I've not waited that long.  I took the road where after emails, IMs and a few
phone calls I kinda got a feeling about this girl.  If I felt she was someone
I'd like to pursue then after the first or second date (depending how they went)
I'd tell them.   For some it was a deal breaker but for others it wasn't.  I
think it would not be fair to have that 'someone' start to develope feelings for
you (and likewise you for them), if they are not comfortable with the
situation.  Plus, one might consider the amount of time being invested by both
parties...
you certainly would not want to court someone for months only to find out it is
a deal breaker.
 
Of course the above is my advise and what worked for me.
 
-T
 


--- On Thu, 4/30/09, to_what_end <xtowhatendx@...> wrote:


From: to_what_end <xtowhatendx@...>
Subject: Re: [Orlando H Singles] When to tell them...
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, April 30, 2009, 12:30 AM








So this may be a bit premature but I'm worrying about it so I'll give it a shot.
I met this girl online.. we've been talking on the phone and online for like 3
months now.. sooner or later I'm sure I'm going to meet her... So the question
is this.. when should I tell her about the H? Now? or when we meet? I know
things might not spark when we meet so maybe I should wait.. But at the same
time I don't want to give this girls hopes up. What have you guys done?










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