I have a friend that was just diagnosed with 'H'. I want to provide some
resources, but I'm not sure what to tell her as far as getting on this email
group.

I don't remember how I got here. I think I talked to someone on the phone and
they took my info. I don't think that's the way most of you got here.

How should I advise her?

Thanks!




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From: Christina <mefl69@...>
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, July 14, 2008 7:49:58 PM
Subject: Re: [Orlando H Singles] Sex isn't everything


Laila,
 
I totally agree with you that sex isn't everything and I guess when I said
"would you go back to your wild days."  I more meant would you be "less" careful
with reading a person.  Maybe I was more speaking about my experiences.  I know
before I had herpes, I didn't think about sexual diseases, because those things
only happened to the careless, not the true at heart type of people.   Trust me,
I know that was a naive way to think period. 
 
But after getting herpes, I thought more about the person and not their looks or
what "could" be.  The people I've slept w/ since having herpes, I saw a
connection (not herpes) as a person and what I liked about them, their lives,
the way the made me laugh, how they acted with my friends, etc....
 

"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."

--- On Fri, 7/4/08, Laila Clapton <clap_laila@yahoo. com> wrote:

From: Laila Clapton <clap_laila@yahoo. com>
Subject: Re: [Orlando H Singles] Has anyone seen this article????
To: OrlandoFLHerpesSing lesSite@yahoogro ups.com
Date: Friday, July 4, 2008, 10:03 AM

I was never "wild" to begin with. If there is a cure I would not change my
behavior. I will not be sexually active until I am married. If I had done that
in the begining I would be a member of this club. Sex isn't everything.

--- On Thu, 7/3/08, Christina <mefl69@yahoo. com> wrote:

From: Christina <mefl69@yahoo. com>
Subject: [Orlando H Singles] Has anyone seen this article????
To: "jax-437734" <jax-437737@ yahoogro ups.com>
Cc: "Orlando" <orlando_h@yahoogro u ps.com>, "Orlando Group" <orlandoflherpessin
g lessite@yahoogro ups.com>
Date: Thursday, July 3, 2008, 2:59 PM

Well isn't this interesting. ..
 
http://www.msnbc. msn.com/id/ 25511729
 
 
I'm just curious knowing that there "might" be a cure, would that make you go
back to you wild ways??  Or would you feel you didn't have to maybe have the
talk?  I know I didn't always tell someone i was kissing I had a "cold" because
who cares, it goes away, and damn those lips were worth every moment....
 
Come on someone answer you all know you've thought about it....

"Good friends are like stars. ... You don't always see them, but you know they
are always there."

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