Somewhere society came to the conclusion that the "it takes a
village" philosophy had been abandoned. But the more closely I come
into contact with caregivers of all types, I realize that the village
has not gone anywhere. What seems to be true is that caregivers
belong to a secret club. When we begin to talk openly with one
another, expressing our feelings, hopes and desires, collaborative
opportunities will become increasing apparent. We must slow down and
recognize the daily sacrifices we make for our loved ones without so
much as a second thought. We must come together as a community, as a
group of people who care for and about our loved ones.

Whether you are a paid professional, working in health care, a
volunteer or caring for someone you love... I commend you... I see
all that you do... The sacrifices you have made have not gone
unnoticed.

I think that Oliver Wendell Holmes best states my true felling
related to caregiving: "I find that great thing in this world is not
so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving. To reach
the port of heaven, we must sail sometimes with the wind and
sometimes against it, but we must sail, and not drift, not lie at
anchor."

I pray that we stand together in one accord, as members of the
village and sail in the common direction supporting, loving and
caring for one another.

Sincerely,

Eboni Green
(Standing together is an excerpt from Caregiving in the New
Millennium, 2001)