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From: Brett Limer <blimer@...>
Subject: [Recovery-World-Al-Anon] ESH regarding ex
To: Recovery-World-Al-Anon@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, April 1, 2009, 8:35 AM

My ex recently demonstrated some very odd behavior and I am struggling with how to react. First, she went to where my sister works and waited for over 20 minutes after asking for her. She attempted to make "small talk" and pretend like nothing ever happened (they NEVER see each other). The very next evening, she went to where my brother works and YELLED for him several times until another coworker notified him that somebody was yelling for him. Again, another attempt at "small talk" was made and he said it felt extremely weird at having her come to his job (they NEVER see each other as well). In both circumstances, she has made the effort to make this happen, as both places of employment are not "in the neighborhood" . Also in both cases, she was alone and was not at the location as a customer. My sister is actually considering filing a restraining order. I am not sure what either occurrence was for, but in both cases it was out of the blue and she acted like nothing had ever happened. We have been divorced for over 4 years and I have sole legal and physical custody of our 2 kids. I appreciate any ESH offered. Thanks!