Hi and hope your doing okay. Thanks for the email, its good talk about things
with someone that can relate. Don't panic or worry too hard. These things that
happen, to millions of people, are beyond our control. We all are in
fact victims of someones neglect. Its just a skin condition and does not define
who you really are. And by trying to gain more knowledge indicates you are
smart, caring, loving, intelligent, and concerned about the welfare of others.
Which also means your stronger than most people. This HSV is not a deal breaker.
You can still enjoy your life and have kids and marriage. You'll probably
be more prepared for everything else in life because you now realize what kind
of consequences can happen. Crying is okay, because you feel a sense of loss,
sorrow, and being violated. Just try not to feel self pity, you didn't do
anything wrong. Keep your head up, we learn from our mistakes. And Dance like
nobody is watching. God Bless
--- On Sat, 7/18/09, chanellie1982 <jdime05@...> wrote:
From: chanellie1982 <jdime05@...>
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Highs and Lows
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, July 18, 2009, 2:48 PM
I found out about 5 months ago that i had HSV 2. I didn't have any symtoms or
anything. I just decided to get tested for everything this year. It's always
been my way to start off the year with a clean slate. The Dr. told me not to try
to figure out who gave it to me. Since i've never had any symtoms it could have
been my first or my last. So everyday is different. Sometimes i can deal and
sometimes I cry. People say you're so young. You have the rest of your life to
worry about marriage and kids. Sounds good until God throws a monkey wrench in
your plans. They say knowing is power but i feel so powerless. I'm a SBF and
I've only been in this area for a year. I hope this group helps me cope better
than I've helped myself.
Peace and love
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