Toys R Us has a new Differently Abled Toy Guide online, (link below).
I don't know how helpful it will be, but I at least initially think this
is a good idea.
My family has a d ifficult time knowing w hat to buy David for Birthdays
and Christmas due to his Autism.
http://toysrus.richfx.com/catalog_toysrus/diffabled_06_t/diffabled_06_t.html