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Abuse by Proxy - Dr. Sam Vaknin   Message List  
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Re: Abuse by Proxy - Dr. Sam Vaknin

Darla writes:

> Well, that sounds like a healthy response to me. Let's get these
> creeps out of our lives and not worry about every little thing and
> all their nuttiness. We have lives to live and spending even a
> moment more of our precious time witht them is just wasted time to
> me. ....

Ta. Picked up soem tricks along the way. I approached Alanon ages
unsucessfully trying to rescue a friendship. I learnt about seperating
personal problems. His problems are his problems. <shrug> It works


> To help the kid and yourself, learn some boundary skills (which we
> have in abundance at our psychopath site)
> boundary faqs... [chomp]...

Pinched. Thanks. Will read when I do't have a shoulder surfer checking what
I'm typing everytime he passes by...

Rai
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Time does not heal untreated wounds!!




Wed Sep 7, 2005 5:39 pm

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Abuse By Proxy First published on Verbal and Emotional Abuse on Suite101 By: Dr. Sam Vaknin Malignant Self Love - Buy the Book - Click HERE!!! Relationships...
Darla
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Sep 4, 2005
12:33 pm

An Ozzie Gidday All, ... Strange That basically describes about 2/3 of everyone who's backstabed me in the back - not just my NP. Must say something about the...
Rai
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Sep 4, 2005
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Hi. This is a copy of our page on the smear campaign of the abuser from our MSN group on NPD. I hope you find it helpful. You're not alone, as most...
Darla
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Sep 4, 2005
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Morning Darla ... Thanks. I've been reading all I can find & lurking here for a few weeks now. There's no chance of him being diagnosed - & AFAIC his...
Rai
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Sep 5, 2005
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Well, that sounds like a healthy response to me. Let's get these creeps out of our lives and not worry about every little thing and all their nuttiness. We...
Darla
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Sep 7, 2005
1:57 am

... Ta. Picked up soem tricks along the way. I approached Alanon ages unsucessfully trying to rescue a friendship. I learnt about seperating personal problems....
Rai
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Sep 7, 2005
10:40 am

Indeed! I have this simple 3-rule motto; 1. What's the problem? 2. Whose problem is it? 3. Whose money is it? It works to simplify a whole lot of things. Hugs...
Darla
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Sep 7, 2005
11:23 pm

Gidday Darla ... Woo considered that nicked!! <g> ... My KISS principle used to be a problems when I tended to give away to his 'needs' but I've bent it a...
Rai
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