Dear Marlina Your right it is important to read everyday it will make you strong. Just reading your email reminded me of the trauma I need to permanently...
Dear TJ, The wonderful effect of this website is that it calls a spade a spade it's just a supporting element to go through the healing that we all must do....
Right on, Donna....Good advice about the healing that we all must do. And....the stages, they are so important. I have to remind myself not to be impatient,...
Hi TJ, Yes, I believe, when a person withdraws affection and intimacy from you, they are trying to control you or punish you in some way. Especially if they...
thankyou dear, sometimes it is good to hear thoughts you may already have come from another person, just for that reassurance that maybe your thoughts and...
sounds like you're hurting pretty badly; however hard it is though you will live; it just feels like you're dying...truth is you are...sounds like you not only...
I have been reading posts here for the past 7 months and been completely amazed for several of those months that I wasn't out of my mind. It is obvious to me...
Dear Christina, Keep your head up, I can see your doing a great job at being healthy. Keep on focusing and thinking but don't forget to take the time out to...
Dear Christina, Keep your head up, I can see your doing a great job at being healthy. Keep on focusing and thinking but don't forget to take the time out to...
Dear Fled, I found that the more we focus on what they have taken the more lost we feel and the more we are not able to heal. Acknowledge it as inventory and...
Dear Donna, Hi! I'm still away, staying with friends. I decided to stay longer. All is well. I am starting to get over this. The change of scene is good. ...
Donna, Thanks for your response. I wish every day that he would just disappear but lately he has been stepping up his attempts to control. He writes me 5 or 6...
... to our 2 kids. I had a couple of chances to get out during that time. He manipulated it everytime to some amazing degrees. He even used the church twice...
... hurt he did to you. It is easy to remember the good when you are lonely,or miss him . I am 48 too and there are times when I miss him. After so long it is...
... heal and have a good normal life. Keep protecting and nurturing that little girl. hugs mama P In Psychopathsgroup@yahoogroups.com, donna brathwaite...
... number,move what ever it takes. It can be so easy to get sucked back in. They know us soo well. Probably better then we do ourselves. They know just what...
Hi I know you probably did not like my first post ,but I am serious ,about this group. I want to work through the stuff I went through with him. He has not...
Hi all, I get busy, as we all do, and don't get to read everything which I suppose is good, but yet want to be communicating to get through the pain of having...
"When considering a new relationship of any kind, practice the Rule of Threes regarding the claims and promises a person makes, and the responsibilities he or...
My ex used to go with me grocery shopping all the time. When we broke up i had a really hard time going grocery shopping. Even once he showed up at my grocery...
There is nothing a N wants to do more than hurt you after a break up. My ex had an affair with a nurse and rubbed it in my face,,,,in many ways. Then, when...
Do I have a wonderful story to tell. For I have just confronted the Psychopath that also happens to be the mother of my kids. And to tell you the truth, it is...
Wow Darla! Thank you so so SO much for that. I've been so down about this NEW person. I am trying SO hard to tell my heart. HE IS NO GOOD. HE IS A TOTAL...
I was reading these posts and have for some time.I have been in a relationship that has some things going on that shouldn't be. I think my husband is...
I hear ya, Butch....It's so hard sometimes. I am sitting here on a Friday night, thinking how I miss the communication of the last N who walked into my life,...
The Awakening by Virginia Swift A time comes in your life when you finally get it. When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your...
Thanks for the nice resources...Just realized that I have met some Ns in my life. Some of them really hurt me. It is no use trying to wait it out with them....
Hi and Welcome. I hope your X never returns to wreak more havoc in your life. Yes, they are very screwed up and learning about creatures like this and...
