"Be bold in what you stand for and careful what you fall for." Ruth
Boorstin

Verbal Abuse Red Flags
http://hometown.aol.com/azterri/abuser-victim-red-flag-warnings.html

Am I in an Abusive Relationship?
http://www.whatsgoodaboutanger.com/abusive.asp

How to Spot an Abuser on Your First Date, Author Sam Vaknin
http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/9128/104161

15 Signs of an Abusive Relationship
http://www.creatingfutures.net/abusive.html
http://ohr.gsfc.nasa.gov/family/domestic/arerelation.htm

Spot the Internet Cyberpath & More Predators online
http://www.angelfire.com/journal/fighting/player.html

Signs of Emotional Abuse (A Quiz format)
http://abuse101.com/emotionalabuse.html

Lies abusers tell their victims
http://www.hhhh.org/maia/lies.html

Red Flags of Abusive Behaviour - Tactics
http://www.hopesplace.net/polyamory/redflags.html

Warning Signs of Abusive Relationships
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive_signs.htm

Are You Emotionally Abused? Questions for Women to ask themselves
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/emotional_abuse.html

Recognizing the Abusive Personality
http://abuse101.com/theabuser.html
http://hometown.aol.com/sue121/warning.html

Characteristics of an Abuser
http://abuse101.com/profile.html
http://abuse101.com/

Red Flags of Relationship Abuse
http://www.lifeskillsintl.org/page21.html

Understanding the Dynamics of Abusive Relationships
http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/p960926.html

Red Flags of Abusive Behavior
http://geocities.com/Wellesley/commons/1654/behaviors.html

Abusive Relationship Red Flags
http://www.soulselfhelp.on.ca/verbalabuse.html

Brain Washing & Mind Control Techniques
http://www.phinnweb.com/neuro/brainwash/

How to Recognize a Narcissist, Dr. Sam Vaknin
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq58.html

Recognizing the Abusive Personality by Nona Penia
http://abuse101.com/theabuser.html

85 personality disorder traits by J. Kent Griffeth, DSW
http://members.aol.com/dswgriff/chardisorder.html

Dangerous Relationships & How To Avoid Them
http://www.ccmagazine.org/edit/staff/vito37.htm

Recognizing Controlling Behaviour
http://www.drirene.com/control.htm



Warning Signs of Abusive Relationships
http://pages.ivillage.com/samuel10011/domesticviolence/id6.html

Dr. Vaknin's page on abuse
http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse.html

Dating - Warning Signs
http://www.break-the-cycle.org/warningsigns.htm

"The Loser" Warning signs that you're dating a Loser, Joseph M.
Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist Dating Red Flags (discover the P before
it's too late)
http://www.drjoecarver.com/loser.html

How young women can spot an abusive relationship
http://www.oag.state.ny.us/family/warningsigns.html

Tale of Joe Smooth - fun story and test to spot 'red flags'
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/joesmooth.shtml

Red Flags of an Emotional Manipulator:Written by Fiona McColl
http://www.heartless-
bitches.com/rants/manipulator/eighteasyways.shtml
http://heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/redflaglist.shtml

Red Flags of Emotional Abuse --..."but he said he loved me --- the
beginning"
http://www.geocities.com/andifekete/guide1.html

Verbal Abuse (gives examples of verbal responses to verbal abuse)
http://www.users.globalnet.co.uk/~bri/verbal.htm

Signs of Emotional Blackmail
http://www.couplescompany.com/Advice/Tina/EmBlackmail.htm

Relationship Warning Signs
http://www.dvirc.org.au/whenlove/checklist.htm

A Girl's Guide to Avoiding the Emotional Blackmailer
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/black2.shtml

Tips to Spot the Abuser
http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/RedFlags.html