S:
I feel u are doing the right thing,,,and it's kind of you to consider
his feelings,,,
Keep me posted...


Scott Evans, Happenings Editor
Website: www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings
E-mail: happeningseditor@...


In a message dated 2/1/2007 10:28:12 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,
no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes:




Hey! We met at church and he is a good guy. He's had his wild days
and stuff too, so it's not like he holds things against people. I
don't really want to sabatoge things, it would just be easier in a
way I guess. He is really into this relationship and if he can't
handle being with me because of that, I know he will be very sad. I
don't want to hurt him....but that's why I have to tell him before
anything intimate happens. I don't think he would tell anyone else
out of anger. Just no telling how he will take it.

I am planning to try try try to tell him tonight. Hopefully I won't
chicken out! I will let you know how it goes. Thanks!

S

--- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , evansprod@..,
wrote:
>
>
> Hey,,,
> WE ALL know how you feel,,,,
> But, if you are willing to sabotage the relationship, you
might as well
> take a chance and tell him/her....
> If they stick around, "great",,,, if they leave,,, you aren't any
worse off
> than just sabotaging it as u had planned...
> Another obvious,,,,you know the person at this point, and know
how they
> feel towards you (hopefully). feel towards you (hopefully).<WBR>..so,
and may use
> this information against you, they you may be better off blowing
them
> off,,,then again,,,if you feel they are sincere,,, even in
rejection, they should
> minimally become a friend and confidant,,,
> Let me know what happens,,, I'd like to follow up your story
in my next
> newsletter.. newsletter..<WBR>. (with your permission and anonymo
>
>
> Scott, Happenings Editor
> Website: www.theentertainmen Website: Website:
> E-mail: happeningseditor@ E-m
>
>
> In a message dated 1/30/2007 4:11:34 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,
> _no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_ (mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com) writes:
>
>
>
>
> At this point I feel like I'd rather sabatoge the relationship and
> break it off than go through with telling him.....
>
> --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) , evansprod@,
> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Hey everybody,,,
> > There's an article in the Happenings Herpes Help group e-
> newsletter
> > re:this topic....u might find it of interest,,,
> > The address is www.theentertainmen The addre The addre
> > Check it out,,,
> > :) S
> > -=-=-=-=-=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -=-= -
> > In a message dated 1/30/2007 9:34:51 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,
> > _no_reply@yahoogrou _no_reply@yahoogrou_no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_
(mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com) )
writes:
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Thank you for the advice! My last boyfriend basically said "ok,
> we'll
> > deal with it" and it was no problem at all. It's just hard when
> you
> > care about someone and you don't want to hurt them or freak them
> out.
> > I think he is in it for the long haul, but if this makes him
run,
> > then I just have to believe that it's not meant to be. I've had
> this
> > for about 10 years and it's still a big pain in that respect!!
> >
> > I think we're getting together Thurs night so I hope to tell him
> > then....will let you know what happens!
> >
> > S
> >
> > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> >
> (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
>
(mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ) , "luv2ridefast
"
> > <staish@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hi there,
> > >
> > > I don't have much advice for you. I've only had to tell 2
> people.
> > > One said, "Whew, that's a relief, I have it too" and the other
> one
> > > said that he was okay with it, anyone who didn't understand
and
> > > couldn't deal with it wasn't worth having, I really thought it
> was
> > > going to be okay and I thought he was "the one", but I was
> wrong.
> > > Then, he promptly disappeared. This was devastating as he was
a
> > > friend for a long time and we no longer even have a
friendship.
> > So,
> > > I have to tell myself that he wasn't worth having.
> > >
> > > I dread the time that I have to do it again, but hang in there
> and
> > > just be honest. We can only hope that the folks we tell
> appreciate
> > > us telling them. I think the only way I have come up with to
> tell
> > is
> > > just to sit down and say that before things get too intense
you
> > just
> > > need to have a serious talk with him and just come out and
tell
> > > him. Then, maybe suggest he do some research on the internet
or
> > see
> > > a doctor to ask questions and go from there. It amazes me when
> > > people freak, as it isn't something that will KILL you, it's
> just a
> > > nuisance. Not to make light of it, but I've had it since age
20
> > and
> > > I'm almost 40 now, so I've really come to terms with it.
> > >
> > > Good luck with telling him. My thoughts will be with you and
do
> > let
> > > us know how it goes.
> > >
> > > Hugs,
> > > Stacia in Daytona
> > >
> > > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> > (mailto:_OrlandoFLH (mailto:_Or (mailto:_Or
> (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) ) , luvmylab_2
> > > <no_reply@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > Hello. I recently started seeing someone new and it's
getting
> to
> > > be
> > > > about that time to tell him I have H. I haven't done this in
a
> > > while
> > > > and of course I'm afraid he'll take off running as fast as
he
> > can.
> > > Any
> > > > suggestions on how to go about it that might help? Thank you!
> > > >
> > >
> >
> >
> >
> >
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