Hi. I can't advise you on the legal stuff - that would be your attorney's job. But don't lethim off the hook. You can get the Successful Tips document, it's...
I have been with an N through a divorce years ago. I was not educated on N's or their disorders but I have learned a lot since. The N does not like to be in...
Hi Carrie. You say... I learned (and it was a hard lesson) when he called just hang up, don't listen to a single word he says, if he comes around close the...
The Violence Against Women Act - A Powerful Solution or Vigilantism By Scarlette McCallum Nakamura While men appear to be the victims of fraudulent restraining...
hELLO AND THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP i AM RECENTLY GETTING DIVORED AFTER 20 YEARS OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN THAT MADE ME BELIEVE I AM INCAPAPABLE OF HAVING AN...
I'm not going to tell you that being alone is easy at first. It's been 8 months since I've heard from my XN and I still think about him every day. He did the...
My heart goes out to you I lived with one for 11 years and never wanted to divorce but my life felt like it was being sucked out of me. My best advice is for...
The Narcissist as Eternal Child By: Dr. Sam Vaknin Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), the Narcissist, and...
You are not Crazy one bit, but..........you could have post traumatic stress disorder, I did and it was the most wonderful thing I could do for myself to talk...
Sally you are sooooooo correct and exactly what I went through. Carrie I'm not going to tell you that being alone is easy at first. It's been 8 months since...
THank you Carrie that was so enlighting. I am a mess right now. I asked him to move outa nd of course in front ot the kids he is telling them he is sleeping in...
You will make it dear lady, for sure you will and it will be a long and more tiring road until he realizes he does not have control over you any longer. Hold...
... <no_reply@y...> wrote: Hey sugared_berries....what type of help do you need......we are here to help but we can only do that if you let us know whats...
No more having to say you're sorry for who you are. Hold your head up and know that God loves us for all that we are and for just who we are. Never apologize...
Hi Sugared. Welcome. You haven't indicated what the problem is and we're all here to help with our stories and any help we can offer. Learn as much as you can...
Hi, just alone and needing to write and vent my fear and intimidation. Im so mad at me for allwoing me to be so controlled for twenty years. I signed my...
You're feeling exactly what he wants you to feel! It's time for you to take control of YOUR life now. YOU are in charge now. And you can decide to stay feeling...
Dear no reply, You are just who you are and don't have to prove who or what you are to anyone now. Take a deep breathe and know that you finally respected...
Thank you kindly for your input, i cried as i read it i am sad with myself for allowing me to be run by fear. im hanging on by a thread and holding.. thank you...
Well Head up kid. You aren't doing it no more. It is very hard to understand the enabling part of our personalities. Many people would not tolerate what we...
My dearest dearest lady, PLEASE DO NOT ANSWER THE PHONE TO HIM AGAIN !!! This is now up to you, you have made a very important step in ending the abuse now it...
Exactly Jennifer !! Good advice to her !! Carrie You're feeling exactly what he wants you to feel! It's time for you to take control of YOUR life now. YOU are...
I agree with syl_doll to the point of crying and feeling free but to the other point of no anger.............you need to get angry at him for making you feel...
