An Ozzie Gidday All,

> Darla FWed
> Abuse By Proxy
> .. [chomp for brevity only]...
> If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates,
> family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the
> media, teachers – in short, third parties – to do his bidding.

Strange That basically describes about 2/3 of everyone who's backstabed me
in the back - not just my NP. Must say something about the company I keep.

OK he takes it to new & horrifying heights. I usually call it 2ndhand
bullying - "Abuse By Proxy" is a clearer phrase. He'd telling others things
he know they'll pass onto me but I wasn't in a position to respond/ discuss/
have an imput. He once even tried to bully me to sign something at the bank
by sitting next to me & texting to a mutural friend that "it was all over"
if I "didn't sign". I didn't & he's still here (worse luck).

I'll take me a few days to digest all this article. Might take a print out
with me tomorrow.


Rai - still here.
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Time does not heal untreated wounds!!