Hey, I have given up on my marriage too, even tho we still co-exist, separate rooms, sepaarate lives. It does get lonely tho. Anyone who wants to talk can email me anytime. We all need friends with lives like this.
Lesa Showalter
Texas
--- On Thu, 6/18/09, ntbaxter3@... <ntbaxter3@...> wrote:
From: ntbaxter3@... <ntbaxter3@...> Subject: Re: [Recovery-World-Al-Anon] Hi everybody. To: Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, June 18, 2009, 10:26 PM
I give up on my alcoholic wife Alcohol wins I lose!
From: "jll_shaw" Date: Thu, 18 Jun 2009 23:36:39 -0000 To: <Recovery-World- Al-Anon@yahoogro ups.com> Subject: [Recovery-World- Al-Anon] Hi everybody.
My name is Jill. I joined this group because I need some help and support in dealing with codependency issues I am having. I was in a relationship for ten years with my sons father who is an alcoholic/addict. Her has been sober for 5 months now while living in a recovery house. A couple of weeks ago I learned that he is seeing someone he met at a meeting and he ended our relationship. I am not dealing with detaching well and I find myself to be very jealous of this other girl. He had been using since my son was born and has been in and out of treatment programs the whole time always coming back to us in between. Now that he seem to be working the steps and program effectively he is walking away. I know this sounds ridiculous but it hurts.
My name is Jill. I joined this group because I need some help and support in dealing with codependency issues I am having. I was in a relationship for ten...
There is nothing ridiculous in feeling horribly betrayed by what has happened. You were there for him while he was using and abusing and now, just when it...
Well hello Jill, I am so glad to finally hear from someone on this site. I have been married for 23 years to a horrible alcoholic too. I have finally come to...
Hey, I have given up on my marriage too, even tho we still co-exist, separate rooms, sepaarate lives. It does get lonely tho. Anyone who wants to talk can...
Hello, I am new to the online world of Al Anon. I used to belong to a group, but work got in the way. I also have moved to a separate room. My husband has...
Hi Debby,My name is Kim. And I live your struggle! My husband too trades addictions and thinks he is fooling everyone. We have been married for 26+ years and...
Hi Debby, my name is Carole. I live with an alcoholic for nine yrs now. I have left him once. He drew me back into his web by telling me he was going to AA and...
Carole Rocheleau
dads_up2heaven@...
Jun 28, 2009 2:22 am
Hello Friends, My name is Lisa and I joined this wonderful family (site) over four years ago while trying to find answers to "fix" my Husband's alcoholism. It...
ldb812
LDB812@...
Jun 28, 2009 3:14 am
Kim or whoever, Thank you for responding. Today is a bad day. If I even open my mouth it seems I have an attitude or am hollering at him. I was upset...
Carole, My heart goes out to you. My present husband also was very supportive when I had cancer. Unfortunately, the doctor told him I would go into early...
I am looking for an online meeting (s).  Can anyone direct me. Right now I cannot pay.  Debby Smith ________________________________ From: Debby Smith...
I think we need to form our own circle. I just went thru another horrible weekend with my blood pressure 170/103. This happens every weekend and I had...
Lesa, I know how hard it is to stay heathy and calm with utter chaois going on. We have a nurse at our work and have started having meditation twice a...
Hi Lesa, Sorry I missed your messenger im. I am generally on messenger in the mornings so would love to chat with you. Kim ... From: Lesa Showalter...
Sorry Kim, I don't have messenger. Is there another way that we can chat? Always follow your Carole To: Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com From:...
Carole Rocheleau
dads_up2heaven@...
Jun 30, 2009 1:05 am
Always through email!! ... From: Carole Rocheleau <dads_up2heaven@...> Subject: RE: [Recovery-World-Al-Anon] Re: Hi everybody. To:...
ok thanks. I can't write right now but I will soon. Always follow your Carole To: Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com From: kimadams12171982@... ...
Carole Rocheleau
dads_up2heaven@...
Jul 1, 2009 8:44 pm
Hello, fellow Al-Anons! I am starting from Survival to Recovery, one title in the list of our Al-Anon Family Groups literature. I am going to do a little...
Hello, fellos Al-Anons, I appreciate what Sara had to say. I have been in Alanon before. I have needed it since I quit, but was too stubborn or ashamed to go...
Dear Debby, that group doesn't sound like an Al-Anon group, it sounds like a religious cult. I am glad you are out of it, and I hope you find a healthy group...
Thank you! Â Debby Smith ________________________________ From: Sara DeJesus <s_m_dejesus@...> To: Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday,...
I need help. I am having a breakdown of sorts today, I hate him, I hate him, I hate him, he is a miserable excuse for a human being and I don't know what to...
Oh yeah. Been there, done that.Believe me I understand. Some days when you feel like it just cannot possibly get any worse, then suprise it does. I have...
Michelle, What you say is so true. Thank you for sharing.  Debby Smith ________________________________ From: michelle bloom <mecaylachuck@...> To:...
Hi Lesa, I hope you are doing better today. I know what its like to live day to day.Its so hard and there are days when you wonder how you will ever make it....
Lesa, Oh, I am so sorry I was not here. My husband was supposed to work today doing our taxi service and decided not to, so I had to go out. I had...
Hi Debby, thank you for your response. What you said hit the nail on the head. I used to keep my house spotless. You would not believe what it looks like...
Lesa, Yes, at times it all seems hopeless, but... We are creatures of a higher power and we do have purpose. I can also list a lot of things wrong with...
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