To transform every single relationship you have in your life:

• Fall in love with YOU!
  (you must love yourself deeply).
• Make lists of hundreds and hundreds of wonderful things about you. Keep adding to it every day.
• Know that you are perfect.
  (do not think any negative thoughts about you).
• Know that you are worthy and deserving of anything and everything you could possibly want in your life.
• Focus on the wonderful things in every person. Look for only those things.
• Do not blame or criticize anybody, ever.
• Set an intention that you are going to see the best in everything and everyone.
• Make your happiness the number one thing in your life.
  (Happiness is an inside job.)
• Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy
  (respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness).
• Get your attention off those things in others that don't make you feel good.
• Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can.
• Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing.
• Love and respect yourself completely.
• Know that you are PERFECT right now.