I'll have to think about it and maybe give it some time to see where
it goes.

I just hope anyone out there who is afraid of telling someone will
ask for help. It really is the right thing to do....

--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com, evansprod@...
wrote:
>
>
> Hey "S"...
> Yippppppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! Another
successful
> story of acceptance in mainstream america :)
> Would you be interested in submitting your "how you got it"
initial
> story including your follow up story of meeting someone, having
to tell, when,
> and your acceptance to our Happenings International newsletter.
> I think sharing your story with 1000+ plus readers nationwide
may be
> motivating to others if they are feeling down and out,,,
> Looking forward to your reply,,,,and keep me posted on this
relationship
> and where it goes,,,
> Have a great weekend!!!
>
>
> Scott Evans, Happenings Editor
> Website: _www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings_
> (http://www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings)
> E-mail: happeningseditor@...
>
>
> =============================================
> In a message dated 2/2/2007 5:00:06 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,
> no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes:
>
>
>
>
> Hey Scott! Thanks for the encouragement. He called today and asked
> if he could stop by after work so I thought it might be a good
time.
> It was excruciating, but I told him. He actually felt bad that
I'd
> been worrying about it all this time! He said he doesn't want to
> lose me and will deal with it. I think he will have a lot of
> questions but it seems like it won't be a big deal. Of course he
> could change his mind tomorrow, but that's the way it goes.
>
> I'm glad I told him before things got too far (they have already
> been getting pretty heated :) and I'm glad it's out. Thanks again
> for the help. I think I need a stiff drink, LOL! Hope all is well
> with you,
>
> S
>
> --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
> (mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , evansprod@,
> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Hey S:
> > You should have told him when he was tipsy,,, he might have
> been more
> > opened to it then, or,,, not remember the next day :)....
> > Now you are going to agonize about it, and that's not healthy
> either,,,
> > I know it may sound like a chickens way out, but an e-mail to
> him,
> > spilling your guts as to why you didn't do it face to face
cause
> you are scared,
> > embarrassed, etc. and couldn't find the right moment.
> > We are all in a special predicament and too have to protect
> our
> > feelings,,,, feelings,,,,<WBR>I'm a cancer, so we go into our
shel
> lol,,,, at least if
> > you e-mail the info....it will finally be out of the closet and
> sooner than
> > later...
> > If you are not close to sexual contact, wait,,, definitely
> according to
> > the editorial,,, its a catch 22,,,,if you tell them too soon,
> then they don't
> > know all your other great qualities and add them to the
equation,
> and if you
> > tell them too late, they can say "why did u wait so long and
let
> me grow to
> > have feelings for you"....so, don't aggravate yourself about
> it,,,, u feel
> > you want to tell him, so tell him, any way you can,,,
> > In my 3 experiences with women that didn't have it, that I
> told,,,they
> > all accepted me,,,,:) however, if you ask me
> intellectually,intellectually,<WBR
> > or date someone that has H" i'd probably say "No, I wouldn't"
> then again,
> > when one is in love,,,?!?!? when one is in love,,,?!?!?<WBR>!
> an
> > inconvenience. in
> > Keep me posted,,,
> > Supportively Yours,
> > :) Scott
> > ============ ==== ==== ==== ==== ====
> >
> > In a message dated 2/2/2007 12:55:52 P.M. Eastern Standard
Time,
> > _no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_ (mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com)
writes:
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Well I guess you could say that I chickened out...I don't know.
We
> > went out and everywhere was too public and crowded. Then we
went
> back
> > to his place for a bit, but we were tired and a little tipsy by
> then
> > and he was being all romantic, so it just didn't seem like the
> right
> > time.
> >
> > So now I don't know what to do and I will be agonizing over it
> all
> > weekend probably.... weekend probably....<WB<WBR>I wish I could
just
> t
> > don't think that would be right....
> >
> > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> > (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
> (mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ,
evansprod@,
> > wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > > Hey,,,
> > > WE ALL know how you feel,,,,
> > > But, if you are willing to sabotage the relationship, you
> > might as well
> > > take a chance and tell him/her....
> > > If they stick around, "great",,,, if they leave,,, you aren't
> any
> > worse off
> > > than just sabotaging it as u had planned...
> > > Another obvious,,,,you know the person at this point, and
know
> > how they
> > > feel towards you (hopefully). feel towards you
> (hopefully).<WBR>..so,
> > and may use
> > > this information against you, they you may be better off
> blowing
> > them
> > > off,,,then again,,,if you feel they are sincere,,, even in
> > rejection, they should
> > > minimally become a friend and confidant,,,
> > > Let me know what happens,,, I'd like to follow up your story
> > in my next
> > > newsletter.. newsletter..<WBR>. (with your permission and
> anonymo
> > >
> > >
> > > Scott, Happenings Editor
> > > Website: www.theentertainmen Website: Website:
> > > E-mail: happeningseditor@ E-m
> > >
> > >
> > > In a message dated 1/30/2007 4:11:34 P.M. Eastern Standard
> Time,
> > > _no_reply@yahoogrou _no_reply@y_no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_
> (mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com) )
> writes:
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > At this point I feel like I'd rather sabatoge the
relationship
> and
> > > break it off than go through with telling him.....
> > >
> > > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> > > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
> > (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
> (mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ) ,
> evansprod@,
> > > wrote:
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > Hey everybody,,,
> > > > There's an article in the Happenings Herpes Help group e-
> > > newsletter
> > > > re:this topic....u might find it of interest,,,
> > > > The address is www.theentertainmen The addre The addre
> > > > Check it out,,,
> > > > :) S
> > > > -=-=-=-=-=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -
> > > > In a message dated 1/30/2007 9:34:51 A.M. Eastern Standard
> Time,
> > > > _no_reply@yahoogrou
> _no_reply@yahoogrou_no_reply@_no_reply@yah_no_
> > (mailto:_no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_
(mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com) ) )
> > writes:
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > Thank you for the advice! My last boyfriend basically
> said "ok,
> > > we'll
> > > > deal with it" and it was no problem at all. It's just hard
> when
> > > you
> > > > care about someone and you don't want to hurt them or freak
> them
> > > out.
> > > > I think he is in it for the long haul, but if this makes
him
> > run,
> > > > then I just have to believe that it's not meant to be. I've
> had
> > > this
> > > > for about 10 years and it's still a big pain in that
respect!!
> > > >
> > > > I think we're getting together Thurs night so I hope to
tell
> him
> > > > then....will let you know what happens!
> > > >
> > > > S
> > > >
> > > > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> > > >
> > > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
> > >
> > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Orland (mailto:_Orland (mail
> >
> (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
>
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ) ) , "luv2rid
ef
> ast
> > "
> > > > <staish@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Hi there,
> > > > >
> > > > > I don't have much advice for you. I've only had to tell 2
> > > people.
> > > > > One said, "Whew, that's a relief, I have it too" and the
> other
> > > one
> > > > > said that he was okay with it, anyone who didn't
understand
> > and
> > > > > couldn't deal with it wasn't worth having, I really
thought
> it
> > > was
> > > > > going to be okay and I thought he was "the one", but I
was
> > > wrong.
> > > > > Then, he promptly disappeared. This was devastating as he
> was
> > a
> > > > > friend for a long time and we no longer even have a
> > friendship.
> > > > So,
> > > > > I have to tell myself that he wasn't worth having.
> > > > >
> > > > > I dread the time that I have to do it again, but hang in
> there
> > > and
> > > > > just be honest. We can only hope that the folks we tell
> > > appreciate
> > > > > us telling them. I think the only way I have come up with
> to
> > > tell
> > > > is
> > > > > just to sit down and say that before things get too
intense
> > you
> > > > just
> > > > > need to have a serious talk with him and just come out
and
> > tell
> > > > > him. Then, maybe suggest he do some research on the
> internet
> > or
> > > > see
> > > > > a doctor to ask questions and go from there. It amazes me
> when
> > > > > people freak, as it isn't something that will KILL you,
> it's
> > > just a
> > > > > nuisance. Not to make light of it, but I've had it since
> age
> > 20
> > > > and
> > > > > I'm almost 40 now, so I've really come to terms with it.
> > > > >
> > > > > Good luck with telling him. My thoughts will be with you
> and
> > do
> > > > let
> > > > > us know how it goes.
> > > > >
> > > > > Hugs,
> > > > > Stacia in Daytona
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> > > > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
> > > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
> > (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
> (mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ) ) ,
> luvmylab_2
> > > > > <no_reply@> wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Hello. I recently started seeing someone new and it's
> > getting
> > > to
> > > > > be
> > > > > > about that time to tell him I have H. I haven't done
this
> in
> > a
> > > > > while
> > > > > > and of course I'm afraid he'll take off running as fast
> as
> > he
> > > > can.
> > > > > Any
> > > > > > suggestions on how to go about it that might help?
Thank
> you!
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