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THE NARCISSIST -- Narcissists focus on serving themselves. They generally are not intentionally predatory, but "they are always looking to gain reassurance and...
How enraged and vengeful would a person suffering from NPD become if you ignored any and all of thier romantic overatures? I think that I "ignored" the wrong...
They probably could not accept it and would stalk you or defame you. 1 or the other. It's not about you. Before all this, they would tell you how wpcial you...
Hi Pearl. That's a very difficult question to answer. What kind of history of 'rage and vengeful' does the person have? Are you being stalked? In all cases -...
Please help me. It's three years - together, apart, abuse, the insane cycle. After reading this site, I realize I've become emotionally unstable (almost)...
My guess would be to go to Alanon or something. They will tell you to take care of yourself. Substitute your old bad behaviors for new good behaviors. Realize...
Hi and Welcome. First off, what is his payoff? Making you jump and pay attention to him? You are geographically removed so I assume he's not sitting outside...
Thank you. You're right. Everything that I've read over the past week tells me that no contact is the only way to get this sadist out of my life. Hugs,...
Hi. It takes a lot of willpower - one of the dangers of these sites is that we read about the causes and problems of the NPs and we can think we can help them....
You know, I had much of the same experience as you, Darla. I was under the impression that because he had so many issues (alcoholism being one of them) that I...
link courtesy of Nickyskye... Two sides of the same coin Many narcissists are gifted and creative people who have the daring to undertake tasks that would...
HI Cheapy. It seems the cruelest blow that our nurturing natures are so targeted and taken advantage of. I admire people who go through their whole lives with...
't my heart see what my head knows- that he is no good??? I'm sure many others out there feel the same way- they long for the way things were at first- when he...
Hi Cheapy. You are going through the turmoil right now and like all of us you need to learn as much as you can as fast as you can and protect yourself...
Yeh, I agree, it's called taking a mental helath break. Take time off from it. It's not an emergency. They are adults and can take care of themselves. If it's...
Thanks guys- I do agree with you. If I could stop all contact with him, I would. Unfortunately until I find another job, I see him daily. He's actually in...
You ARE doing good. But remember at all times from this second on, and forever, that he is a mental patient. Most people won't see it becuae he puts on an ...
You ARE right, Sue. That is how I got into this sitution by sharing too much information with him. I just won't say anything at work anymore... This has been...
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Dr. Watson and Mr. Hastings The Narcissist and His Friends By: Dr. Sam Vaknin Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD),...
The Three Forms of Closure Emotional, Verbal, and Psychological Abuse, Domestic and Family Violence and Spousal Abuse Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The...
i love someone very much who is a psychopath. in the beginning of our relationship he told me he loved me and gave me a ring. we enjoyed every second spent...
Anjelica- I've been in a similar situation myself. And while I hate to sound harsh- there is no 'reaching' him. What you saw as love was only a facade. They...
Hi Anjelica. I know you are heartbroken. You are seeing Jekyll/Hyde. But the sad hurt that is so incomprehensible to us is that he's really Mr. Hyde - that guy...
Hi members. I have received this email, apparently Dr. Amy Baker is having trouble joining our forums and asked me to post this up on her behalf. Greetings, I...