I know exactly how you feel. Remember the Channel No. 5 commercial....
Share the fantasy"? That's how I felt when my husband (of 12 years) and I
split up....
Hi Jackalene. I read your message and let me tell you this... you are not being abusive by standing up for yourself. I would feel so guilty for standing up to...
Bead Guy. It's hard to do and easier to say... but who cares what she says. I sat long and hard one day thinking why I always needed to explain my side of...
So sorry to hear that. I'd say ignore him. But you do what you feel is best. Last year my abuser told me I was a mentally ill and needed psychiatric help and...
I think most of us can relate. My abuser used to give me the silent treatment for weeks on end. If in between I got a hold of him he'd say, "Just go think...
I agree that they can't change and they don't think they need to. However, I don't think they believe there is nothing wrong with them. They know there is...
Has the lady at your church ever been married to an P or N? If not, she knows nothing about it! I stayed 10 years. He has remarried twice and divorced...
Many women are now expected by the courts to file bankruptcy after the court gives them ridiculous bills of their ex to pay. It is insane. ... From: Deanne...
I guess the hard part for me inside is that she picked me apart on issues she knew I was insecure on. I am in the Detroit area, and people are losing jobs...
If you heard someone else tell you of a woman who said that to her partner, what would you think? You wouldn't think bad about the guy, but about how rude it...
thanks. I am trying, and I appreciate the advice from people. I guess alot of people ask me what I am trying to solve with this in my head, and I ask...
OMG....Bead Guy!! I couldn't have said it better myself! You've just taken the words from my mouth! I've said the same thing about me now...."I don't...
Sharon, for your protection, I am removing your post with your personal contact information. The policy is that we do not make this kind of information public...
I think that forgiving my "PSN" is an ongoing thing with me. I cannot and will not forget what I am still going thru with my abuser. The lessons he taught me...
When I finally realized that I was being abused my "N" had found a way to completely isolate me from everyone who could or would help me get away. I have no...
I feel so stupid right now. I'm getting the silent treatment. I don't live with my abuser. So, it's easy for him to give me the silent treatment whenever he...
dont feel stupid. I am starting to realize that its not supposed to be this hard to love somebody. I miss my exgf more than life itself, but I realize now...
Well said, Brian....and you are sooooo right. I've been there and I'm done with that!!! I'm so over the games these people play. ... From: Bk The Bead Guy...
I haver a friend of tenty yeara who I took verbal anmd emotional ab use from She is now addicted t pain killers and she is more abusive than ever She has had 6...
I will stop calling. I have stopped calling. I sent an email explaining how I was feeling. I know it won't matter. But that's the extent of what I can do....
Hello, For weeks I have sat back and read the emails each of you has sent. I am just now coming back to the old me. My story is 12 years old so it would take...
Hi, This is my first posting here though joined awhile ago. I grew up with an N and for most of my life could not even touch anger within myself, just could...
I was part of a different support group, but I went back to my N and lost track of it. My situation is a bit weird. I met someone online, a 'Friend' and I'm...
I had an involevent similar for 5 years We haed a brief incounter and met online It ended but we kept in touch over thye internet Friends Not friends it almost...
I have a friend who is addicted to pain killersd and has been abusive to me for years We work together She just totalled her 2nd car in ayear and will be...
... Yep. I've gone through two Mediators for child access. My N has worked his magic on both. ATM he's insisted it's "safe" to let his Aspergers daughter to...
Phoenix,  I've been going through a horrible custody battle with my ex-p for over a year. It has been pure hell. My ex-p delights in attacking me, lying,...
my son is also asperger's! wow! what a coincidence. narcissistic husband and asperger's child. my ex-n has filed a motion to have my custody taken away...