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Well Tracy,
Thanks for joining the group. I can give you my pediatrician's information, but he is in Weston. He works with a couple of Preemies, Julia included. But he is very well-versed in what needs to be done differently with them.
I am so sorry about the RSV. Any baby born prior to 35 weeks, who has had any heart or breathing complication is eligible for the RSV shots. Your Pedi needs to send a letter of necessity to the company that makes the shots and they will send you a letter and questionnaire to fill out. The reason that most insurance companies are hesitant (ok make a major stink about it) is that the Synagis shots are about $1,800 a month.
I had them for Julia. I insisted on it. I can't believe that your doctor suggested that you NOT get them.
I had Julia in the winter time too, she came home January 16, 2003. You start to feel closeted in pretty quickly. I know how isolated I felt with just one little girl, I can't imagine how you feel with 2!
A lot of preemies face challenges, but for various lengths of time. Most kids will eventually catch up to their peers. Julia has more challenges than most as she has PVL and Cerebral Palsy. If you ever need help wading through the mire of EI, let me know, I am a PRO. Julia is graduating from the EI program here in Framingham and moving on to pre-school. It took us a long time to figure out how to navigate the system to get the services that were necessary, and what services the doctors at Children's would LIKE her to have. It is sort of a little war that Children's and EI are waging and we parents are the grunts.
I couldn't believe how quick Julia turned one! Then two! Now Three! The time with her just flew by, looking back. But when you are in the moment, it seems like it crawls.
Are the girls pushing up on their hands in tummy time? I remember 8 months as the start of it being fun to have a child. Julia started laughing and giggling and became the social butterfly she is today.
I am really glad you joined the group, even though we are in our early stages. I have contacted one of the members that I know who has preemie b/g twins who are now 4, Karen Ghilani. She will be joining in soon to give you the Twinkers side of the life.
Lisa
----- Original Message -----From: Tracy A. BessetteSent: Friday, October 21, 2005 10:15 AMSubject: RE: [Parents_As_Partners] New Member Rired. ~ Tracy BessetteHi everyone!
My twins, Charlotte & Grace, were born at 32 weeks on 2/1/05 at St. Elizabeth's
Hospital in Boston. It all happened so fast...my pregnancy was
considered high-risk because I was carrying twins and I went for
monthly ultrasounds and frequent OB visits. All was okay until
January 28th (Friday)...a regularly scheduled OB visit and they
discovered protein in my urine. I had to collect my urine for 24
hours (at my baby shower too!) and bring it to the hospital that
Sunday (1-30) with a follow-up in L&D on Monday (1-31) morning...well,
my protein count was 5 times the normal level...diagnosis was PIH -
pregnancy induced hypertension -- therefore, a c-section was planned
for me to deliver that week at 32 weeks -- ambulance ride to the
hospital and everything -- we were so not prepared for what followed.
Charlotte was born 3 lbs. 11 oz, and Grace was 3 lbs. 9 oz on Tuesday,
2-1-05. The NICU scared the life out of me! It's a whole different
world full of sounds and sights most people never experience...I
remember the first time I saw them...I just cried my eyes out for
hours not wanting to leave their sides. I can not describe in words
how it feels to leave the hospital without your babies...
They needed feeding tubes for a couple of days, while they learned the
suck, swallow, and breathe technique. They also needed help with
their lungs and were very jaundice. They required C-PAP and nasal canulaand more intensive supervision. Both had heart murmurs...they went through
testing, X-rays,etc., and the doctors finally told us it was nothing
to worry about...they spent 9 days in the SEMC NICU and on 2/9/05were transferred to Caritas Norwood Hospital to be closer to homeand were discharged on 2/25 (too soon in my opinion, but not in the casemanager's opinion, obviously).
Then we just went through the worst winter/spring...Grace and Charlotte ended
up being hospitalized at Children's Hospital in Boston with RSV (our
pediatrician advised against the vaccination for RSV). Grace had to be
taken from the house by ambulance on 3/25 because she stopped
breathing!!!!!!!! I spent Easter (3/27,also my b-day) in the hospital and
stayed there the next 11 days...it was the most HORRIBLE 11 days of my
life...NO ONE should have to see their child get a feeding tube
inserted...it was just torture seeing her so sick and on oxygen with
tubes and everything. So I stayed with Grace while Daddy took care of
Charlotte at home and on 4/4 Grace was discharged from the hospital
and Charlotte was admitted!!!!!! Ughh...luckily Charlotte wasn't as
sick as Grace and came home a few days later. We are all home now
together and I can hardly believe the are now 8.5 months old!!!!!! WOW!!
WHAT A ROLLERCOASTER RIDE!!!!!!!! We spent April just crossing our
fingers that they would stay healthy...and they did...KNOCK ON WOOD! My pedihas petitioned the insurance company for Synergis therapy this winter and weare anxiously awaiting a response. They just got the 1st 1/2 of their flu shotsyesterday and go back for the 2nd 1/2 next month...and hopefully Synergis too (pleasesay a prayer for us!)
These are my first babies and twins is overwhelming enough nevermind
having to learn the "preemie language" with terms such as Early
Intervention for Speech and Gross Motor, etc. -- do all preemies face
such challenges? How does the adjusted or corrected age work? My
questions seem endless...we were not enrolled in an EI program but picked upsome information at the reunion on it. It is all so confusing.
Our pediatrician was my doctor when I was growing up but I sometimes
wonder if she can relate to the challenges of preemies. Are there
pediatricians out there that specialize in preemie care? Any and all
info is greatly appreciated. THANK YOU! :o)
Sincerely,
Tracy A. Bessette
-----Original Message-----
From: Parents_As_Partners@yahoogroups.com [mailto:Parents_As_Partners@yahoogroups.com]On Behalf Of Lisa Richards
Sent: Friday, October 21, 2005 7:03 AM
To: Parents_As_Partners@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Parents_As_Partners] New Member Rired.Hi,Welcome to the group. We are still in our maiden voyage here... but more parents will be joining soon from the NICU Reunion.I have had two children at SEMC. My daughter Julia was born just before 28 weeks, and spent 70 days in the NICU. What a rollercoaster ride, but with a happy ending. Julia is now 2 weeks away from being 3 and she is a wonderful little kid.Please tell us about Charlotte and Grace. How long were they in the NICU? How are you doing now that they are home? How is Early Intervention going?LisaSAHM to Julia (11/5/02 27 5/7 wks, Now 35 months!)
& angel Mary Patricia (22 4/7 wks, lived 2 hours)
TAC placed 1/21/05 TTCJulia Elizabeth ----- Original Message -----From: Lisa RichardsSent: Friday, October 21, 2005 6:50 AMSubject: [Parents_As_Partners] New Member Rired.
Please welcome our new member.
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rired96 <taconnolly@...> Wrote:
Both my daughters, Charlotte and Grace, were born at SEMC on 2/1/05 at
32 weeks and I would like to connect with other NICU parents
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