Hey,,,
WE ALL know how you feel,,,,
But, if you are willing to sabotage the relationship, you might as well
take a chance and tell him/her....
If they stick around, "great",,,, if they leave,,, you aren't any worse off
than just sabotaging it as u had planned...
Another obvious,,,,you know the person at this point, and know how they
feel towards you (hopefully)...so, if you feel they are immature and may use
this information against you, they you may be better off blowing them
off,,,then again,,,if you feel they are sincere,,, even in rejection, they
should
minimally become a friend and confidant,,,,
Let me know what happens,,, I'd like to follow up your story in my next
newsletter... (with your permission and anonymously) of course!!!


Scott, Happenings Editor
Website: www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings
E-mail: happeningseditor@...


In a message dated 1/30/2007 4:11:34 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,
no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes:




At this point I feel like I'd rather sabatoge the relationship and
break it off than go through with telling him.....

--- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , evansprod@..,
wrote:
>
>
> Hey everybody,,,
> There's an article in the Happenings Herpes Help group e-
newsletter
> re:this topic....u might find it of interest,,,
> The address is www.theentertainmen The addre The addre
> Check it out,,,
> :) S
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> In a message dated 1/30/2007 9:34:51 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,
> _no_reply@yahoogroupno_re_ (mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com) writes:
>
>
>
>
> Thank you for the advice! My last boyfriend basically said "ok,
we'll
> deal with it" and it was no problem at all. It's just hard when
you
> care about someone and you don't want to hurt them or freak them
out.
> I think he is in it for the long haul, but if this makes him run,
> then I just have to believe that it's not meant to be. I've had
this
> for about 10 years and it's still a big pain in that respect!!
>
> I think we're getting together Thurs night so I hope to tell him
> then....will let you know what happens!
>
> S
>
> --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
>
(mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) , "luv2ridefast"
> <staish@> wrote:
> >
> > Hi there,
> >
> > I don't have much advice for you. I've only had to tell 2
people.
> > One said, "Whew, that's a relief, I have it too" and the other
one
> > said that he was okay with it, anyone who didn't understand and
> > couldn't deal with it wasn't worth having, I really thought it
was
> > going to be okay and I thought he was "the one", but I was
wrong.
> > Then, he promptly disappeared. This was devastating as he was a
> > friend for a long time and we no longer even have a friendship.
> So,
> > I have to tell myself that he wasn't worth having.
> >
> > I dread the time that I have to do it again, but hang in there
and
> > just be honest. We can only hope that the folks we tell
appreciate
> > us telling them. I think the only way I have come up with to
tell
> is
> > just to sit down and say that before things get too intense you
> just
> > need to have a serious talk with him and just come out and tell
> > him. Then, maybe suggest he do some research on the internet or
> see
> > a doctor to ask questions and go from there. It amazes me when
> > people freak, as it isn't something that will KILL you, it's
just a
> > nuisance. Not to make light of it, but I've had it since age 20
> and
> > I'm almost 40 now, so I've really come to terms with it.
> >
> > Good luck with telling him. My thoughts will be with you and do
> let
> > us know how it goes.
> >
> > Hugs,
> > Stacia in Daytona
> >
> > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSin --- In _Orl --- In
> (mailto:_OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) ) , luvmylab_2
> > <no_reply@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hello. I recently started seeing someone new and it's getting
to
> > be
> > > about that time to tell him I have H. I haven't done this in a
> > while
> > > and of course I'm afraid he'll take off running as fast as he
> can.
> > Any
> > > suggestions on how to go about it that might help? Thank you!
> > >
> >
>
>
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