I've loved guys since puberty. I also love being a guy. To me, getting to know a buddy was a slow increase in friendship over time that on more than a few occasions turned intimate. It was always about respect, discretion & trust. It was NEVER about GENDER-BENDING. Frankly, I have always been disgusted by "men" who act like women, treat other guys like "women" & bend-gender in acts like x-dressing. However -most offensive to me & my buds is the stereotype that men who love men -buttphuck. Let me be clear: AnalSex is the hallmark of a detestable male who traded in his respect for a FauxPussy where his arse should be. Dirty, disease-spreading & damn-unmasculine.
Men have been lov'n on their best buds for thousands of years, -yet even the Greeks outlawed AnalSex while celebrating that fact that guys hooked up with guys! A contradiction? No! AnalSex is damn UNnatural. Even biologists who study SameSex bonding in the wild note that AnalSex is virtually non-existant. When it does appear (in very few species), -it's always used to subjugate other males -- never bond with them. In human demographics, organizations like "WHO" & the "CDC" have connected the act to the explosive spread of STD's (many thousands of percentage points higher than all other acts combined)!
While the media simply repeats disinformation about men who love men; -The fact is that most men who have Same Gender Affections want NOTHING to do with the Gay-Male community because of the offensive stigmas & stereotypes promoted - many from within the gay-male community itself.
Lov'n a buddy doesn't make a dude into a "FA6". AnalSex (giving or taking) does.
There is a rapidly growing global group of men who feel the same way. Having watched in despair for years as perverts tainted everything about healthy M2M relationships: Finally, we're speaking out & saying, "ARSESEX IS OFFENSIVE & those who promote it don't speak for anyone except themselves. There is a different way! See the Related Link below.