Yeah I know (about not wanting to know who they get involved with next). However some resources I've read and learned from state narcissists pick other ...
Actually I'm not the one that wrote the original question (i.e. 'NnoStone's part' below). Debbie is. I was just asking Debbie a few questions about the ...
Yes,the trigger point with this guy seems to be if I say some stupid thing (it's always something I say without thinking)that in anyway insinutates anything...
I finally figured out that Debbie was the originator. I know what you mean, it gets confusing as to which particular problem belongs to who. I don't guess it...
Up to now, you haven't had to be careful about what you said to anyone. The comments he goes ballistic over are comments noone else would take any offense to....
You know, when I think back, certain things he's said told me he's very paranoid about everyone. I kept having to assure him all the time that I wasn't out to...
Oh....I'm seeing some sick, familiar patterns here. 1. Paranoid. There is not even a way to have a different opinion without offending the beast. If you...
... blown up over, HE WILL SHUN YOU MERCILESSLY until you apologize. I think this is pretty much what is going on now, except for the fact that as I wrote...
Debbie, he is using the fact that you dont want to look bad in front of others as a means to keep abusing you. It's hard, but your secrecy is perpetuating...
Hey Sarah: Thanks for the tips. I've already put into the works some of the things you've mentioned for my own protection. Debbie ... front ... secrecy ... ...
I guess the biggest bit of advice i can give to you is DO NOT BE SCARED...he feeds off that. Ns are cowards...and he won't in reality say anything bad about...
Yeah, I'm hoping by my ignoring him and not chasing after him trying to mend the situation further, I'm giving the message that I don't give a damn whether he...
I have been reading a lot of the posts. My husband has done many things which sound so familiar in the other posts. As I said in my last post, I stopped...
HI Sarah, I read from time to time the posts here, and have posted a few times on my own N experiences which I simply can't believe that I am a part of this...
Lanie, I am new here too. You just descibed my husband! My nickname for him these past 4 years has been.... "PB" ....his mom thinks it stands for "Pooh Bear"....
Brenda, After reading so many of the posts I figured someone would be married to his "twin." Is your husband smooth with how he does things? My very best...
Lanie, My husband of over 4 years suddenly announced to me last December The weekend before Christmas, that he was planning on leaving me in the spring. I was...
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Margauex, I am with you...they are pit bulls with no conscience. Never give in, t watch your back at all times. If you attack them, they will attack back...
I so totally agree with Margaux. No one wants to frighten you or tell you that you should put up with that kind of crap (for lack of a better word) from...
Hi Lainie, DO you have kidm? If you don't.....get the heck out of that marriage. What he has done to my kids is the worst emotional and verbal abuse...the...
I remember your first post. You referred to the problems in your relationship as "it". I can so relate to that. Just "it". You know there is something...
Yes, he is MR. Smooth talker. Everyone he works with and meets, thinks he is so wonderful. He does have alot of good qualities, and will go out of his way to...
Yes, I am learning that. It seems the longer I know him, the harder he's getting to deal with. That's exactly what I feel he is doing, trying to make me pay...
I'm Heart Sickened ! Hello to all, I am very heart sickened for the last couple of weeks due to some recent news. For just as I get by with one unjust thing...
I really draw from you all, in getting some sense of sanity to the madness. All my life, I've been the first to compliment other's, assist those in need, and...
Hi Brenda, Gracious, I feel for you. These men are the worst of the worst. They bite to kill. It's always stunning to me, as they bite so furiously that it...
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Yes Margaux, I agree. I guess that's why this guy blew a gasket when I said what I did; because it scared him into thinking that my words would cause others to...
