I was part of a different support group, but I went back to my N and lost track of it. My situation is a bit weird. I met someone online, a 'Friend' and I'm married. Things got out of hand, and this person tricked me into falling for him. He's frighteningly smart, clever, well spoken, and unfortunately for me, the only person I've met who likes the EXACT same things I do: Same exact music, movies, gets all of my references and jokes, same dry sense of humor....But it's been 5 months of mind games, gaslighting, insults, being ignored, being rejected, then being begged to come back, so the cycle can continue. Last month, he made me 6 personal mixtapes and sent me his walkman. He's one of those sensitive, pretentious poet types. The sad irony is, I don't think he really feels anything, I think he lives vicariously through music and his writing. He has a girlfriend, who he seems to blame for everything, he just finally got a job (ice cream truck driver) that he's held for 4 months, "a record" for him(he's 33), he's up all night, drinking, and almost seemed to be bragging on his Myspace 'status update' that the cops showed up after his girlfriend called the police because he was drunk and screaming in her face. He has 2 kids, one of them with a terminal illness, and he has told me he feels detached, and regrets having them. Anyway, he started messing with my head again, so I threw the tapes in the garbage, and blocked him. For a month he tried to get in touch with me, watching my profile everyday. I relented, and took him back AS A FRIEND. He was livid about the tapes, but pretended to forgive me, so he could get even, in my opinion. I was nice, genuine, supportive, and suddenly.....nothing. My letters went unanswered. Finally, I got frantic, asking him what was wrong. Then, fed up once again, I told him off, deleted my account, made 5 new ones, each of them being discovered by him. He sent me some insults, and a threatening, harassing statement, which I sent to Myspace when I filed a complaint. Not sure if they're actually going to do anything about it, though. He's a monster. He makes me ill.