--- In Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com, "Brett Limer" <blimer@...> wrote:
>May I ask a few questions about her: what circumstances led to your divorce;
what drinking pattern/drug use does she have; has she been like this before with
friends other family? These questions help set a profile on who she is and can
assist with a better form of suggestions...
I learned this from mmy ex and having to deal with him.

> My ex recently demonstrated some very odd behavior and I am struggling with
how to react. First, she went to where my sister works and waited for over 20
minutes after asking for her. She attempted to make "small talk" and pretend
like nothing ever happened (they NEVER see each other). The very next evening,
she went to where my brother works and YELLED for him several times until
another coworker notified him that somebody was yelling for him. Again, another
attempt at "small talk" was made and he said it felt extremely weird at having
her come to his job (they NEVER see each other as well). In both circumstances,
she has made the effort to make this happen, as both places of employment are
not "in the neighborhood". Also in both cases, she was alone and was not at the
location as a customer. My sister is actually considering filing a restraining
order. I am not sure what either occurrence was for, but in both cases it was
out of the blue and she acted like nothing had ever happened. We have been
divorced for over 4 years and I have sole legal and physical custody of our 2
kids. I appreciate any ESH offered. Thanks!
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