Okay, so now I'm in the recovery state from a relationship with a N. I have my good days and bad ones.....how long does it take to feel normal again! I have...
The longest I've been out with mine is 30 days (2 times before - I'm approaching that point now again today) But for me - I'm starting to feel like myself...
This is very inspiting. Thaks you and best wishes. It also brings up a thought. Should there be more tools of recovery listed on the website in order to...
Just remember that people have short attention spans and they will eventually move onto someone else's dilemma they can judge. Think of Omarosa. She doesn't...
Yes, there's a definite connections for some types of Ns. Do you watch the FX show 'Nip/Tuck'? One of the main surgeons is a definite sexual narcissist...
Does anyone know if there is a link between Narcissist Personality ... The N that I know has gotten a really strong sex addiction....seems like he can't get...
I myslelf dont know if there is a TIME FRame........i was with my N 8 years.........and i kept thinking he would realize how much he needed me........and want...
Slander is such a favored weapon of NPDs and SPDs. They are very good at it too. I want to A) get away from these types whenever possible, but B) learn more...
I've read they are very prone to addiction in general. Because they are emotionally numb they have a feeling of emptiness that drives them crazy. They like to...
This is all very good advise. It's difficult at times to think rationally when you're hurting so very much. I realize that many will never know the truth and...
“Right now the toughest things I'm dealing with is the utter rejection and being totally blamed 100% for everything that has happened.” I completely...
... rejection and ... children with my N Finace of 8 years but i know exsctly what you mean when you typed about your being blamed for everyting. I HOPE the...
Carla, you & I have talked before - & here we are again & why? Because we'tre both still in pain - you've been my angel more than once - I need to be yours...
Hello Sean...you are most welcome! I think it would be great to have more tools for recovery. I have been relying upon books that I have read in the past and...
Hi, I read you letter and felt I was reading my own. My ex NH left me for a nurse at his hospital and then he and his family told the city I had an affair....
I love this idea. We need a place to get help to move out of the bad place with an n and into a better way of living whether the N is in our life or not. My...
I have recently gotten out of a relationship with a man that lasted 15 months and was all lies, every single minute of it. He told me he was divorced. He was...
Unfortunately, this seems to be a common thread among narcissists. They take any kind of narcissistic injury, even if you've really done nothing to them in...
I am hearing more and more of this. My husband divorced me. I was totally crushed because he'd been blaming me for everything and I know it's not in my...
Hi, Just a thought..he is using the credit card as his way to stay attached. You could ask him for the full amount via email or letter..keep a copy btw. You...
Thanks Brenda, That sounds very painful, I never had to deal with one in a shared parenting situation. Maybe when these kids are older you can teach them about...
Thanks Theresa, This is just fascinating. Thanks you this really opened my eyes. Although not my worst narcissist, I realize form this article that I lived...
No problem. Glad to pass these on. Sam Vaknin is really good at explaining the process of narcissism. I also had the somatic type...and they are charmers..and...
I am tired. today i TRIED once again to be Doing good. IN my head i kept trying to live a normal life and spend quality time with my son. (ITS SAD THAT THIS...
