his because it's a "disease" and he had no...
That was very uplifting. It is true, that Alcoholics will blame anyone, but themselves. If someone were to talk to my partner {s}, you would think I was...
Dear Belinda,  Some of the things you are sharing are probably not good to put out for just everyone to read, so I am going to email you directly. ...
Hello, Dear Ones! You have all been on my heart and in my prayers. May God keep you enfolded in His arms, safe and loved, while the storm rages. May you...
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