Well, that sounds like a healthy response to me. Let's get these
creeps out of our lives and not worry about every little thing and
all their nuttiness. We have lives to live and spending even a
moment more of our precious time witht them is just wasted time to
me.

There are mentally disordered and while it's nice to know the red
flags, once we get a firm grip on our boundaries and sense of self
and realize we can spot these types, let's all move to bigger and
better things and let the disordered dwell in their own messes.

To help the kid and yourself, learn some boundary skills (which we
have in abundance at our psychopath site)
boundary faqs
http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPATH/boundaryfaqs1.msnw

abuse management skills
http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPATH/abusemanagement.msnw

and, our document on Successful Tips, Tricks and Tactics which you
can email me for
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/successfultipst
ricksamptactics.msnw

I'ts free.



Take Care
femfree


--- In Psychopathsgroup@yahoogroups.com, "Rai" <ceri@t...> wrote:
> Morning Darla
>
> > Hi. This is a copy of our page on the smear campaign of the
abuser
> > from our MSN group on NPD. I hope you find it helpful. You're
not
> > alone, as most victims/targets of these abusers find themselves
in
> > the same nasty spot.
>
> Thanks. I've been reading all I can find & lurking here for a few
weeks now.
> There's no chance of him being diagnosed - & AFAIC his (mentical,
chemical &
> physical) health is his problem. I've higher priorities to look
after. So
> I'm more looking techniques to help the kid & myself. I'm looking
at asmany
> options before the obvious one.
>
>
> Rai
> ---
> Time does not heal untreated wounds!!