| Thank you so much for writing... I am so sorry to hear of your divorce. Has your husband had counseling? Have you? I think I am going to get some for myself, because I seem to attract addicts. My last one was a porn addict. That was a hoot... I think alcoholism is more devastating though, because like you say, they are great when they're sober. I have a lot of faith, but I don't know about having too much with my husband Mike. He lost his parents to cancer at 16, and has been battling drinking ever since. Actually, he drank , hard, even before they died, but he tells me that by them dying, he could get a lot of mileage out of it. He is usually a very honest drunk, but lately he's been very sneaky, which tells me it's progressing. I feel so bad for you, because there are children involved. Mine are grown and he has none(which is a blessing, in a sad way) Do you think your ex will ever get sober? If so, do you think you would give him another chance? I am the queen of last chances. I even wrote a song about it... I have a feeling this is it though. I spent the day cleaning, organizing, so I can leave quickly if I have to. He has a great job, and wonderful insurance, and quite frankly, I need him to keep this job, and not go to jail. I have had serious health problems for the last few years, and I really need his help, at least for now. I am in my senior year of college,(at 46), getting a degree in Behavioral Science. I have taken drug and alcohol courses, and was a domestic abuse victim 29 years ago.So, I know this stuff... I guess knowing it, and KNOWING it, can be two different things... I need to find out what is going on with , me... Thanks again, and if YOU ever need to talk, just write me... Take Care, Carolyn --- On Fri, 5/9/08, nolee965 <nolee965@...> wrote: From: nolee965 <nolee965@...> |
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