I have yet to attend something in O town, but I think I'm up for about anything.

~B


-----Original Message-----
From: Outdoors Girl <outdoorsgirlh@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Mon, 26 May 2008 2:16 pm
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Events!






Does anyone know if any events are going on for us Orlando H'ers? I'd like to
meet some people out there...Thanks!

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Can count me in for help with events....
Scott Evans, Dj/Mc/Band Leader
Scott Evans Productions
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There will be some upcoming events in the next couple of months.
I'll  be sure to post the information here! I believe it will be on
June 21st  and it will be a bowling social (which seems to be the most
popular type  of social for us). The details are being worked out now
so the information  should be posted very soon.

If you have any ideas of a social you'd  like to see, let me know!
Also, if you'd like to host one, that would be  great! Email me
separately and we can work out the details. (I do the  advertising,
you just show up to the social with your distinctive icon,  i.e.
balloon)

Keep checking for the details on the bowling social  and let me know
about the other!

Tonya

P.S. I'm looking for  some people to assist in planning socials. I
just had a baby in February  and my time is now very limited! :o)

--- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ,  Outdoors Girl
<outdoorsgirlh@out> wrote:
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I'd like to  meet some people out there...Thanks!
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There will be some upcoming events in the next couple of months.
I'll be sure to post the information here!  I believe it will be on
June 21st and it will be a bowling social (which seems to be the most
popular type of social for us).  The details are being worked out now
so the information should be posted very soon.

If you have any ideas of a social you'd like to see, let me know!
Also, if you'd like to host one, that would be great!  Email me
separately and we can work out the details.  (I do the advertising,
you just show up to the social with your distinctive icon, i.e.
balloon)

Keep checking for the details on the bowling social and let me know
about the other!

Tonya

P.S.  I'm looking for some people to assist in planning socials.  I
just had a baby in February and my time is now very limited!  :o)


--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com, Outdoors Girl
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> Does anyone know if any events are going on for us Orlando H'ers?
I'd like to meet some people out there...Thanks!
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Does anyone know if any events are going on for us Orlando H'ers? I'd like to
meet some people out there...Thanks!





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Thanks Scott for your note.  I am a member of several different
groups and I just got busy posting and did not notice I hit this
group.  My mistake...  I will try to watch better in the future..
smile... have a great weekend...

Dennis

>
>
> Hi Dennis:
>     We appreciate your information...
>     When did you learn you had H?
>     When did you join our elite organisation?
>     Love to know your story and situation...
> :) Scott Evans
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Hi Dennis:
     We appreciate your information...
     When did you learn you had H?
     When did you join our elite organisation?
     Love to know your story and situation...
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For more information please click on the link to visit my  website.

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Hi Everyone,

                I have been living, loving and dating with H for 16 years
now!  I am a co-owner of the Florida and Tampa Bay Yahoo H clubs and
for several
years I helped run the St. Pete National Event, as well as
hosted numerous local socials in the Tampa Bay area.

    I created Sunshine Dates http://www.sunshinedates.com to become
another avenue
for me to meet people with H.  The site has now grown beyond my wildest
imagination, this has given me a reason to upgrade and add new features.

               Along with posting your photo and profile for Free,
Sunshine Dates http://www.sunshinedates.com now offers, Instant
Messenger, the
ability to upload video and audio,forums,match-mail (a service that
will notify
you when someone joins that has matched your saved search criteria and
photo
confidentiality (ability to upload your photos and only display them
to members
you give
permission to).

                On the front page of the site you can access Local Social
Information, Support Group Information and National Event Information
for FREE!

    Enjoy the new features.

    Good Luck and Happy Dating!

    Debbie

LC,
I've only told probably 3 / 4 guys that I can remember and 1 ended up telling me
he had H as well.  1 guy, sort of ran, he said if I thought you were the woman
I'd spend the rest of my life with, I'd be OK with it, but right now I don't
think I can handle it.  We hung out for a few more weeks, but we both knew it
was never going to move forward.  The other 2, either knew enough about it, or
were just horny enough that it didn't bother them. 
Please don't be afraid of the talk, you neve know who you will meet and fall in
love with.  I think that the stigma of herpes that was even 7  / 8 years ago,
just isn't there like it was.  Be confident in yourself, people can sense fear
and keep the conversation short unless he asks questions.  Trust your self
to know who the "right" guy is and it will happen.
Good luck,
C
 "Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."



----- Original Message ----
From: clap_laila <clap_laila@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Saturday, April 19, 2008 6:41:54 PM
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] What was the worst thing a person has said to you
once you told them you have H?


I have had herpes for a while now. I try not to make a big deal out of
it. But sometimes I can't help but be scared of the judgement I will
face once I tell I guy I like I have herpes. I can't stand the thought
of people judging me. I can't help it. I know I need to toughen up. I
would like to know what your expieriences were like when you have
had "the talk" with a person you were dating. Did they freak out and
run out on you? Did they go around telling everyone you have herpes?
Were they understanding? Is it easier for guys or girls? Are non-
infelcted people willing to be in a sexual relationship with a person
that has herpes?? Thanks in advance for your responces.

LC




      
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Hello LC:
     Wecome to our most "ELITE" membership  organization...
     Oh, by the way,,, I/we ALL have Herpes!!!
     PEOPLE JUDGING YOU: With or without H, people will  judge you/others...
we probably all make that mistake now and then,,,, that's  what makes us
human,,, so it's not something exclusive to those that have  H. Stop worrying
about
that,... anyone of significance in your life " will  stop and stay and tell
you of another day when you were beautiful"  ... by James Kavanaugh
     THE TALK: It's never a fun experience to have the  talk, but necessary if
you are a responsible adult. The last 3  important relationships that I had
with non H members all accepted me...  however, i took my time before "hopping
in the sack" so to speak. I got to know  them pretty well as "FRIENDS"
first... I think that's the best  formula....FRIENDS FIRST. If they stick around
showing they want to get to  know you better, giving you time to evaluate them
as
well, you can  then decide if this "friendship/relationship" has real
potential (or is just  lust). You can then move forward with whether or not you
will
go any further,  and have the need to tell them. I NEVER tell anyone unless or
until it  looks as though a physical relationship may occur. In as much  as I
am an optimist, you never know who may use this information against  you for
any of a million reasons.
     I think its equally difficult, Male or Female to  divulge our little
secret although I can only speak factually from the Male  perspective. Having
seen
on line postings, both men and woman can be distraught  about their "New
condition". One thing for sure... time definitely heals all  (most) wounds...
     SELF ESTEEM: Another key factor to  establishing a healthy relationship
that I have discovered personally and  thru others is the development of our
Self-esteem. "The Greatest Love  Of all"... "Learning to love yourself"...
before concerning yourself with "The  Relationship" delve into all the other
elements of your life....Your career/job,  your education/future, your hobbies,
your
health & fitness,  learning-growing and becoming the best YOU you can be...
This will attract  other great people to YOU! Now you are a great package that
make  you desirable overall. Perhaps H now becomes a more trivial part of the
great  person you are if and when you decide to divulge this information.
     Would you buy the car that runs great and looks  good even though it has
a couple of dings and scratches? Probably....
     Last but not least,,,,Support from others  that have been there, done
that and can identify with your feelings 1st hand.  This you can get by from all
of us here... Feel free to post and become an  active part of our elite family
of friends.
     Go ahead....
:) Scott Evans

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In a message dated 4/20/2008 10:59:47 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
clap_laila@... writes:




I have had herpes for a while now. I try not to make a big deal out of
it. But sometimes I can't help but be scared of the judgement I will
face once I tell I guy I like I have herpes. I can't stand the thought
of people judging me. I can't help it. I know I need to toughen up. I
would like to know what your expieriences were like when you have
had  "the talk" with a person you were dating. Did they freak out and
run out  on you? Did they go around telling everyone you have herpes?
Were they  understanding? Is it easier for guys or girls? Are non-
infelcted people  willing to be in a sexual relationship with a person
that has herpes??  Thanks in advance for your responces.

LC









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I have had herpes for a while now. I try not to make a big deal out of
it. But sometimes I can't help but be scared of the judgement I will
face once I tell I guy I like I have herpes. I can't stand the thought
of people judging me. I can't help it. I know I need to toughen up. I
would like to know what your expieriences were like when you have
had "the talk" with a person you were dating. Did they freak out and
run out on you? Did they go around telling everyone you have herpes?
Were they understanding? Is it easier for guys or girls? Are non-
infelcted people willing to be in a sexual relationship with a person
that has herpes?? Thanks in advance for your responces.

LC

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Philadelphia Friends for their ongoing monthly happy hour at The Dark
Horse, 421 South Second Street (between Pine and Lombard) starting at
6:30 and going til ?????

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The Sarasota-Bradenton_H_Club cordially invites you to its


April Swing Dance Social



Friday, April 25, 2008



7:00 P.M. to 11:00 P.M.

Beginner's Dance Lesson from 7:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M.



Bradenton Women's Club

1705 Manatee Avenue West

(S.W. Corner of Wares Creek Bridge)

Club House Phone # (941) 747-6222



Cost $7.00 which includes the lesson



BYOB, set ups for cocktails and/or hors d'oeuvres!!!

The club provides free ice and sells bottled water, soda and chips.



Dress is casual!  Look for the green balloons!



RSVP to Linda – b8zlas12@...  by April 23, 2008



Web sites of interest:

www.savoysouth.com and www.bradentonwomansclub.com



Directions:

Traveling north or south on I-75, take Exit 220 - SR-64   (Manatee
Ave.) heading west toward Bradenton. While you are traveling through
downtown Bradenton, get in the middle lane which will become the left
lane once you depart from the downtown area.  As soon as you leave
downtown, you will cross over a small bridge.  Turn left once you
have traversed over the bridge.  The parking lot is behind the club
and once that is filled, people park along the side street.



From 275 heading south follow the signs to Bradenton/Sarasota.  Take
US 301/41 towards Bradenton.  After you cross the Manatee River turn
right on SR 64 (Manatee Ave.)  While you are traveling through
downtown Bradenton, get in the middle lane which will become the left
lane when you depart from the downtown area.  As soon as you leave
downtown, you will cross over a small bridge.  Turn left once you
have traversed over the bridge.  The parking lot is behind the club
and once that is filled, people park along the side street

Go have fun, hang out and who knows, you are already predicting all this stuff
and you haven't even had the first drink yet.  For all you know she might not
even like who, hense who cares if you have herpes, she will never know.  2ndly
you might not like her and then again your safe!  Plus how do you know she
doesn't have herpes?  We don't wear signs and if we do, doesn't mean we don't go
out on double dates or have sex with non H people.

Just breath, go and enjoy yourself for what it is, a nice evening out on the
town with 3 other nice people.

Good luck!


"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."



----- Original Message ----
From: to_what_end <xtowhatendx@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, March 27, 2008 7:06:32 PM
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] what do I do?

Ok so I work with a guy (he's not my boss but let's just say he is in a
situation that makes him more than a fellow employee) and this guy wants to set
me up with some girl. So tomorrow night I am going on a double date with him to
meet this girl.
Well its already a sticky situation.. but what if things go well? I have herpes!
thats a whole can of worms I'm worried to deal with... And I'm sure she doesn't
have it.. Which since I've had this I've never dated anyone out of the H
circle...

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I think you should go out with her anyway.  You never know if you like someone
until you go out with them a few times.  She might not turn out to be anyone you
would be interested in.  If you don't go, your friend from work will think you
are wierd or gay.  Just do it to please him.  You can always have this woman as
a friend and she never has to know you have "H".  If you do like her, take her
out a few more times and then, when you think the time is right, have a talk
with her.  She will respect you for telling her and then it will be up to her to
decide whether or not she wants to pursue your relationship any further.  There
are things you can do to lesson the chances of her getting it.  I have known
several people who have been in marriages where they have it and their husband
never got it because they used condoms and took suppressive therapy.  But don't
let this thing get in the way of your possible happiness.  Things have a way of
working out.

   Debbie

to_what_end <xtowhatendx@...> wrote:
           Ok so I work with a guy (he's not my boss but let's just say he is in
a situation that makes him more than a fellow employee) and this guy wants to
set me up with some girl. So tomorrow night I am going on a double date with him
to meet this girl.
Well its already a sticky situation.. but what if things go well? I have herpes!
thats a whole can of worms I'm worried to deal with... And I'm sure she doesn't
have it.. Which since I've had this I've never dated anyone out of the H
circle...

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does anyone have an account on pozcupid or positive singles?
i want to be able to give someone my email but am too poor to upgrade
to the gold thing, and was wondering if anyone else had a gold
membership and would be able to shoot a message to him for me. :)

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek, sticky situation...
Advice in general regardless of H,,, never date where pleasure can  possibly
interfere or jeopardize business...
Yet, a harmless double date is far from divulging your little secret  nor
hopping into bed...
Let me know how it goes...
:) Scott EVans

In a message dated 3/27/2008 7:07:00 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
xtowhatendx@... writes:




Ok so I work with a guy (he's not my boss but let's just say he is in a
situation that makes him more than a fellow employee) and this guy wants to  set
me up with some girl. So tomorrow night I am going on a double date with  him
to meet this girl.
Well its already a sticky situation.. but what if  things go well? I have
herpes! thats a whole can of worms I'm worried to deal  with... And I'm sure she
doesn't have it.. Which since I've had this I've  never dated anyone out of
the H  circle...

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Ok so I work with a guy (he's not my boss but let's just say he is in a
situation that makes him more than a fellow employee) and this guy wants to set
me up with some girl. So tomorrow night I am going on a double date with him to
meet this girl.
Well its already a sticky situation.. but what if things go well? I have herpes!
thats a whole can of worms I'm worried to deal with... And I'm sure she doesn't
have it.. Which since I've had this I've never dated anyone out of the H
circle...


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Yeppers...she hit the nail on the head...
     It reduces the potential growth of the virus  in your body which reduces
the frequency of outbreaks,,,that is all.
     Even use of condoms is not foolproof for the  outbreaks aren't strictly
in the core genital area...
     Everything in life has its pros and cons,,, for us,  it's the potential
of sharing our circumstances. Use as much precaution as  possible for the
highest % of safety to be in your favor... rather the  significant others favor
:)
     Hope that helps...
:) Scott Evans, Editor
H Happenings
www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings

================

In a message dated 3/27/2008 12:42:30 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
mefl69@... writes:




It doesn't stop transmission of herpes, it helps the frequency of outbreaks
which can help with the transmission of H.

When I was dating a non-H  person, I took it every day and he never caught
it. However, I'm also one of  the lucky ones that probably has 3 to 4 outbreaks
a year and those aren't bad,  so I don't even take it much anymore.

"Good friends are like stars. ...  You don't always see them, but you know
they are always there."

-----  Original Message ----
From: clap_laila <_clap_laila@..._ (mailto:clap_laila@...) >
To:  _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com)
Sent:  Wednesday, March 26, 2008 3:11:53 PM
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Valtrex  and Sex with Non-H partners

Does Valtrex really help with preventing  transmission of herpes. I know
that nothing is 100% except abstinence. How  much does Valtrex really
help? Or does it just give you a false sense of  security?

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It doesn't stop transmission of herpes, it helps the frequency of outbreaks
which can help with the transmission of H.

When I was dating a non-H person, I took it every day and he never caught it. 
However, I'm also one of the lucky ones that probably has 3 to 4 outbreaks a
year and those aren't bad, so I don't even take it much anymore.


"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."



----- Original Message ----
From: clap_laila <clap_laila@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, March 26, 2008 3:11:53 PM
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Valtrex and Sex with Non-H partners

Does Valtrex really help with preventing transmission of herpes. I know
that nothing is 100% except abstinence. How much does Valtrex really
help? Or does it just give you a false sense of security?





      
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You can go to this link and get the registration information:

http://friendsovertexas.com/index.html?schedule.html&0

Hope this helps!

Tonya




--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com, sianarojas35@...
wrote:
>
> Hi:
>
> Can someone tell me where do I register for the Texas reunion?
>
> Thanks
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Luna <luna_roma@...>
> To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Sun, 24 Feb 2008 9:51 pm
> Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Texas Event 2008
>
>
>
>
>
>
> Hi everyone,
>
> The Texas Event is May 15th-18th in San Antonio!
> The hotel has about 130 rooms, so be sure to book your rooms early.
If
> you need a room mate or want to share a ride (for those locals in
Texas)
> take a look on the site on the guest book page. Also please sign the
> guest book!
>
> Send your event fee in, currently it is $50.00 and goes up to $60.00
> after April 1st. You can PayPal your fee or mail a check to Gay the
> event coordinator.
>
> Website
> Friends Over Texas
> <http://friendsovertexas.com/index.html?schedule.html&0>
>
> Thanks
>
> ~Brenda
>
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>
>
>
>
>
>
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Hi:

Can someone tell me where do I register for the Texas reunion?

Thanks

-----Original Message-----
From: Luna <luna_roma@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sun, 24 Feb 2008 9:51 pm
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Texas Event 2008






Hi everyone,

The Texas Event is May 15th-18th in San Antonio!
The hotel has about 130 rooms, so be sure to book your rooms early. If
you need a room mate or want to share a ride (for those locals in Texas)
take a look on the site on the guest book page. Also please sign the
guest book!

Send your event fee in, currently it is $50.00 and goes up to $60.00
after April 1st. You can PayPal your fee or mail a check to Gay the
event coordinator.

Website
Friends Over Texas
<http://friendsovertexas.com/index.html?schedule.html&0>

Thanks

~Brenda

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Does Valtrex really help with preventing transmission of herpes. I know
that nothing is 100% except abstinence. How much does Valtrex really
help? Or does it just give you a false sense of security?

Oh my,,, i'm blushing
:) scott

In a message dated 3/13/2008 12:59:39 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
pagan380@... writes:




Being a nudist I'm well exposed to sunlight and tanned all over. I don't
know that it helps but it certainly doesn't hurt. I haven't had an  outbreak
in
over a year now.

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Hey J:
     Glad I read this all the way thru... got me in at  the end... :)
     Do keep in touch,,, I think we can offer alot of  helpful info to the
community...

:) Scott Evans, Editor
H HAPPENINGS
www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings
====================================
In a message dated 3/10/2008 3:22:06 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
jacobus0070@... writes:




Debbie,
I haven't pursued photo-therapy info yet. Heard of
it but it  wasn't top of my "dig it" list. But I will.
My initial take:
Pro:  Photo-UV absolutely kills viruses, yes. I can
see why it could work at or  near the surface.
Con: I'm gonna take a lot of convincing that it  can
penetrate the spine where the colony is based.
Off-the-wall: Has  anyone here on the list spent a
lot of time tanning at the beach or on  tanning beds,
and have you experienced long-term or permanent
remission?  If it works, these people should be seeing
a difference?
Thanks for the  link - as soon as I learn more I'll
gladly share it!

- and Scott,  I'll be contacting you about  your
suggestion.
Caio!

J

__________________________________________
>Dvdirks Wrote Sun Mar 9,
2008 4:28 pm (PDT)

Jacobus,

You seem to know a lot about herpes treatments.  Have
you ever heard
of photo therapy treatment? I talked to the  doctor
who invented it
on the phone, but was reluctant to buy  it.

Here's the link:

_http://phototherapyhttp://phohttp_ (http://phototherapyforherpes.com/)

Debbie

_________________________________
>_evansprod@..._ (mailto:evansprod@...)
>scott_evans6 wrote: Sun Mar 9,
2008 4:29 pm (PDT)
JAcob:
Great research and great info...
Please submit all this and  anything else you find
out or research to
__happeningseditor@_happenings_ (mailto:_happeningseditor@...) _
(mailto:_happeningseditor@happeningse_ (mailto:happeningseditor@...)
)
I'd also be interested to know if you'd be willing
to write a column
based upon your research?
Thanks again for your time and  information.Th

Scott Evans
H Happenings Herpes Help group South  Florida website
_www.theentertainme_www.theent_www.theente
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Hey Christina:
     I appreciated your good advice to Debbie... having  been there, you/we
know....
     I did want to mention one thing in your reply that  I feel is worth
mentioning, so I hope you don't mind.
     You stated...
     "Some will want to think about it, some won't  hesitate and just move
forward and yes some will run, but if they do, they  weren't for real anyway."
     As most of us have been H free for some  portion of our lives I find that
most H group postings tend to knock those  that may not wish to interact with
us intimately as though they were bad people,  or "not for real anyway" or
unkind or insensitive.
     I have H since 1986, I'm pretty sure... that prior  to that I wouldn't
have opted with knowledge to have sex with someone with Any  Sexually
Transmittable disease. I guess that's why many keep it secret, don't  tell their
mate
and hence we become new victims.
     So we too need to be tolerant and understanding of  those that are not
interested in taking the chance to get the unwanted gift.  They have every right
to want to protect themselves and justifiably  should.
     Thanks for hearing another side of the  coin....
:) Scott Evans, Editor
H Happenings
www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings



In a message dated 3/14/2008 1:55:45 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
mefl69@... writes:




Hi Debbie,

Like you the first year was a wee bit scary for me as  well, and I tried
dating just within the community but I found it limiting and  it seemed that
either I knew someone who had dated them or someone who knew  someone and I just
didn't like that. So I chose to date outside the community  and as for telling,
I spent more time getting to know the guy first before I  told him. Sometimes
I'd even test him if were watching a commerical and see  how he reacted and go
from there. If they went crazy, I figured I might not go  any further with
that guy. I did have one guy totally throw me off and talked  about "dirty"
girls, etc...and then one night I got drunk and just hold him  over the phone
and
guess what he confessed he had it as well. Well guess what  the next time we
saw each other, we had great sex (blushing).

Follow  your heart, if you meet someone you like go with the flow, be in a
neutral  setting or even in their house, try not to cry, but talk about H and
how it's  a virus and you have it, but you take precautions, etc and if they are
open  they may be every excepting. Some will want to think about it, some
won't  hesitate and just move forward and yes some will run, but if they do,
they
  weren't for real anyway.

I wish you the best of luck and just remember  you will find someone, I to
had given up and am now happily married to my best  friend and he has H and
never thought i'd marry or ever date anyone in the  community again.

Good luck

Christina

"Good friends are  like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know
they are always  there."

----- Original Message ----
From: dvdirks <_dvdirks@..._ (mailto:dvdirks@...) >
To: _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com)
Sent:  Thursday, March 13, 2008 2:07:41 PM
Subject: Re: [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen  Therapy

Hey Christina,

I understand what you are saying - It's  not HIV, thank God. My
doctor told me that getting "H" was a wake-up call  as he deals with a
lot worse problem. For that, I am  thankful.

However, I still haven't been able to try to date anyone  outside of
the "H" community. I feel like I am very limited and have to  squelch
my crushes on non "H" guys. This is probably just a fear of  telling
them and ultimately, a fear of rejection.

I was diagnosed  with this gift two years ago. For the first year, I
didn't even think  about dating anyone and just concentrated on my
career, but then I met  someone in the group and we started dating
each other.

It's not  that I am looking for anyone right now, but I really feel
limited in who I  can date. It comes down to a psychological block
and it has lowered my  self-esteem.

Even though I have read some literature on what to say, it  just keeps
coming back to the fact that if a guy told me he had it, I  would not
want to get into an intimate relationship with him.

If  anyone has any tried and true ways of telling a potential partner,
please  let me know. One more note, I am grateful that I have met
such wonderful  people through these H groups. Deep down, I believe I
will meet someone  BECAUSE I have "H".

Debbie

--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSing  lesSite@yahoogro ups.com, Christina
<mefl69@...>  wrote:
>
> DV,
>
> I understand not wanting this, but  you've got it, have you come to
terms with dealing with it? I'm just being  curious and nozzzie, has
life been that horrible with it? It's not HIV, so  your quality of
life should still be ok?
>
> Just  asking
>
>
> "Good friends are like stars. ... You don't  always see them, but
you know they are always there."
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: dvdirks  <dvdirks@... >
> To: orlandoflherpessing lessite@yahoogro  ups.com
> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 6:22:02 PM
> Subject:  [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen Therapy
>
> I was speaking to a man  that does colonic irrigation therapy today
and
> he knows all about  oxygen therapy. He is from France and he said
that
> it is legal in  Europe. He told me that the Rolling Stones get
oxygen
> therapy  once a year in Switzerland and that is why they are all
still
>  healthy. I guess they take out blood, mix it with O2 and then re-
>  inject the oxygenated blood into one's sytem. He said that viruses
>  can't live in O2 and it has helped Magic Johnson tremendously with
>  HIV. I don't know how much it costs, but I'd be willing to get it
if
> it means ridding my body of herpes. Thanks, Jaccobus for
enlightening
> us. Maybe during our lifetime, they will find a  cure.
>
>
>
>
>
>
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>
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Hi Debbie,

Like you the first year was a wee bit scary for me as well, and I tried dating
just within the community but I found it limiting and it seemed that either I
knew someone who had dated them or someone who knew someone and I just didn't
like that.  So I chose to date outside the community and as for telling, I spent
more time getting to know the guy first before I told him.  Sometimes I'd even
test him if were watching a commerical and see how he reacted and go from there.
If they went crazy, I figured I might not go any further with that guy.  I did
have one guy totally throw me off and talked about "dirty" girls, etc...and then
one night I got drunk and just hold him over the phone and guess what he
confessed he had it as well.  Well guess what the next time we saw each other,
we had great sex (blushing).

Follow your heart, if you meet someone you like go with the flow, be in a
neutral setting or even in their house, try not to cry, but talk about H and how
it's a virus and you have it, but you take precautions, etc and if they are open
they may be every excepting.  Some will want to think about it, some won't
hesitate and just move forward and yes some will run, but if they do, they
weren't for real anyway.

I wish you the best of luck and just remember you will find someone, I to had
given up and am now happily married to my best friend and he has H and never
thought i'd marry or ever date anyone in the community again.

Good luck

Christina

"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."



----- Original Message ----
From: dvdirks <dvdirks@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, March 13, 2008 2:07:41 PM
Subject: Re: [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen Therapy

Hey Christina,

I understand what you are saying - It's not HIV, thank God. My
doctor told me that getting "H" was a wake-up call as he deals with a
lot worse problem. For that, I am thankful.

However, I still haven't been able to try to date anyone outside of
the "H" community. I feel like I am very limited and have to squelch
my crushes on non "H" guys. This is probably just a fear of telling
them and ultimately, a fear of rejection.

I was diagnosed with this gift two years ago. For the first year, I
didn't even think about dating anyone and just concentrated on my
career, but then I met someone in the group and we started dating
each other.

It's not that I am looking for anyone right now, but I really feel
limited in who I can date. It comes down to a psychological block
and it has lowered my self-esteem.

Even though I have read some literature on what to say, it just keeps
coming back to the fact that if a guy told me he had it, I would not
want to get into an intimate relationship with him.

If anyone has any tried and true ways of telling a potential partner,
please let me know. One more note, I am grateful that I have met
such wonderful people through these H groups. Deep down, I believe I
will meet someone BECAUSE I have "H".

Debbie

--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSing lesSite@yahoogro ups.com, Christina
<mefl69@...> wrote:
>
> DV,
>
> I understand not wanting this, but you've got it, have you come to
terms with dealing with it? I'm just being curious and nozzzie, has
life been that horrible with it? It's not HIV, so your quality of
life should still be ok?
>
> Just asking
>
>
> "Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but
you know they are always there."
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: dvdirks <dvdirks@... >
> To: orlandoflherpessing lessite@yahoogro ups.com
> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 6:22:02 PM
> Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen Therapy
>
> I was speaking to a man that does colonic irrigation therapy today
and
> he knows all about oxygen therapy. He is from France and he said
that
> it is legal in Europe. He told me that the Rolling Stones get
oxygen
> therapy once a year in Switzerland and that is why they are all
still
> healthy. I guess they take out blood, mix it with O2 and then re-
> inject the oxygenated blood into one's sytem. He said that viruses
> can't live in O2 and it has helped Magic Johnson tremendously with
> HIV. I don't know how much it costs, but I'd be willing to get it
if
> it means ridding my body of herpes. Thanks, Jaccobus for
enlightening
> us. Maybe during our lifetime, they will find a cure.
>
>
>
>
>
>
____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _
____________ __
> Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your home page.
> http://www.yahoo. com/r/hs
>
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>





      
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Hi Debbie:
     I couldn't agree more,,,I felt the same,,,and  probably would not have
gotten intimate with a gal that would have told me  either.
     Your honesty and sincerity is loud and clear... if  anyone can empathize,
we all can!
:) Scott
=============================
In a message dated 3/13/2008 10:30:52 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
dvdirks@... writes:




Hey Christina,

I understand what you are saying - It's not HIV,  thank God. My
doctor told me that getting "H" was a wake-up call as he  deals with a
lot worse problem. For that, I am thankful.

However, I  still haven't been able to try to date anyone outside of
the "H"  community. I feel like I am very limited and have to squelch
my crushes on  non "H" guys. This is probably just a fear of telling
them and ultimately,  a fear of rejection.

I was diagnosed with this gift two years ago. For  the first year, I
didn't even think about dating anyone and just  concentrated on my
career, but then I met someone in the group and we  started dating
each other.

It's not that I am looking for anyone  right now, but I really feel
limited in who I can date. It comes down to a  psychological block
and it has lowered my self-esteem.

Even though  I have read some literature on what to say, it just keeps
coming back to  the fact that if a guy told me he had it, I would not
want to get into an  intimate relationship with him.

If anyone has any tried and true ways  of telling a potential partner,
please let me know. One more note, I am  grateful that I have met
such wonderful people through these H groups.  Deep down, I believe I
will meet someone BECAUSE I have "H".

Debbie

--- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ,  Christina
<mefl69@...> wrote:
>
> DV,
>
> I  understand not wanting this, but you've got it, have you come to
terms  with dealing with it? I'm just being curious and nozzzie, has
life been  that horrible with it? It's not HIV, so your quality of
life should still  be ok?
>
> Just asking
>
>
> "Good friends  are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but
you know they are  always there."
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message  ----
> From: dvdirks <dvdirks@...>
> To: _orlandoflherpessingorlandoflherpessorlando_
(mailto:orlandoflherpessinglessite@yahoogroups.com)
>  Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 6:22:02 PM
> Subject: [Orlando H  Singles] Oxygen Therapy
>
> I was speaking to a man that does  colonic irrigation therapy today
and
> he knows all about oxygen  therapy. He is from France and he said
that
> it is legal in  Europe. He told me that the Rolling Stones get
oxygen
> therapy  once a year in Switzerland and that is why they are all
still
>  healthy. I guess they take out blood, mix it with O2 and then re-
>  inject the oxygenated blood into one's sytem. He said that viruses
>  can't live in O2 and it has helped Magic Johnson tremendously with
>  HIV. I don't know how much it costs, but I'd be willing to get it
if
> it means ridding my body of herpes. Thanks, Jaccobus for
enlightening
> us. Maybe during our lifetime, they will find a  cure.
>
>
>
>
>
>
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______________
>  Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your home page.
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>
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Hey Christina,

I understand what you are saying - It's not HIV, thank God.  My
doctor told me that getting "H" was a wake-up call as he deals with a
lot worse problem.  For that, I am thankful.

However, I still haven't been able to try to date anyone outside of
the "H" community.  I feel like I am very limited and have to squelch
my crushes on non "H" guys.  This is probably just a fear of telling
them and ultimately, a fear of rejection.

I was diagnosed with this gift two years ago.  For the first year, I
didn't even think about dating anyone and just concentrated on my
career, but then I met someone in the group and we started dating
each other.

It's not that I am looking for anyone right now, but I really feel
limited in who I can date.  It comes down to a psychological block
and it has lowered my self-esteem.

Even though I have read some literature on what to say, it just keeps
coming back to the fact that if a guy told me he had it, I would not
want to get into an intimate relationship with him.

If anyone has any tried and true ways of telling a potential partner,
please let me know.  One more note, I am grateful that I have met
such wonderful people through these H groups.  Deep down, I believe I
will meet someone BECAUSE I have "H".

Debbie


--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com, Christina
<mefl69@...> wrote:
>
> DV,
>
> I understand not wanting this, but you've got it, have you come to
terms with dealing with it?  I'm just being curious and nozzzie, has
life been that horrible with it?  It's not HIV, so your quality of
life should still be ok?
>
> Just asking
>
>
> "Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but
you know they are always there."
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: dvdirks <dvdirks@...>
> To: orlandoflherpessinglessite@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 6:22:02 PM
> Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen Therapy
>
> I was speaking to a man that does colonic irrigation therapy today
and
> he knows all about oxygen therapy. He is from France and he said
that
> it is legal in Europe. He told me that the Rolling Stones get
oxygen
> therapy once a year in Switzerland and that is why they are all
still
> healthy. I guess they take out blood, mix it with O2 and then re-
> inject the oxygenated blood into one's sytem. He said that viruses
> can't live in O2 and it has helped Magic Johnson tremendously with
> HIV. I don't know how much it costs, but I'd be willing to get it
if
> it means ridding my body of herpes. Thanks, Jaccobus for
enlightening
> us. Maybe during our lifetime, they will find a cure.
>
>
>
>
>
>
______________________________________________________________________
______________
> Never miss a thing.  Make Yahoo your home page.
> http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>

DV,

I understand not wanting this, but you've got it, have you come to terms with
dealing with it?  I'm just being curious and nozzzie, has life been that
horrible with it?  It's not HIV, so your quality of life should still be ok?

Just asking


"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."



----- Original Message ----
From: dvdirks <dvdirks@...>
To: orlandoflherpessinglessite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 6:22:02 PM
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Oxygen Therapy

I was speaking to a man that does colonic irrigation therapy today and
he knows all about oxygen therapy. He is from France and he said that
it is legal in Europe. He told me that the Rolling Stones get oxygen
therapy once a year in Switzerland and that is why they are all still
healthy. I guess they take out blood, mix it with O2 and then re-
inject the oxygenated blood into one's sytem. He said that viruses
can't live in O2 and it has helped Magic Johnson tremendously with
HIV. I don't know how much it costs, but I'd be willing to get it if
it means ridding my body of herpes. Thanks, Jaccobus for enlightening
us. Maybe during our lifetime, they will find a cure.





      
________________________________________________________________________________\
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