Hi. It's very common for these guys to be humble and appear inferior
and they do it just to generate attention.

Thus, we become conditioned to trying to appease them. It works
beautifully. It's called brainwashing.

You may wish to join our much larger psychopath and NPD forums.
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw
and
http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPATH/messageboard.msnw

there's a much larger membership who can validate your experiences.
You did not deserve to be treated this way and it sounds like you're
very much on the path to knowledge and awareness of the tactics of
the psychopath.

Taking care - of ourselves
femfree