Hi, Lynne, Be sure to read these - click on the links: http://samvak.tripod.com/faq78.html http://samvak.tripod.com/5.html Take care. Sam ... From: "Lynne"...
Are you going to a therapist? You really need a support person/system to help you see that he is a loser..good riddance! He will hurt her too, if that makes...
You are strong..and have a good support system for court. Make sure your divorce atty is good..mine is an N too...bad luck on my part. You can change your...
I am sorry that you have this pain..but sometimes it is necessary to change your life around. You said "I'm ready to give up"....YES!! Please give up on this...
It takes "courage" to do this - keep strong! Psalm 119:89-96 (The Message) 89-96 What you say goes, God, and stays, as permanent as the heavens. Your truth...
They become a "redeemed" narcissist but they are still a "narcissist" - if your question is asking, do they change? No Saved? Yes, from hell but not from...
Did you say you were a Christian? Satan is very crafty in getting us sucked into thinking that we need to forgive those who are abusive and then they destroy...
I have survived an 19 year marriage living with a narcissist, only because I reached out for help and got it. It is a rare phenomenon I realize but I took the...
You've got to get away and stay away. That is the only answer. You can't figure him out. No one can figure out a psychopath. I completely understand the...
I think it's wrong to assume a divorce will settle this. I divorced one and he became the psycho from hell, he won custody of the kids, charmed his way ...
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Oct 31, 2006 8:55 pm
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Hi. I'm so sorry that you are going through this, but I do admire your strong steps in knowing the harsh reality of this disorder and to seek a divorce to end...
I walked into the courtroom with my father. We were seated. My DV counselor and the police officer who witnessed everything were there for me. They were...
Thank you Carla, I am moving forward every day although it is a confusing journey. He is not the standard type of NPD, and I think more research about this...
Hi, I'm sorry you're hurting so much over this thing. Please, recognise that this person is much like a cigaratte. You being the smoker. Just stop. He feels...
Johnson C.G
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Oct 31, 2006 6:32 pm
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Hi Sam, This was very interesting to read. I did buy the book "Malignant Self Love," but I haven't absorbed it all as of yet. When my husband, who's also been...
Do P's enjoy torturing your very soul & destroying your mind to the point that you can't think straight and actually feel that you are the crazy one? I'm ready...
http://samvak.tripod.com/narcissismreality.html The Narcissist's Warped Reality and Retroactive Emotional Content The Narcissist's Depersonalization and...
The grandiose fantasies of the narcissist inevitably and invariably clash with his drab, routine, and mundane reality. We call this constant dissonance the...
sounds like you have come to terms with what you need to do. i am sorry you are going thru this...........BUT i think you have done your part for long enough...
TJ i know you are hurting. i am sorry that you are but you have some major healing to do. I have been in therapy now for 7 months and i am also in a support...
juUST WHEN I left my guard down the woman i work with it is at it again. Everytime i utter one word on the train or at work she says "who gives a shit..or...
Lynne, Good luck to you in court. I'm so sorry for everything that has happened to you :( You're a lot stronger than me. Katharine, I feel for you too. I know...
Correspondence with M. William Phelps Author of "PERFECT POISON" (August, 2003) Copyright M. William Phelps, Kensington Publishing Corp. 2002 Continue to read...
Hi, Katharine, These may be of help - click on the links: When Victims "Become" Narcissists http://samvak.tripod.com/faq42.html The Narcissist's Victims ...
Friends I just had to talk to HIM again as he has a moving company coming on Tues to get his stuff to move into his new home with HER. It's killing me, he...
Katharine, You're welcome! I face him in court on Tuesday, Oct. 31st. I am walking into that courtroom with my head held high, like I own the place. He...
Welcome This site has been a great help to me. It has given me a venue to vent my confusion and anger and to share my emotions when I had no where else to go....
My husband of 13 years was just diagnosed as a narcisstic personality disorder after a summer of suicidal thoughts, psych-ward hospitalizations, and failed...