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Re: [Psychopaths and Narcissists group] help.......

Sharon, for your protection, I am removing your post with your personal contact
information. The policy is that we do not make this kind of information public
on the forum. Anyone on the internet could read it and we don't want our
members to have problems because they've posted their phone or contact info.

Thanks,
Lynn




Fri Jul 3, 2009 11:13 pm

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I have been married(my second marriage) to my spouse for six year. when we first me...he was wonderful..attentive, loving, fun,exciting,..honestly...the...
Jackalene
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Jun 26, 2009
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Jackalene, I consider you've not lost yourself at all... yes, there's been a departure but if he'd "won" you wouldn't protest.  So perhaps you have...
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Jackalene
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Jun 26, 2009
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I think it is a question of being aware or unaware of your negative traits. Everyone has them but the trick is to identify them, recognize them as they occur...
Sharon Burke
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Jun 27, 2009
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Hi, This is my first posting here though joined awhile ago. I grew up with an N and for most of my life could not even touch anger within myself, just could...
darling.dianna
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Jul 7, 2009
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yes,  in many ways i think it is our nature to be nurtured into being like them.  once, i was filled with love, empathy, and compassion.  now, i am just as...
lea guider
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Jun 27, 2009
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Well said, Lea!  I agree.  I, myself, have turned into an actor...I feel that way sometimes.  It does seem that everywhere you look, there are P's and...
Regina Barnes
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Jun 30, 2009
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How and when does the pain of being used go away?  I cant trust, I dont beleive anything anyone says, I long for the woman I thought I knew and believed in,...
Bk The Bead Guy
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Jun 30, 2009
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Bead Guy. It's hard to do and easier to say... but who cares what she says. I sat long and hard one day thinking why I always needed to explain my side of...
canadiansaba
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She was never your friend.  Everything you knew about her was a lie.  Her whole life is a lie.  Get a grip.  Get some anti-depressants, go on a trip, meet...
Scott
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Jun 30, 2009
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You get over a person by dwelling on the bad when you think about that person instead of magnifying the good as often happens. In a message dated 6/30/2009...
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Good advice.  I wish I had said it. ... From: Anntnwv@... <Anntnwv@...> Subject: Re: [Psychopaths and Narcissists group] help....... To:...
Scott
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Jun 30, 2009
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I know exactly how you feel. Remember the Channel No. 5 commercial.... Share the fantasy"? That's how I felt when my husband (of 12 years) and I split up....
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Hi Jackalene. I read your message and let me tell you this... you are not being abusive by standing up for yourself. I would feel so guilty for standing up to...
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I guess the hard part for me inside is that she picked me apart on issues she knew I was insecure on.  I am in the Detroit area, and people are losing jobs...
Bk The Bead Guy
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Jul 2, 2009
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If you heard someone else tell you of a woman who said that to her partner, what would you think? You wouldn't think bad about the guy, but about how rude it...
canadiansaba
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thanks.  I am trying, and I appreciate the advice from people.  I guess alot of people ask me what I am trying to solve with this in my head, and I ask...
Bk The Bead Guy
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Jul 2, 2009
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OMG....Bead Guy!!  I couldn't have said it better myself!  You've just taken the words from my mouth!  I've said the same thing about me now...."I don't...
Regina Barnes
ginateresawo...
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Jul 2, 2009
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Sharon, for your protection, I am removing your post with your personal contact information. The policy is that we do not make this kind of information public...
Lynn
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