My husband 58, I most agree with him or else. He is right no one else is. Every move I make is wrong. He does not like it when I enjoy things; He has throw...
Hello. I am really confused right now, and I don't know where to begin. I would like to know if the man I am with is in fact a Narcissist/Emotional Abuser or...
Hello. I am really confused right now, and I don't know where to begin. I would like to know if the man I am with is in fact a Narcissist/Emotional Abuser or...
I want to say that I know this feeling well. I just lived a similar situation but he was physically abusive as well as emotionally and psychological which is...
People actually respond to this? Euwwww... It gives off the "If we meet your body will be found in the dumpster of the restaurant I took you to." My thoughts...
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this is hard. you will get thru it. you have too. keep going forward stop dwelling on him and life with him. MAKE up your mind..........U do desrve better. no...
thanks.....GEE..........it felt good to hear from someone FAMILAR...........its scary but PEACE is UNREAL.........so serene and NO MIND GAMES NEAR ME! am...
Thank you! I just don't know how to leave. What if there is no one out there? What if the next person is the same? But I guess I won't know until I make...
"meant to be together". that quote is one that signifies that you believe in fate or destiny. if you believe in fate or destiny, then you must believe in a...
GREAT ADVICE!!! I really needed to hear that! I'm really doing great 90% of the time, it's the measly 10% that gets to me, it's mostly on Sunday's I've...
Can you explain how "he is so good to you"..yet he ignores you all the time and is unwilling to commit to you. Please don't cry. You have nothing to lose. I...
to ignore is a form of abuse. not allowing you to share your "intimate"feelings (intimacy is more than sex) is also abuse. N;s are afraid of intimacy. what...
Hello: This is the first time I have posted...am new here....but I can see that we all share common ground...deep and inexplicable pain. After having read the...
psychopaths and narcissists have many overlapping characteristics but the difference is this: narcissists need people. they need their adulation, praise,...
WOW...............what a way to look at that................that is surely in a way most any one can think its so TRUE...........thanks for sharing ...
this si true..........but i personally am working on codependency alot of ppl who are with N's are........we do not need to find our value in how others treat...
i toally agree! why do we settle for less......why are we not valued? we NEED to be..........and we are not doing oursleves any good by staying with them its ...
I have been through a similar issue. My ex, who I have now been divorced from for a little over two years, filed for Divorce and tried to be very amicable, as...
You are so right. When all else fails our Higher Power is always there.And yes, once you start to realize that you were in an abusive situation, there's...
oh, all my friends...this is the hardest most confusing thing that I've EVER been thru in my life.Oh yes, he was my 'soulmate', we were meant to be, all that...
Hi group. I don't know if there is anyone like me subscribed to this group but I am merely seeking some guidance after coming up dry in all my searches...
Lea and Brenda...THANK YOU! There are similarities I find in each of your circumstances to my own....especially "We appear as the abusers".....and dealing with...
Saba~I have felt the same way and I experience similar situations where my husband has not touched me in years. I threaten to separate and he tells me that I...
Hi Jim - You are a good person who recognizes what your girlfriend has gone through and I admire you for wanting to work on it. I was married to an N for 14...
you have compulsive disorders and anger management issues? there is another category that you may want to put yourself into: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse...
Jenn, thank you SO much for your response. It really means a lot and it seems you really understand where I am coming from. Quite a bit of what you wrote...
