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#16583 From: "George" <gbsona40@...>
Date: Wed Jun 1, 2005 9:25 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy,

I'm so sorry about your loss. The death of a child is probably the
hardest thing for parents to go through. I wish I could find something
better to say, but words seem to fail me at times like this.

George

#16582 From: BracinKnee@...
Date: Wed Jun 1, 2005 1:27 am
Subject: Camping Update
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 We are back and getting caught up on sleep. Sorry we haven't updated sooner, but we were tired. We think they packed a whole weeks worth of activities into two days!! LOL!!

We left Friday afternoon, earlier than planned since last year it took us an hour to drive 20 miles....of course, it only took 25 minutes, so we arrived at the meeting place way early. We met up with Shaun, Lynne and Me-Me and drove up to camp, after stopping for dinner at McDonalds first. When we arrived, it was thundering so I went inside while Brenda did a quick, rushed job of unpacking before the rain hit. She made it just in time and didn't have to unload the van in the rain. We were supposed to go swimming Friday night, but due to the storm, we just hung out and played games and such. I gave
Arianna a blanket from B4SMA . I think she really liked it. Her picture is up on the website already.

We went to bed early (by our standards) at 11 and were up early Saturday morning (I didn't sleep well as my bed was having issues again). I was up in my chair by 7:30 am...unbelievable, isn't it!! We went for breakfast (eggs, sausages, potatoes, waffles, toast, cereal)....I had a waffle, 2 sausage links and some potatoes. It was pretty good. I tried the eggs, but they weren't so hot! After breakfast we all went down to the lake to go fishing. I just watched everyone since it is more fun that way. I think everyone who fished caught at least one fish!! While we were fishing, a few people went on a boat ride. It was a beautiful day, so it was nice to just sit and relax. After fishing, it was arts and crafts time. Last year at camp, they didn't have any tshirts my size, so I came prepared with 2 for me and 2 for Brenda. We tyedyed our tshirts, the cheater style....by taking a bottle and squirting color onto the shirts. After dying Brenda's hands all different colors, it was time for lunch. It was chicken, potatoes, salad. I had 2 pieces of chicken. The potatoes were too spicy, so I didn't eat those.

After lunch there was a storyteller, but I didn't stay long for that. We then went outside and played with bubbles. I had brought everyone a Gazillion Bubbles and gave everyone a bottle of them. We were having so much fun. It was great watching the little kids pop the bubbles. After that it was swim time. I decided not to go swimming because last year, I had muscle spasms for 2 weeks after that....and since I have SAT's this Saturday, I figured it wouldn't be smart to do that. We went to the pool with everyone and Brenda took some pictures. Brenda and I went for a walk. We went down to the lake again and I reclined back, catching some rays! We went to the van and got a snack since I was still hungry and just enjoyed being outside in the beautiful weather. Brenda and I enjoyed the weather so much, we missed the beginning of the carnival games, which was ok, since it turned into a giant water fight. The kids were running around throwing water on the counselors. It was fun to watch but I am glad that my chair didn't get wet....it doesn't do well with water. Are you tired yet, we sure were. We went for a walk along the trails after the water fight to show our new friends the trails. Then it was back for dinner. I wasn't very hungry since I usally don't eat 3 times a day so I only had a dinner roll and cake. They also had ham, potatoes, and salad. Brenda said it was good. After dinner we went back outside and walked around and sat and talked. We had a campfire in the pavillion (since it looked like rain again) at 7:30. The counselors sang songs and we made S'Mores. I didn't have one since I had just eaten cake. We headed back to the lodge and talked some more and just hung out. I was up so long, that my battery on my feeding pump died so it was time to lay down. First though, I let Arianna try out my turning mattress. She was a little scared at first, but she liked it. Then we had to show everyone how I use my lift and get out of my chair. I was asleep at 11:30 (still early for me). I slept like a log Saturday night.

I was up in my chair by 8am on Sunday morning. I slept in until 7:30. Brenda packed some stuff up before breakfast to get a jump on the day. We headed down to breakfast, which was pretty good. I had pancakes and potatoes, but didn't really like the pancakes. I did eat 2 hash brown patties though. (Have you figured out that they love to make potatoes yet???) After breakfast, people could choose between swimming and the challange course. I knew swimming was out and the challenge course involved getting out of my chair, so I hung out while Brenda packed the van up. We also talked to others who didn't go swimming and went and took more pictures of the kids in the pool. We went to lunch and I had a cheeseburger but couldn't eat it so I took Brenda's hotdog and ate that instead. I also had Cool Ranch Doritoes with it. After lunch everyone was saying their goodbyes and packing up. We did take pictures of
Joshua with his B4SMA blanket , which are up too.

On the way home we stopped at Comstock Covered Bridge. We got unloaded and went to go up and noticed that the bridge was closed. We did take a few pictures of Shaun and I at the bridge before getting back into the van and heading home. We arrived home around 4pm and got everything unloaded. I was sooo tired, I didn't even go on the computer all night. I was exhausted.

Monday, I was glad it was a holiday. I slept in until 11'ish and finally did go online. Brenda had went on before I woke up and found my SAT scores. Of course, the scores don't have the essay added on, since they are still finding/grading/??? it but as of right now, without the essay, I have an 1860 out of 2400. Not too bad. On the critical reading section, I rank in the 93 percentile in the nation and 94 % in state. On the math, I rank 91 in the nation and 92 in state. I have to wait for another 1 to 2 weeks before I find out my essay score. UGGGHHHH!!! I am happy with what I got so far and can't wait to hear what my score on the essay is!!

Last night, I took everyone out for dinner to IHOP!! I had gotten gift certificates from a family after I helped do
their sons' website. They thanked me with food!!! LOL!! The food was wonderful. I had a country omelette. Thanks Mindy and family!!! After dinner we came home and answered some of my emails.

Last night at 9pm Brenda changed my gtube. I have been having a problem with granulation for about a month now and it did get better but it just keeps coming back. We heard that sometimes, changing the tube will help so after I put it off for a week, Brenda said that it was time. It went really well, didn't have a problem at all. I was nervous because of all the granulation tissue that was there, thinking it might be hard to reinsert a new tube. It went in quickly. It bled a lot, but I was done and sitting back up in 25 minutes. I slept good last night and have an appointment to see Dr. Proskin this afternoon to get Kenalog cream and Ciprodex drops for my tubie site. I want to get rid of this darn granulation without having to use silver nitrate.

So that was my last few days. Now it is time for lots of homework to get done. Classes are winding down and testing time is coming up soon. I am also retaking my SAT's on Saturday again. This time, I am having Brenda write my essay on the paper instead of typing it so that there is NO WAY they can lose it again! Take care everyone and prayers to all my friends who aren't doing well.

Want to see some pics??? Visit my
Photo Album or Click Here for ALL the pics!

MJ

Quote for today:
Waiting for the fish to bite or waiting for wind to fly a kite. Or waiting around for Friday night or waiting perhaps for their Uncle Jake or a pot to boil or a better break or a string of pearls or a pair of pants or a wig with curls or another chance. Everyone is just waiting. ~Dr. Seuss
 
Brenda
caregiver to MJ, 17, SMA type 1

http://www.mjthesmaqueen.com/ - MJ's new website
http://www.our-sma-angels.com/Margaret/
- MJ's 1st website
http://www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk
- MJ's journal
http://www.our-sma-angels.com/b4sma
- MJ's organization
http://www.caringbridge.org/ny/b4sma
- B4SMA Information

Having courage does not mean that we are unafraid.
Having courage and showing courage means we face our fears.
We are able to say, "I have fallen, but I will get up."
---Maya Angelou--
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#16581 From: "Diane" <dpro@...>
Date: Wed Jun 1, 2005 4:59 am
Subject: Re: 2005 MDA Grants
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Looks like alot of great work happening Arnold. I hope we find some sucess.
Thanks for sharing that info .
Diane




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From: "apelofsky" <apelofsky@...>
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Sent: Tuesday, May 31, 2005 3:41 PM
Subject: [MD-List] 2005 MDA Grants


> Have you checked out the 2005 MDA grants? Check out
> http://www.mdausa.org/research/grants/2005GRANTS.pdf
>
> It seems there is nothing for today's generation. Does anyone agree
> with me or am I alone in this opinion?
>
> Arnold
>
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> Yahoo! Groups Links
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#16580 From: Evadne <sissy0390@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 11:13 pm
Subject: Terry
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Thank you all for your support. Another thing I would like to say is, that when Terry was in the ER, and fighting to get stable, He calmly said " I love you all, and tell Tanya (his twin sister) I love her to". I think at that time he knew and I also knew. This is when they told us to think about venting, and we did. Thank you all agian for your support. Will write some of you later.

#16579 From: "Lisa A. Jones" <lisajonesrn@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 10:54 pm
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy,

I am so sorry for your loss.  I know it is not easy to lose Terry.  I will keep you and your family in prayer.  If there is anything else I can do let me know.  You are welcome to email anytime also

lisajonesrn@...

 



Evadne <sissy0390@...> wrote:
Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.


Sincerely Yours,
Lisa A. Jones
 
 
 
 
 
 

#16578 From: "apelofsky" <apelofsky@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 8:41 pm
Subject: 2005 MDA Grants
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Have you checked out the 2005 MDA grants? Check out
http://www.mdausa.org/research/grants/2005GRANTS.pdf

It seems there is nothing for today's generation. Does anyone agree
with me or am I alone in this opinion?

Arnold

#16577 From: "Lynda Roy" <lyndroy@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 8:08 pm
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Hi Sissy,

I am sorry for your loss but you and your family showed incredible
courage to allow Terry to die in the way he wanted to.  I'm so glad
his last day was spent the way he wanted with his family at his side.

Lynda
   --- In MD-List@yahoogroups.com, Evadne <sissy0390@y...> wrote:
>
> Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry
had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all
different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked
about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or
reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru
the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much
fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not
swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable.
Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and
put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took
him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did
really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart
rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever
other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That
Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to
>  do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son
was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that
kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it
would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't
suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at
9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is
to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His
lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart
was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no
matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into
the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to.
The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and
then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that
is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just
stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He
>  got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on
him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He
told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but
he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in
heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart
checked out.

#16576 From: "Mel, Johanna, Ian & Brendan Wright" <mjib@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 8:06 pm
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy,
 
I am so very sorry for your loss.  I was very moved by your post and encouraged somewhat that Terry's final day was spent in such a warm and supportive atmosphere, and that your family was able to find something to laugh about that day as well.  Oh!  I just found the photo when I was deleting your message - what a handsome and mature-looking young man! 
 
Thank you, Sissy, for making the effort to post your message to us all and for alerting/reminding us to have our sons' hearts checked out.  You never know how much you may be helping one or more of us.  I hope that knowing that you are in the minds of so many of us will help you through this difficult time.
 
Johanna
 
 

#16575 From: Jackie Torres <swpea503@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 7:21 pm
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy :
I hope that when you get a chance you e-mail me at my e-mail
wich is swpea503@...

tyson@... wrote:
> Hi Sissy
I am so sorry for your loss and in awe at the same time that you had time
to spend with Terry and will always remember that and how special it was.
You are so right there are no wheelchairs in heaven and he is running free
and having fun up there.
My son is 14 as well but at the moment he appears to be in good health.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Terry is looking
down on youb all and smiling.

Donna Mum to Tyson 14 with DMD

> Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD
> and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of
> you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems
> in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of
> May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital,
> almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his
> blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to
> get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on
> May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so
> we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He
> did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart
> rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other
> beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he
> was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He
>   got to
>  do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was
> dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him
> alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have
> prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the
> machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23,
> 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on
> heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was
> his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the
> blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do,
> there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain
> but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs
> first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach
> was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the
> end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful
>   day. He
>  got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him
> trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us
> that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not
> suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is
> healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.
>
>
>



#16574 From: Jackie Torres <swpea503@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 7:18 pm
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Hi sissy:
I don't know what to tell you in a moment like this, sometimes words are not good enought
but I will like you to know that im hurting with you, even if i did not know Terry in person,it
touch my heart since you ask the md-group for advice and support,I prayed a lot ,but when
I tried to get in touch with you, didn't get an anwer,until today that iread about terry,I can
not show you my sadness through this pc but I,m truly sad for you,because we mothers do feel like a piece of us is gone,when we don't have our lovely son,s with us. I do hope to God
that your pain esies in withing time.(sorry)
 
Jackie (mom to 6 year old with dmd)


tyson@... wrote:
> Hi Sissy
I am so sorry for your loss and in awe at the same time that you had time
to spend with Terry and will always remember that and how special it was.
You are so right there are no wheelchairs in heaven and he is running free
and having fun up there.
My son is 14 as well but at the moment he appears to be in good health.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Terry is looking
down on youb all and smiling.

Donna Mum to Tyson 14 with DMD

> Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD
> and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of
> you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems
> in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of
> May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital,
> almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his
> blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to
> get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on
> May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so
> we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He
> did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart
> rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other
> beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he
> was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He
>   got to
>  do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was
> dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him
> alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have
> prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the
> machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23,
> 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on
> heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was
> his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the
> blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do,
> there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain
> but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs
> first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach
> was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the
> end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful
>   day. He
>  got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him
> trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us
> that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not
> suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is
> healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.
>
>
>



#16573 From: Becky Steubing <bygracenotbyworks@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 3:31 pm
Subject: Re: Sissy
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Sissy,

Our prayers are with you.  I have a 14 year old son
with DMD also.  Thank you for alerting us to the heart
issues.
God is with you always.  Do you have family support
right now?  Let us know how you are holding up.

Hugs and support,
Becky S. in Missouri



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#16572 From: SKumbera@...
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 9:19 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy am so sorry to hear about your son.  You and your family are in our prayers.
Sue mom of Jon age 20 DMD, vent, trach, g-button.

#16571 From: "Pichaske, Marie" <mpichaske@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 12:25 pm
Subject: RE: Loss of a child
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Dear Sissy,
I am sorry for your loss.
Marie


From: MD-List@yahoogroups.com [mailto:MD-List@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Evadne
Sent: Tuesday, May 31, 2005 12:18 AM
To: M B; dmdgroups@yahoogroups.com; md-list@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [MD-List] Loss of a child

Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.

#16570 From: ILuvMere@...
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 7:48 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Sissy,
I do remember you. I am sorry that nothing could be done for Terry. Losing a child is a terrible thing and I wish you the best. Know that you can still share your trauma with all of us here.
Carol

#16569 From: "Dana Miller" <dana.miller@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 11:41 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Hi Sissy, I am so very sorry for your loss, your post was very moving but also scary, as my son has just started getting attention for his heart at 9, Please take care of yourself.
 
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From: Evadne
Sent: Tuesday, May 31, 2005 12:18 AM
Subject: [MD-List] Loss of a child

Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.



#16568 From: "Adele" <jasona65@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 11:42 am
Subject: RE: Loss of a child
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Sissy, I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Terry.  Despite what you say, he was too young. Any child that goes before his parents was too young.  But as you say, he had a good life.  He is at peace and that the most important things.

 

Know that I will be praying for you and the rest of your family.

 

Adele

 


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Subject: [MD-List] Loss of a child

 

Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.

 


#16567 From: tyson@...
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 7:05 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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> Hi Sissy
I am so sorry for your loss and in awe at the same time that you had time
to spend with Terry and will always remember that and how special it was.
You are so right there are no wheelchairs in heaven and he is running free
and having fun up there.
My son is 14 as well but at the moment he appears to be in good health.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Terry is looking
down on youb all and smiling.

Donna Mum to Tyson 14 with DMD

> Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD
> and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of
> you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems
> in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of
> May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital,
> almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his
> blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to
> get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on
> May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so
> we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He
> did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart
> rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other
> beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he
> was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He
>   got to
>  do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was
> dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him
> alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have
> prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the
> machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23,
> 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on
> heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was
> his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the
> blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do,
> there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain
> but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs
> first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach
> was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the
> end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful
>   day. He
>  got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him
> trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us
> that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not
> suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is
> healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.
>
>
>

#16566 From: AV <raybug10@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 4:37 am
Subject: Re: Loss of a child
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Hi Sissy,
 
I am so sorry for your loss.  I don't even know what to say.  Though some may live longer than 14, sadly, not all do. :(  I know of another mother of a young son with DMD who's heart is not willing to keep going much longer--like you said, even with meds and all a mom can do.  He is 15.  I hope it is always a comfort that Terry was happy and smiling and able to laugh with his family before leaving this world for the next place.  Yes, heaven has no wheelchairs and Terry is running, free and in perfect health!  May God keep you and give you comfort as you wait to join your son some day.  God bless you.
 
Anneliese mom to a wonderful son 13 with dmd.

Evadne <sissy0390@...> wrote:
Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.


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#16565 From: Evadne <sissy0390@...>
Date: Tue May 31, 2005 4:18 am
Subject: Loss of a child
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Hi, my name is Sissy, mother of Terry age 14 from Texas. My Terry had DMD and the problems that come with it. I know we are all different. Some of you may remember me from awhile back. I had asked about stomach problems in boys with DMD. I had got no answers or reasons why, until the weeks of May 10 - 23, 2005. My Terry went thru the ER at Texas Children's Hospital, almost dead. He had to much fluid in his tissues and not enough in his blood, but was not swollen. They had to put him on a vent and worked to get him stable. Terry stabled out, so they removed him from the vent on May21, and put him on bi pap. Things were still not working properly, so we took him off bi pap, and put him on regular oxygen,that same day. He did really good. Blood pressure stayed good, oxygen stayed good, heart rate was good. He was having alot of irregular heart beats like ever other beat. Terry really did good from sat., till Mon, May 23. That Monday he was sitting up in bed and talking to us. He got to do what he wanted to do, with out the bi pap or vent. See, my son was dying regardless of the meds they gave him, or the machines that kept him alive longer. My son didn't want all that stuff, because it would have prolonged the outcome, which was death. My son didn't suffer all the machines and the tubes. My sons heart gave out at 9:47p.m. on May 23, 2005, at age 14. So please do not tell me that is to young. He was on heart meds for 4 yrs. Echo every 6 months. His lungs were good. It was his heart muscles that gave out. The heart was no longer pumping the blood to were it was suppose to go. So no matter what I did or didn't do, there was no hope. When we came into the ER, blood was going to the brain but not like it was suppose to. The heart pumps the blood to the lungs first, then to the brain, and then to the rest of the body. The stomach was way down the line, that is why he was having stomach problems. At the end the heart just stopped squeezing, but he had a wonderful day. He got to laugh and speak to us, his family. We all had our hands on him trying to warm him up because he was so cold and had 102 temp. He told us that he loved us, and God took him. I will miss my Terry, but he is not suffering anymore. God does not allow wheelchairs in heaven, and he is healed. Please make sure you get your child's heart checked out.

#16564 From: "Dana Miller" <dana.miller@...>
Date: Sun May 29, 2005 6:51 pm
Subject: special words
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 Hi everyone,,
 
I just wanted to share a couple of poems I came across, some or all of you may have heard them already,, but I thought that they were worth sharing.
 
Dana

Heaven's Very Special Child
 
A meeting was held quite far from earth,
It's time again for another birth.
Said the angels to the Lord above,
This special child will need much love.
His progress may seem very slow,
Accomplishments he may not show.
And he'll require extra care,
From the folks he meets way down there.
He may not run or laugh or play,
His thoughts may seem quite far away.
In many way's he won't adapt,
And he'll be known as handicapped.
So let's be careful where he's sent,
We want his life to be content.
Please Lord find the parents who,
Will do a special job for you.
They will not realize right away,
The leading role they're asked to play.
But with this child sent from above,
Comes stronger faith and richer love,
And soon they'll know the privilege given,
In caring for this gift from heaven.
Their precious charge so meek and mild,
Is heavens very special child.
"Author Unknown"
   

The Special Mother

 

    Most women become mothers by accident, some by 

choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit.

This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers 

of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how 

mothers of handicapped children are chosen?

Somehow, I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting

His instruments for propagation with great care and

deliberation. As He observes, He instructs His angels to

make notes in a giant ledger.

 

"Armstrong, Beth, son. Patron saint Matthew.

"Forest, Marjorie, daughter. Patron saint, Cecilia.

"Rutledge, Carrie, twins. Patron saint...give her

Gerard. He's used to profanity."

Finally, He passes a name to an angel and smiles,

"Give her a handicapped child."

 

The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," smiles God. "Could I give a handicapped

child a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But does she have patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she

will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock 

and resentment wear off, she'll handle it.

"I watched her today. She has that sense of self and

independance that are so rare and so necessary in a mother.

You see, the child I'm going to give her has his own world.

She has to make it live in her world and that's not going to be easy."

"But Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles, "No matter, I can fix that. This one is

perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods, "If she can't separate herself from the child

occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman

whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't

realize it yet, but she is to be envied.

"She will never take for granted a spoken word. She

will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says

'Momma' for the first time, she will be witness to a miracle

and know it. When she describes a tree or a sunset to her

blind child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations.

"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see--

ignorance, cruelty, prejudice--and allow her to rise above

them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every

minute of every day of her life because she is doing my

work as surely as she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel,

his pen poised in mid-air.

 

God smiles, " A mirror will suffice."

           

#16563 From: Jackie Torres <swpea503@...>
Date: Sun May 29, 2005 3:50 pm
Subject: Re: Serial Castings
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Thanks Dana:
Your responce  was quiet impressive, and making choices some times is hard,
but like you said casting is better then surgery,I respect ur  decision and i liked too.
you are a good mom so keep up your good work, my son is 6 but still has not
seing a orthopidics i am wondering why every Dr. has a different opinion if we are
talking about the same child,his neurologist thinks his pretty strong,and a 2nd opinion
believes my son should statr pt and ot so im kind of confused, he does walks a lot
in his toes and this has cause him to get callus on his feet,but the Dr. saids their not bad
I just hope that their opinions don't lead my son to getting the wrong alternative in the
near future.
 
jackie


Dana Miller <dana.miller@...> wrote:
Hi Jackie,,
 
Tanner is 9 and he see's and orthopaedic surgeon,, a couple of times a year,  when we saw him in January, we agree'd that Tanner was walking on his toes most of the time, and was weakening substatialially, so we looked at the options together, which were to do the serial castings, and then getting orthodics to sustain the stretch, or to do the heelcord surgery,, we automatically ruled out the heel cord surgery, because it would require Tanner to be off his feet for 4 to 6 weeks and he did not think that he would be able to walk anymore after such a long period. so the only thing left was the serial castings, and at first he did not even want to do that because he knew that Tanner would have a hard time walking because of the weight of them.  He cannot walk independantly but with help he can go maybe 15 or 20 steps at a time, so we encourage him to do this many times a day.  After the first set was taken off the measurements were good, he had gained more than expected range, and I noticed that the curve in his back was not so severe, which they said was compensation for the lack of range in his feet,, it was to keep his balance,, so far I am happy with the results and will contine with them.  I think any medical decisions for our kids are personal choices that we have to make,, I personally weigh the risks and benefits and do what I think in  right.
 
Dana
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, May 29, 2005 11:20 AM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hy Dana:
My name is jackie and i am the mother of a 6 year old who has DMD.
and my question to you is how do we mom know about when is time,
for casting and why is so necessary for our boys,to get this done is
there ay alternative on what else to choose for helping them,get their
feet to 90 degree without the casting. please let me know a litttle about
this situation,because i want to know how to make the right the decision
when the time comes.
 
 
Thanks
jackie

Dana Miller <dana.miller@...> wrote:
Hi Joanne,
Actually after I wrote that post, we went to get the next set put on and he had actually gained more then expected range, she was really pleased, and we had taken the casts off a day early,, Tanner's not too impressed with having to wear them,, but this time we decorated them like spiderman boots so that helped, and also he got back his power chair which had been in the shop with a blown motor, and it was only 3 weeks old,, anywho,, so far so good.
 
Dana
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Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:29 PM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Dana, I have a friend whose son did the serial castings.  I will ask her to write you about it.  She was happy with the improved range of motion in her young son's feet.  They had tightened quite a bit at a young age.  It's good to get the feet to 90 degrees.  
Joanne
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:59 AM
Subject: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hi everyone,
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with Serial Castings, Tanner is on his second round of them and from what I am told it has already increased the range of his stretch in his feet and ankles, but he is very uncomfortable, and cannot walk unassisted at all, I managed ot talk him into this round but I am not sure how well I will do when it comes time to take these off and get new ones,   I was just wondering if anyone had gone through this with their kids and was it worth it??, did it help them walk any better or for longer??
 
Dana

#16562 From: "Dana Miller" <dana.miller@...>
Date: Sun May 29, 2005 3:33 pm
Subject: Re: Serial Castings
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Hi Jackie,,
 
Tanner is 9 and he see's and orthopaedic surgeon,, a couple of times a year,  when we saw him in January, we agree'd that Tanner was walking on his toes most of the time, and was weakening substatialially, so we looked at the options together, which were to do the serial castings, and then getting orthodics to sustain the stretch, or to do the heelcord surgery,, we automatically ruled out the heel cord surgery, because it would require Tanner to be off his feet for 4 to 6 weeks and he did not think that he would be able to walk anymore after such a long period. so the only thing left was the serial castings, and at first he did not even want to do that because he knew that Tanner would have a hard time walking because of the weight of them.  He cannot walk independantly but with help he can go maybe 15 or 20 steps at a time, so we encourage him to do this many times a day.  After the first set was taken off the measurements were good, he had gained more than expected range, and I noticed that the curve in his back was not so severe, which they said was compensation for the lack of range in his feet,, it was to keep his balance,, so far I am happy with the results and will contine with them.  I think any medical decisions for our kids are personal choices that we have to make,, I personally weigh the risks and benefits and do what I think in  right.
 
Dana
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, May 29, 2005 11:20 AM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hy Dana:
My name is jackie and i am the mother of a 6 year old who has DMD.
and my question to you is how do we mom know about when is time,
for casting and why is so necessary for our boys,to get this done is
there ay alternative on what else to choose for helping them,get their
feet to 90 degree without the casting. please let me know a litttle about
this situation,because i want to know how to make the right the decision
when the time comes.
 
 
Thanks
jackie

Dana Miller <dana.miller@...> wrote:
Hi Joanne,
Actually after I wrote that post, we went to get the next set put on and he had actually gained more then expected range, she was really pleased, and we had taken the casts off a day early,, Tanner's not too impressed with having to wear them,, but this time we decorated them like spiderman boots so that helped, and also he got back his power chair which had been in the shop with a blown motor, and it was only 3 weeks old,, anywho,, so far so good.
 
Dana
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:29 PM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Dana, I have a friend whose son did the serial castings.  I will ask her to write you about it.  She was happy with the improved range of motion in her young son's feet.  They had tightened quite a bit at a young age.  It's good to get the feet to 90 degrees.  
Joanne
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:59 AM
Subject: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hi everyone,
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with Serial Castings, Tanner is on his second round of them and from what I am told it has already increased the range of his stretch in his feet and ankles, but he is very uncomfortable, and cannot walk unassisted at all, I managed ot talk him into this round but I am not sure how well I will do when it comes time to take these off and get new ones,   I was just wondering if anyone had gone through this with their kids and was it worth it??, did it help them walk any better or for longer??
 
Dana

#16561 From: Jackie Torres <swpea503@...>
Date: Sun May 29, 2005 3:20 pm
Subject: Re: Serial Castings
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Hy Dana:
My name is jackie and i am the mother of a 6 year old who has DMD.
and my question to you is how do we mom know about when is time,
for casting and why is so necessary for our boys,to get this done is
there ay alternative on what else to choose for helping them,get their
feet to 90 degree without the casting. please let me know a litttle about
this situation,because i want to know how to make the right the decision
when the time comes.
 
 
Thanks
jackie

Dana Miller <dana.miller@...> wrote:
Hi Joanne,
Actually after I wrote that post, we went to get the next set put on and he had actually gained more then expected range, she was really pleased, and we had taken the casts off a day early,, Tanner's not too impressed with having to wear them,, but this time we decorated them like spiderman boots so that helped, and also he got back his power chair which had been in the shop with a blown motor, and it was only 3 weeks old,, anywho,, so far so good.
 
Dana
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:29 PM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Dana, I have a friend whose son did the serial castings.  I will ask her to write you about it.  She was happy with the improved range of motion in her young son's feet.  They had tightened quite a bit at a young age.  It's good to get the feet to 90 degrees.  
Joanne
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:59 AM
Subject: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hi everyone,
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with Serial Castings, Tanner is on his second round of them and from what I am told it has already increased the range of his stretch in his feet and ankles, but he is very uncomfortable, and cannot walk unassisted at all, I managed ot talk him into this round but I am not sure how well I will do when it comes time to take these off and get new ones,   I was just wondering if anyone had gone through this with their kids and was it worth it??, did it help them walk any better or for longer??
 
Dana

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Date: Sun May 29, 2005 3:46 am
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#16559 From: "Dana Miller" <dana.miller@...>
Date: Sat May 28, 2005 8:13 pm
Subject: Re: Serial Castings
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Hi Joanne,
Actually after I wrote that post, we went to get the next set put on and he had actually gained more then expected range, she was really pleased, and we had taken the casts off a day early,, Tanner's not too impressed with having to wear them,, but this time we decorated them like spiderman boots so that helped, and also he got back his power chair which had been in the shop with a blown motor, and it was only 3 weeks old,, anywho,, so far so good.
 
Dana
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:29 PM
Subject: Re: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Dana, I have a friend whose son did the serial castings.  I will ask her to write you about it.  She was happy with the improved range of motion in her young son's feet.  They had tightened quite a bit at a young age.  It's good to get the feet to 90 degrees.  
Joanne
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, May 27, 2005 7:59 AM
Subject: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hi everyone,
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with Serial Castings, Tanner is on his second round of them and from what I am told it has already increased the range of his stretch in his feet and ankles, but he is very uncomfortable, and cannot walk unassisted at all, I managed ot talk him into this round but I am not sure how well I will do when it comes time to take these off and get new ones,   I was just wondering if anyone had gone through this with their kids and was it worth it??, did it help them walk any better or for longer??
 
Dana

#16558 From: Kathleen Bennett <mom4strays@...>
Date: Sat May 28, 2005 11:49 am
Subject: Re: Scoliosis Surgery >>>>>>> Yonah
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Joanne,
 
Dr. Shufflebarger is an incredibly rare and talented person who found his perfect niche.  I don't hand out "glowing reports" often or easily - lol!  I've never heard of anyone having to think about surgery to correct scoliosis at such a young age as Yonah's son and my heart goes out to him.  I remember what a tough decision it was when I had to have the scapular fusion.  The awful things doctors were saying (from the surgery would do nothing to help to I would be paralyzed if the surgery were performed).  I also remember how much relief I felt once I saw Dr. Shufflebarger.  I just knew everything was going to be okay.  I only wish Yonah and his family lived closer to Miami so Dr. Shufflebarger could actually do the surgery on Moshe.
 
Kathy


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Date: Sat May 28, 2005 10:02 am
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Hi Brian,
I did send it to Pat.  And Thanks.  It was fun to write.  And fun to be
there.
Joanne



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#16556 From: "Joanne & David" <jodave1@...>
Date: Fri May 27, 2005 11:36 pm
Subject: Re: Scoliosis Surgery >>>>>>> Yonah
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Wow, that is the most glowing report I've ever heard of a doctor!  That's great you can trust his opinion and that he offered you an alternative before surgery to make sure surgery was the best option.  Yonah, have you found the Nemaline Myopathy group on Yahoo and spoke with the mom's (and dad's) there?  I'm sorry you have such a tough decision on your plate for your very young son.  My guy is 9 with duchenne's and we're really hoping we'll be able to forego surgery, but you never know.
Good luck.  Trust your instincts.
Joanne
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Subject: Re: [MD-List] Scoliosis Surgery >>>>>>> Yonah

Yonah,
 
What a horrendous decision to have to make regarding a four year old.  I do not envy you and hope my experience will help you.
 
I have FSH muscular dystrophy.  Before the dystrophy was diagnosed, my clavicles were removed, which left nothing but my muscles to hold up my shoulders.  As my muscles weakened, my right shoulder fell and sat on the nerve center (the brachial plexus) to my right arm.  This caused excruciating, never-ending pain and I had to have a scapular fusion to correct the problem.
 
I was born and grew up in Miami.  When I was in high school in the '70s, scoliosis seemed to become an epidemic.  Nearly half of all my friends were diagnosed with it and either had to wear a brace for years and years and/or had to have Harrington rod surgery.  Every one of them saw Dr. Shufflebarger and his mentor (whose name I can't remember, sorry).  At that time, they had an office in exclusive Coral Gables and operated at Doctor's Hospital and Variety  Hospital. Dr. Shufflebarger's mentor retired, Variety Hospital became Miami Children's Hospital and the time came for my scapular fusion surgery.  I spent one year going to 18 different doctors - including the head of the Department of Neurology at Jackson Memorial - the University of Miami teaching hospital, where there was a muscular dystrophy clinic.  No one could give me any definite answers regading my surgery, dropped shoulder and/or scapular fusion.  A friend of ours from church who had two daughters who'd had surgery for scoliosis (both performed by Dr. Shufflebarger) heard of my problems, called and talked me into going to see Dr. Shufflebarger.  For some reason, I didn't really want to go see him but I was desperate.  I still thank God Mrs. Wright called and talked me into seeing Dr. Shufflebarger!  He is an unobtrusive, odd little man with a seldom seen bashful smile without airs - totally unimpressive; however, I grew to admire and adore this man with all my heart.  The first thing he did was put me in a full body cast.  He felt a body cast would emulate the effect of the scapular fusion surgery by pulling back my shoulder.  If his idea relieved my pain, he felt the surgery would work.  If not, he would not have performed needless MAJOR surgery on me.  A simple, yet genius idea!  It worked and six weeks later, he performed the actual surgery on me.  While I thought Dr. Shufflebarger's bedside manor was a bit lacking and I didn't like the way the residents who reported to him ran over him, I do believe he is the PREMIERE doctor for doing scoliosis surgery.
 
A couple years later, I had to have some of my wires removed because my body began to reject them.  Since my chest wall muscles had weakened and breathing had become more difficult, Dr. Shufflebarger did the surgery without general anesthesia or any type of muscle relaxers.  We talked while he did the surgery and I learned he had just come back from a month in South America where he volunteered his time and operated on people down there for free.  My admiration for him grew even more.
 
As Miami Children's Hospital grew, they pursued Dr. Shufflebarger to move his practice to MCH and operate there exclusively.  He did.  Also at MCH was the MDA clinic, which Dr. Shufflebarger also participated in.  During one of my follow-up visits, a doctor from California called.  This doctor was in the middle of surgery and called to have Dr. Shufflebarger guide him through placement of the rods.  This was not prearranged - the doctor got stuck in the middle of an operation and didn't know what to do!  Dr. Shufflebarger just shook his head and walked this man through the operation.  I've always said I was so glad I went to the doctor other doctors called and not vice versa.
 
I've had 16 operations and seen more doctors than I can even remember in the last 37 years of being ill.  I rarely recomend a doctor but I say to you that Dr. Shufflebarger is one of the BEST doctors I have ever known or heard of in my lifetime.  I placed my life in this man's hands and would do it again at anytime.  He is a sweet, kind, caring, ethical, professional, highly skilled, extremely knowledgable, conservative (not cut happy) orthopedic surgeon with 35+ years of practice specializing in scoliosis surgery.  I've seen at least a couple hundred doctors in my lifetime and would only say similar things about two of them.  Without a second's hesitation, I would urge you to follow Dr. Shufflebarger's recommendation.

I hope this helps in your difficult talk,

Best wishes,

Kathy

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#16555 From: "Joanne & David" <jodave1@...>
Date: Fri May 27, 2005 11:29 pm
Subject: Re: Serial Castings
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Dana, I have a friend whose son did the serial castings.  I will ask her to write you about it.  She was happy with the improved range of motion in her young son's feet.  They had tightened quite a bit at a young age.  It's good to get the feet to 90 degrees.  
Joanne
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Subject: [MD-List] Serial Castings

Hi everyone,
 
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with Serial Castings, Tanner is on his second round of them and from what I am told it has already increased the range of his stretch in his feet and ankles, but he is very uncomfortable, and cannot walk unassisted at all, I managed ot talk him into this round but I am not sure how well I will do when it comes time to take these off and get new ones,   I was just wondering if anyone had gone through this with their kids and was it worth it??, did it help them walk any better or for longer??
 
Dana

#16554 From: "apelofsky" <apelofsky@...>
Date: Fri May 27, 2005 6:14 pm
Subject: Re: Toxins and DMD
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Dear Vikki:

I think we are arguing symantics more than science. Do you have any
definitive data (not assumption) to support your opinions? If so,
please point me to these papers.

What I am doing is transferring information from other disciplines
and diseases. Based on what I have gleaned from the literature these
last 5 years, the people who work in this field conduct "circular
reasoning." They suggest all sorts of physiomechanisms without a
shred of definitive data to support their hypotheses. Meanwhile kids
have suffered and died. Here we have a disease marker a full 5 to 8
years before symptoms appear and no one has even designed an
experiment that would determine why this is so. Doesn't this fact
bother you at least a little bit?

It is my feeling that inflammation is the key. For some reason
oxygen doesn't get into the tissues of concern. As a result, the
tissues break down. The resulting byproducts don't just disappear.
Does it really matter if they are filtered by the liver or by the
kidneys? So much tissue eventually breaks down that both organs are
likely overloaded and the byproducts end up circulating in the blood
and affecting other organs. These organs then become inflamed and
malfunction and subsequently fail. I don't know whether our
biosystem can be detoxified but it is a thought that needs
investigation. I can't find anyone that has made such a suggestion
in the literation. Prove me wrong with factual data and I'll
apologize profusely.

I am starting to get a complex. People keep on telling me that I am
wrong without a fact to support their way of thinking.

Arnold (PhD, Chemical Engineer)

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> Thank you Vikki!
>
> Holly
>
> Vikki Stefans <vstefans@g...> wrote:
> I'm not sure this concept is really being presented correctly. For
one
> thing, dystrophic muscle does not "decay" or rot exactly, the way
tissue
> outside of a living organism or like devitalized tissue in a
pressure sore
> or area otherwise deprived of blood flow would. When a great deal
of
> muscle breaks down acutely, aka rhabdomyolysis, the main component
is
> myoglobin, which must be handled by the kidney. It is possible to
have a
> kidney clogged with myoglobin and a very high fluid intake is used
to try
> to manage this when it occurs. It can occur with malignant
hyperthermia
> and I have one patient with a dystrophy who has had it upon heat
exposure,
> but it is not a very common event in general. The high "liver
function
> tests" actually do not result from liver activity at all but are
enzymes
> released as muscle cell breakdown or membrane leakage products as
well.
>
> I know we all wish there were real cures or greater benefits for
less side
> effects out there for ourselves or our kids, but I just don't
think coffee
> enemas are likely to help anyone, or that the body needs anything
extra
> like that to clear any remains or byproducts of muscle cell
breakdown.
> Body cells die all the time and the body takes care of that with
various
> enzymes, other cells, etc. I can't think of an intracellular
component
> that would truly be "toxic" to any other organ other than a very
high
> myoglobin release all at once as described above.
>
> Sherry Rogers writes primarily about external toxins, and Dr.
Gonzalez
> advocates a diet, detoxifcation, and use of high dose pancreatic
enzymes
> primarily as an adjunct to pancreatic cancer treatment. He has
registered
> a clinical trial for this, which is excellent, as pilot and animal
studies
> were unblinded and uncontrolled (based on historical controls.)
See
> http://www.dr-gonzalez.com). Applicability to muscular dystrophy
would not
> seem to be implied by this work - dystrophic muscle is nothing at
all like
> cancerous tissue- and the enzyme could be the essential component
of the
> plan in any event.
>
>
> Vikki Stefans, M.D., pediatric physiatrist (rehab doc for kids) at
UAMS
> and Arkansas Children's Hospital.  Working Mom of Sarah T. and
Michael C.,
> and wife of Henry Stefans. Every mom is a working mom!- OK, dads
too.
>
> On Thu, 26 May 2005, Arlene  wrote:
>
> > The specialist don't know exactly what or how to do very much
about
> > MD. A lot of money has been spent on research.  They have never
> > mentioned toxins, I don't know what toxins would have to do with
it.
> > Arlene
> >>
> >> My hypothesis is:
> >>
> >> The lack of dystrophin in the skeletal muscle tissue is
abnormal and
> >> eventually causes the muscle to slowly decay and finally die.
Obviously
> >> the funding agencies are trying to replace the dystrophin but
it is a
> >> very long term project that doesn't look like it'll help
today's
> >> generation especially the older individuals. Forty years of
research
> >> have proven this fact.
> >>
> >> It is my guess that the lack of dystrophin is not the immediate
> >> problem. What really is the immediate problem is the release of
toxins
> >> (poisons) produced when the muscle starts decaying. Today's
generation
> >> could immediately be helped if drugs and/or methodologies are
invented
> >> or found that will neutralize these toxins.
> >>
> >> As these toxins (poisons) are released the immune system reacts
as if
> >> these toxins were foreign bodies thus causing inflammation and
> >> autoimmune reactions. Likely these toxins also enter the cells
of the
> >> diaphragm and/or lungs and/or heart and other systems causing
them to
> >> lose effectiveness, efficiency and subsequently fail. My
support for
> >> this hypothesis is that autopsies have proven that cancer
tumors don't
> >> kill the person. It is the toxins produced by the decay of
these cancer
> >> cells that eventually kill the individual. Also the people who
suffer
> >> muscle atrophy probably also produce toxin since their muscle
tissue is
> >> also decaying.
> >>
> >> Steroids obviously reduces the inflammation and autoimmune
response
> >> but, eventually, there effectiveness is overwhelmed by the
buildup of
> >> toxins over an extended period of time. There just has to be
better
> >> agents. Treatment must begin as soon as the kids are diagnosed.
So far
> >> we only have the cocktail and steroids.
> >>
> >> Finally inflammation must be monitored by continually measuring
C-
> >> reactive protein. It is a rather inexpensive blood test that
can
> >> determine the precise dosage of steroids that should be
administered to
> >> your child. Speak to your clinician so he could balance your
child's
> >> condition with the precise dose of steroids. IOW, too much
steroids is
> >> just as bad as too little.
> >>
> >> It is also likely that the kids have elevated liver enzymes
because the
> >> liver filters out these toxins that are produced as a result of
the
> >> muscle disease. Many physicians including Dr. Nicholas Gonzalez
of NY
> >> and Dr. Sherry Rogers of Sarasota suggest that coffee enemas
are
> >> effective in purging the toxins from the liver. Milk thistle
and
> >> acupuncture may also be effective. BTW, purging the liver from
these
> >> toxins might be an effective treatment for the older
individuals of
> >> today's generation.
> >>
> >> Arnold
>
>
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