Marci I agree 100% with all you said. I was married 18 years to a man who never loved me and I don't think he knows what that word means even with our 3...
All I can say after that heart wrenching story is.....I feel your pain....and I am so sorry for you and your kids. My prayers are with you. ... From:...
How long after starting no contact before the intense hurt and anger subsides? It still interupts my days sometimes to where I can hardly concentrate. I...
Speaking for myself....it's been 2 years of No Contact and I'm still hurt and angry...only not as intensely. I still don't want to trust many people too...
It takes time to get through the anger stage. Even when the relationship is one that has been difficult, there is a loss of a sort to deal with and you will...
I have spent eleven years with this man in order to keep him from ever being alone with our children and I cant take this anymore, all the attempts I have made...
Same here so Im here for you if you need to vent ____________________________________________________________ Put your future on the fast track with a pharmacy...
I agree with you completely that he would retaliate. He told me back in December about a little stunt that he pulled and then told me he knew I would never...
I left a narcissist 2 years ago, I believe it may actually be an anniversary today... He came a year later and tried to convince me to team up. I actually...
OMG! I let it happen again! I believed the promises. I believed he really couldn't live without me. I believed that he really wanted this family to work. I...
I have monitored these letters for quite a while now. My father was an abusor and my mother an enabler. I have been on my own since 14. two bad marriages...
I wish that I could offer some help, but I am in the same boat you're in except my 2 kids don't have the health problems your does. I don't want my ex around...
You are so right to run as fast as you could from people not right for you. I didn't. I stayed 18 years. Not one year was good. I decided after that I would...
I don't call you stupid. You were believing he had changed and you want that. In a perfect world he would not be a narcissist and come back and be loving...
Greetings to the group. After having read the unusual number of notes this evening, hearing your pain and struggles and confusion, in which we all hear some of...
The Urge to Volley with the N: The Ping Pong Match By KyraJames [Image] Imagine this is as the scenario right now. A ping-pong match. You on one side, and the...
I have an abusive friend who is a drut addict and addicted to prescription drugs She puts me down condtantly Tonite on the train she stormed away becxause she...
Help I have a narcissistic girlfriend who not only moved near me 7 years ago but I work with...every few weeks her drug addiction remerges but then she sobers...
I gained strength to walk away from someone I thought was my abuser. He never hit me but for some reason I thought he was abusing me. I left. I was strong....
(((Saba))) if you never heard of the word abuse you would still have known things were not right in the relationship. A narcissist person never takes blame...
--Saba, I did the same thing, I thought if I could just try a little harder, or different I could make it work, I could get back that sunshiny person that I...
Thanks. I've come a long way. I've been on this group for years now. Every year around this time, I write what's happening. Every year I promise this is it,...
Wow, Look at yourself and see what payoff you are getting for being the victim. If you do not wish to be the victim, decide that and find a support group in...
I'm not in a personal relationship with a psychopath or sociopath, but I have some sociopaths living next door. This was my father's property and I noticed on...
I am with you. I am interested in how to put a stop to these sorts of things. I have never been in your exact situation, but I think in general the best...
Hi and Welcome. I wish I had better news for you. You are definitely being targeted by these Ps and their chief issue is that you hold the cards that could put...
I should add that if the Ps think you are of some threat to them through exposure of their behaviour for example, they will excalate and continue the...
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