When I 1st heard about the K-Rush technique (see Related Link below) I recognized it as a variation of the "techniques" I'd been using for years to work on guys -in order to build friendships & make more solid bonds with some of my buddies. It mixes respect with genuine compassion.
Let me be clear: I've never been comfortable with the term "gay", -primarily because it always seemed to be a package deal & to use the term implied that you accepted the entire "package". Well, the "gay-package" always struck me as disrespectful of masculinity (in too many ways to name here). Part of loving guys has taught me that lots of guys love guys -even those who love women. However, loving a guy is exactly that - loving him for his masculine traits (NOT any attempt to disrespect a guy's manhood in any way, shape or form). "Danny" should NEVER be treated as a "Donna", nor should he ever be asked to play the 'female role' -in any capacity! Because of this strong belief, I've always formed solid friendships with extremely masculine guys. What I discovered (early on) was that you can speed up the friendship if you can involve physical contact (like massage). The "K-Rush" technique is awesome for this because it is a very firm set of massage-like movements that is extremely good at pumping a guy's body full of natural endorphins. Usually, the 1st treatment will change the nature of a friendship. Over time, guys you "K-Rush" develop a much tighter bond with you -& of those, several will generally open up to much higher levels of intimacy. Again, the type of intimacy I'm talking about is not on par with "gay" (What I'm talking about is becoming so close to another dude that he'll trust you with his personal stuff, & consider you a best friend.) Nobody EVER gets "b1tched"! NEVER! N0T gAy!
There is a rapidly growing men's movement (called 'g0y' -spelled w. a ZER0) that recognizes that lots (+60%) of guys have this need for genuine, 1st-rate, male bonding. See "LINKS" on the left for more.