Hey everybody,,,
There's an article in the Happenings Herpes Help group e-newsletter
re:this topic....u might find it of interest,,,
The address is www.theentertainmentmall.com/happenings
Check it out,,,
:) S
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In a message dated 1/30/2007 9:34:51 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,
no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes:




Thank you for the advice! My last boyfriend basically said "ok, we'll
deal with it" and it was no problem at all. It's just hard when you
care about someone and you don't want to hurt them or freak them out.
I think he is in it for the long haul, but if this makes him run,
then I just have to believe that it's not meant to be. I've had this
for about 10 years and it's still a big pain in that respect!!

I think we're getting together Thurs night so I hope to tell him
then....will let you know what happens!

S

--- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , "luv2ridefast"
<staish@...> wrote:
>
> Hi there,
>
> I don't have much advice for you. I've only had to tell 2 people.
> One said, "Whew, that's a relief, I have it too" and the other one
> said that he was okay with it, anyone who didn't understand and
> couldn't deal with it wasn't worth having, I really thought it was
> going to be okay and I thought he was "the one", but I was wrong.
> Then, he promptly disappeared. This was devastating as he was a
> friend for a long time and we no longer even have a friendship.
So,
> I have to tell myself that he wasn't worth having.
>
> I dread the time that I have to do it again, but hang in there and
> just be honest. We can only hope that the folks we tell appreciate
> us telling them. I think the only way I have come up with to tell
is
> just to sit down and say that before things get too intense you
just
> need to have a serious talk with him and just come out and tell
> him. Then, maybe suggest he do some research on the internet or
see
> a doctor to ask questions and go from there. It amazes me when
> people freak, as it isn't something that will KILL you, it's just a
> nuisance. Not to make light of it, but I've had it since age 20
and
> I'm almost 40 now, so I've really come to terms with it.
>
> Good luck with telling him. My thoughts will be with you and do
let
> us know how it goes.
>
> Hugs,
> Stacia in Daytona
>
> --- In _OrlandoFLHerpesSingOrlandoFLHerpesSOrlando_
(mailto:OrlandoFLHerpesSinglesSite@yahoogroups.com) , luvmylab_2
> <no_reply@> wrote:
> >
> > Hello. I recently started seeing someone new and it's getting to
> be
> > about that time to tell him I have H. I haven't done this in a
> while
> > and of course I'm afraid he'll take off running as fast as he
can.
> Any
> > suggestions on how to go about it that might help? Thank you!
> >
>








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