dear donna, thanks for being so sensitive to what is going on with me and for trying to get your message across so carefully i know it's not easy to do so, i...
i just wanted to clarify a point incase i was misunderstood i mentioned 2 messages ago that some aquaintances were conveniently stabbing my Bf in the back as...
Dear Enough, You make plenty of sense especially since I have had the same philosophies and anxieties to understand how could anyone be this way. You have my...
Hi, I'm a married person who's come to terms with the fact thatmy spouse fits the OCPD trait list. The Jackyl and Hyde description is why I joined this group....
Hi Laura, The Jackyl and Hyde – it’s so terrifying. I remember when I felt so completely crazy that my ex lead me to believe I needed to be on Lithium. He...
hi donna i can feel for you, even though i dont know all the details of your story with your ex, nor anything about him you are right, i do tend to neglect...
Dear Enough, Thanks for your response I enjoyed your perspective and smiled at the familiarity of someone seeing things the way I do. I always take things...
i am so grateful to have 'met' you there is nothing like the feeling of being understood by someone who is on the same wavelength it does seem as if we have a...
i found this article today, http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/empathy.html <http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/empathy.html> i found it useful... empathy,...
Children need their mothers and fathers. They need them to be involved in their lives, as examples, role models and best friends. What better peer for a child...
Dear Enough, Yes I am glad to have met you also!!!! You make me laugh and giggle (something I miss so much) In my opinion laughter is a healer. Usually I make...
Dear Me: I do realize that I want to forgive him, but I hold much anger toward him. I should not send emails to him, please, he is a psychopath and my emails...
Dear Alice, How are you doing? You havent been sharing too much lately and I wonder if you are okay. I take it that things are on a upswing for you and I am...
Hi, First I wish to thank the people whom have obviously done alot of home work in order to take care of them selves in situations with very sick people around...
after 8 chaotic years with this man, i have finally figured out that he really DOES have some serious problems....i just could not wrap my mind around the fact...
You are in a situation where you seem to be dependent on him for your care. I'm sure you will get plenty of good information here, but it seems that if you...
Donna - thanks for asking - actually I still have so many ups and downs.....I talked to my therapist yesterday and told her I want to focus on myself, but...
"You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there." Edwin Louis Cole Excerpts from 'The Emptied Soul' - by Adolf Guggenbuhl-Craig "Another...
Dear Alice, I am glad you responded I kind of figured you may be also going up and down and just like everyone says it's normal. Please beware that it seems...
Dear Tore-- First, please change the name toredownshakey. We must not claim what the enemy suggest in our psyche. You my love are far from torn down. You...
Donna - your wise and comforting words are wonderful......I sincerely hope they inspire 'toredown' to go on and see the wonder and goodness of her own self. ...
Thanks Darla, I appreciate the article.....wow, I've been really busy with other things...but, this NPD and psychopath issue lingers and looms...I'm just...
Dear Alice, You know that's right girl!!!! This is why it's so important for us to keep connected at this time to help others. I know it helps me as well. I...
Dear Laura, I like the fact that you seem to know what you want. I am concerned that you maybe sliding in a not so good position by feeding yourself something...
hello i will like to know u beter butch4750 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote: This depends on a couple of things. First off, how long then what were your...
Donna, Thanks for being here for so many people. In additions to reading your share to me, the things you are saying toothers is also being of utmost help. I...
my name is on the the "from" and I don't know how to get it off?? can someone help me?? The privacy thing is the motive and to have my name posted on the...
Dear Laura, You touch me so as I read your response to Alice. This an emotional roller coaster. We will get through it. Looking at things the way you are is...
