Thank you Bruce & Pamela(:
--- In Psychopathsgroup@yahoogroups.com, Bruce Hinrichs
<hinrichsbruce@y...> wrote:
> Yes, I had a similar situation... a woman who came on strong,
proposed to me, showered me with love, we lived together for 2 years,
then she started seducing men at work, got fired, continued an
affair, lied and lied and lied compulsively, then one day left to be
with the new man, an old, short, ugly guy. Makes no sense until you
realize she is mentally ill. Anyway, I am in shock and depressed
over the nonsense, the cold, calloused abruptness of it, and the
betrayal. These people are evil. Good luck. Bruce.
>
> dezign4you <dezign4you@y...> wrote:Hi,
>
> I'm new to the group. I just got out of a 4 month, very intense,
> relationship with someone who I believe after reading a lot about
> this stuff, was a social psychopath and very narcissistic. It was
> very similar to the Dr. Jekyl/Mr. Hyde analogy I keep seeing
> referenced. To top it all off, I go to see a therapist after the
> relationship ends to try to get my life back in order and the
> therapist propositions me for sex. I feel like my life is
completely
> surreal! I don't really have anywhere else to turn and I'm in so
> much pain I can hardly stand it.
>
> I know I obviously have some issues myself to let myself fall in
love
> so deeply with a guy like this but I'm trying to work through that.
I
> think I have some co-dependency issues and I am working on it so I
> won't be so vulnerable again. I just feel so confused because my
> wonderful prince charming totally turned on me after I started to
> question some of the things he would say. I had a bad feeling in my
> gut about him but I was also very in love I thought. I really miss
> the good times we had together and I find myself thinking about him
a
> lot even though the relationship ended about 5 weeks ago. After one
> week, he was telling me he loved me and wanted to marry me. I
almost
> sold my house and moved to California to be with him. I live in St.
> Louis. He was always preoccupied with how much money people had,
> their salaries, what kind of cars they drove, etc. etc. He always
> seemed jealous of people that more successful too. He had a large
> amount of debt which he blamed on several different factors. He
also
> was very intelligent, outgoing, held a high ranking position in the
> military and very articulate. He was also very sexual and sometimes
I
> felt somewhat uncomfortable with amount of sex he wanted from me
but
> I thought he just really loved me. What a fool I was! Anyway, if
> there is anyone else out there that has been through something
> similar I would love to hear from you. Thanks.
>
> Melissa
>
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