At this point I feel like I'd rather sabatoge the relationship and
break it off than go through with telling him.....


--- In OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com, evansprod@...
wrote:
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> Hey everybody,,,
> There's an article in the Happenings Herpes Help group e-
newsletter
> re:this topic....u might find it of interest,,,
> The address is www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings
> Check it out,,,
> :) S
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> In a message dated 1/30/2007 9:34:51 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,
> no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes:
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> Thank you for the advice! My last boyfriend basically said "ok,
we'll
> deal with it" and it was no problem at all. It's just hard when
you
> care about someone and you don't want to hurt them or freak them
out.
> I think he is in it for the long haul, but if this makes him run,
> then I just have to believe that it's not meant to be. I've had
this
> for about 10 years and it's still a big pain in that respect!!
>
> I think we're getting together Thurs night so I hope to tell him
> then....will let you know what happens!
>
> S
>
> --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
>
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , "luv2ridefast"
> <staish@> wrote:
> >
> > Hi there,
> >
> > I don't have much advice for you. I've only had to tell 2
people.
> > One said, "Whew, that's a relief, I have it too" and the other
one
> > said that he was okay with it, anyone who didn't understand and
> > couldn't deal with it wasn't worth having, I really thought it
was
> > going to be okay and I thought he was "the one", but I was
wrong.
> > Then, he promptly disappeared. This was devastating as he was a
> > friend for a long time and we no longer even have a friendship.
> So,
> > I have to tell myself that he wasn't worth having.
> >
> > I dread the time that I have to do it again, but hang in there
and
> > just be honest. We can only hope that the folks we tell
appreciate
> > us telling them. I think the only way I have come up with to
tell
> is
> > just to sit down and say that before things get too intense you
> just
> > need to have a serious talk with him and just come out and tell
> > him. Then, maybe suggest he do some research on the internet or
> see
> > a doctor to ask questions and go from there. It amazes me when
> > people freak, as it isn't something that will KILL you, it's
just a
> > nuisance. Not to make light of it, but I've had it since age 20
> and
> > I'm almost 40 now, so I've really come to terms with it.
> >
> > Good luck with telling him. My thoughts will be with you and do
> let
> > us know how it goes.
> >
> > Hugs,
> > Stacia in Daytona
> >
> > --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
> (mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , luvmylab_2
> > <no_reply@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hello. I recently started seeing someone new and it's getting
to
> > be
> > > about that time to tell him I have H. I haven't done this in a
> > while
> > > and of course I'm afraid he'll take off running as fast as he
> can.
> > Any
> > > suggestions on how to go about it that might help? Thank you!
> > >
> >
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