I've been in diapers/plastic pants at night ever since I was 13 years old, I was heavily sexually abused in a catholic School for Boys I was in, I'm 58 now.

Had a bladder problem back in June 2006 which resulted in total loss of control.  Have been in diapers/plastic pants 24/7 ever since.  Got some control back, but Doctor says loss is permanent, something he called Hysterical Nerve Damage relating back to what happened to me as a boy.  Thus I'll be in diapers the rest of my life, and my family is noted for its long living people.

Was depressed at first at having to wear diapers 24/7, but have since found that I actually enjoy wearing them now.  Usually two or three at a time.  Right now I'm wearing Tena Extra disposables, but plan on getting some good cloth diapers soon.

Does anyone know of a reliable place to buy them in Canada?

Thank you!

I thought that plastic pants should be cleaned like plastic bed sheets
just wipe clean with a damp cloth.
If you fing what works best for you thats what you use.
I do not think that anything will work 100% .
If you are lucky what ever you use may work or help some one elce.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> Ive been reading websites, forums and alike, and i cant seem to get
> any clear answers. Some people say plastic pants should ONLY be hand
> washed in luke warm water with ivory soap, other say you can put them
> in the washing machine, other say its good to use hot water every so
> often.
>
> so, what should i do? id rather wash them in a washing machine then
> hand wash everything. I dont want to ruin them either. also, when
> should I wash them? everyday or wear them for multiple days?
>
> Mike
>
ive been washing my plastic incontinent pants in a washing machine for
years and its fine

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--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> Ive been reading websites, forums and alike, and i cant seem to get
> any clear answers. Some people say plastic pants should ONLY be hand
> washed in luke warm water with ivory soap, other say you can put them
> in the washing machine, other say its good to use hot water every so
> often.
>
> so, what should i do? id rather wash them in a washing machine then
> hand wash everything. I dont want to ruin them either. also, when
> should I wash them? everyday or wear them for multiple days?
>
> Mike
>
ive been washing my plastic incontinent pants in a washing machine for
years and its fine

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> 1-2 mornings a week i notice i wake up wet, and ive thought it was
wet
> dreams. recently i switched to white underwear and i noticed its
nor
> semen or white dreams, its mainly urine, as theres yellow stains on
> them. This seems to happen when a) i sleep crappy the day before
and
> the next night i get good sleep and wake up wet and/or b) i get a
good
> nights rest and have a VERY deep sleep. i find when i sleep deep, i
> wake up very wet.
>
> i also noticed when im lifting heavy objects from a sitting
position,
> or just get in a awkward position and then get up or move, there is
> some leakage.
>
> it seems like when i go, theres still 1-2 drops left, but, when i
do
> use the bathroom, i make sure its all out. about 15-30 min later,
> sometimes, a few drops will leak out.
>
> I never have a problem going, nor any issues holding it in, if
> nessasary. I never find myself running to the bathroom.
>
> i did quite a bit or resurch online and found it can be "Mixed
> Incontinence". This website:
> http://www.ucurology.org/homeThumbs/femaleUrologyF.htm really
seemed
> to break it down well for me.
>
> i highly doubt its anything serious, like my prostate or anything
like
> that, im 19 and healthy, so i ruled thoes all out.
>
> any advise would be great!
>
It sounds like you need to seek medical care if you are concerned
about it imediately there are more surgical options today than there
used to be so see someone soon.  We are not Doctors and you need
medical knowledge not experience if you want to avoid long term
problems,

Ive been reading websites, forums and alike, and i cant seem to get
any clear answers. Some people say plastic pants should ONLY be hand
washed in luke warm water with ivory soap, other say you can put them
in the washing machine, other say its good to use hot water every so
often.

so, what should i do? id rather wash them in a washing machine then
hand wash everything. I dont want to ruin them either. also, when
should I wash them? everyday or wear them for multiple days?

Mike

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> im 6 ft tall and only 155lbs with a 30-31 inch waist, and only 19
yrs
> old, and a lot of the diapers out there i find seem t ve really
large
> or really not up my ally. i tried depends adjustable's, and, they
fit,
> but not snugly, and i cant tighten them to my liking. I have a
pack of
> tena's that are mainly classic diapers, and i like how i can adjust
> the tapes.
>
> with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most
call
> for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not sure
how
> that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style diapers?
or
> even go to kids/teen diapers?
>
> thanks
> mike
>Pullups are intended for those who have more control and wet less.
If you wet more you will need briefs not pullups.

Has anyone had any experience with these briefs? I have been in
either Molicare or Abena for the longest time as I wet frequently and
a high volume when I do. Are the absorbant like the others I
mentioned? I would like something that perhaps is slimmer but
absorbant still. Please let me know
Melissa



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In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <dailydi@...> wrote:
>
> SecurePersonalCare.com proudly introduces the new Secure X-Plus!
Loved
> for their excellent construction and absorbency, SECURE diapers
have
> gotten even better with the new X-Plus! These new briefs feature:
>
> * Wider, refastenable tape tabs and a printed frontal landing zone
=
> better hold
> * More SAP in the inner core = more absorbency (even after multiple
> wettings!)
> * All-white, soft plastic construction + stretch foam waist =
better,
> more discreet fit
>
> The new Secure X-Plus briefs are packed with more features than the
> Abena X-Plus and Molicare Super diapers and cost even less! Visit
> http://www.securepersonalcare.com/xplus-briefs.html?idiaper to
learn
> more about their excellent new product, the SECURE X-Plus!
>
> Thank you for your support!
>

I found a place that has plastic pants lined w/ terry cloth, for $14
inc shipping. i like the fact they are noise resistant and i can wet
in them, and wash them.

i found a site, ac medical, that has EVERYTHING you can imagine and
more (they have too much stuff) for a really cheap price. shipping to
the us is $12 for anything, but, with plastic panties at $4-5 a pop,
its worth it. (i just googled ac medical)

anyone use these terry cloth plastic pants? anyone recommend inserts
for regular plastic pants?


--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Darin <nw_redwolf@...> wrote:
>
> If you have heavy night time voids they they are quite
> helpful at preventing leaks. I have yet to find a
> disposable that doesn't leak at night. Even Abena
> X-Plus will leak if you are in the wrong position when
> you void. Kins makes an excellent terry-lined vinyl
> pant, but they are pretty expensive.  From your
> previous messages you sound like you don't experience
> heavy voids at night so you are probably OK w/o the
> additional protection.
>
> Here is the link if you wanted to check them out
> though:
>
http://www.babykins.com/adult-waterproof-covers.html#adult-lined-vinyl-pull-on-p\
ant
>
> -Darin
> --- Mike <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> > Ive been reading people wear plastic panties w/
> > liners in them over
> > diapers..... that something anyone does? Should i
> > concider it?
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Yahoo! Groups Links
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
>
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Ive seen on most every website washable diapers/washable briefs for
men (and women). these any good? CVS (www.cvs.com) gas some from
gelmart that seem good, and other websites also offer
washable/reusable briefs. They look nice, but, dont seem to hold there
own. Opinions?

thanks for the reply and the honesty...

well, ive tried just diapers w/ regular underwear, err, the underwear
is kinda tight and over time, lets the diaper get slightly lower so it
isnt near my belly button. ive tried disposables with plastic pants
and i like it. i dont wanna do disposables and nothing over them.

id like to find plastic pants that dont make noise. when iw ear jeans
or slacks, it dosent matter, as you can hardly hear it, but at night
in loose pj pants, its so obvious.

im gunna try the plastic pants but terry cloth lined, so incase i have
an accedent, it isnt a issue, i just wash them. i should be getting
them next week.

ive seen the rewashable diapers and the washable briefs, but, they are
kinda pricey, and, i tried "fitted" depends, well, they are fitted,
but, im a 30-31 waist, so they dont fit exactly like i want. id rather
have a real diaper with tapes.

ultimatly, ill probably do the following:

1) wear discret diapers

2) wear plastic pants that are lined

3) wear plastic pants w/ a disposable liner in them

i dont kno if i relly have the time or etc to do cloth diapers, and,
my issue isnt as serious.

thanks!!!

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Tony Di Antonio" <tinytony59@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Mike,
> Being a life long incontinent, I've tried many variations of
protection in managing my urinary incontinece.
> It's not unheard of re: wearing plastic pants with a liner over diapers.
> If it provides the protection your looking for, then I say, go for it!!
>
> I wear one cloth velcro diaper with a pair of plastic pants during
the day.
> 2 cloth velcro diapers and a pair of plastic pants for bed time.
> When we are out and about, I WEAR AN ATTENDS DISPOSABLE DIAPER WITH
A PAIR OF PLASTIC PANTS OVER MY DISPOSABLE.
> My personal preference is  cloth diapers and plastic pants.
> They provide the ultimate protection in my humble opinion.
> I'm a pretty heavy wetter at night, so the 2 cloth diapers and
plastic pants provde the protection I need.
>
> I usually buy my velcro diapers and plastic pants from fetware.com
> Babykins in canada, also carry a nice line of diapers , including
velcro cloth diapers and plastic pants.
> They come in colors and prints.
> Since I have to wear diapers and plastic pants 24/7, I opted for
purchasing the different color and prints in bothdiapers and plastic
pants.
> I figure if I have to wear them, I mightas well be in style, and
enjoy them.
>
> I was born with a moderate spina bifida which caused my bladder to
leak, and in my early 30's, I was diagnosed with progressive multiple
sclerosis.
> Over the years of having the MS, it pretty much killed my bladder,
rendeing it, petty much useless.
> Hope this info. will be of some help to you.
> There's nothing wrong in experimenting with different products, and
their variations.
> The key here, is to provide you with the best protection so that you
can conduct your every day life without fear of leaking accidents due
to inadquate protection.
>
> Enjoy the holiday season, and I wish you and your family a very
happy, healthy and prosperous new year.
> Take Care,
> TinyTony
>   ----- Original Message -----
>   From: Mike<mailto:daysofthundr46@...>
>   To: Incont@yahoogroups.com<mailto:Incont@yahoogroups.com>
>   Sent: Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:49 PM
>   Subject: [Incont] Plastic Pants w/ Liners?
>
>
>   Ive been reading people wear plastic panties w/ liners in them over
>   diapers..... that something anyone does? Should i concider it?
>

Hi Mike,

Being a life long incontinent, I've tried many variations of protection in managing my urinary incontinece.

It's not unheard of re: wearing plastic pants with a liner over diapers.

If it provides the protection your looking for, then I say, go for it!!

 

I wear one cloth velcro diaper with a pair of plastic pants during the day.

2 cloth velcro diapers and a pair of plastic pants for bed time.

When we are out and about, I WEAR AN ATTENDS DISPOSABLE DIAPER WITH A PAIR OF PLASTIC PANTS OVER MY DISPOSABLE.

My personal preference is  cloth diapers and plastic pants.

They provide the ultimate protection in my humble opinion.

I'm a pretty heavy wetter at night, so the 2 cloth diapers and plastic pants provde the protection I need.

 

I usually buy my velcro diapers and plastic pants from fetware.com

Babykins in canada, also carry a nice line of diapers , including velcro cloth diapers and plastic pants.

They come in colors and prints.

Since I have to wear diapers and plastic pants 24/7, I opted for purchasing the different color and prints in bothdiapers and plastic pants.

I figure if I have to wear them, I mightas well be in style, and enjoy them.

 

I was born with a moderate spina bifida which caused my bladder to leak, and in my early 30's, I was diagnosed with progressive multiple sclerosis.

Over the years of having the MS, it pretty much killed my bladder, rendeing it, petty much useless.

Hope this info. will be of some help to you.

There's nothing wrong in experimenting with different products, and their variations.

The key here, is to provide you with the best protection so that you can conduct your every day life without fear of leaking accidents due to inadquate protection.

 

Enjoy the holiday season, and I wish you and your family a very happy, healthy and prosperous new year.

Take Care,

TinyTony 

----- Original Message -----

From: Mike

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:49 PM

Subject: [Incont] Plastic Pants w/ Liners?

Ive been reading people wear plastic panties w/ liners in them over
diapers..... that something anyone does? Should i concider it?

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If you answer "Yes" to any of these questions, print this page and take it with you when you go to see your doctor.

Symptoms of an Overactive Bladder	Yes		No
Do you frequently have a strong, sudden urge to urinate?
Do you sometimes not make it to the bathroom in time?
Do you frequently go to the bathroom 8 or more times per 24 hours?
Do you get up 2 or more times during the night to go to the bathroom?
How long have you had these symptoms?	Select One< 1 year 1 - 4 years 4 years Don't Know
Symptoms of Stress Incontinence	Yes		No
Do you experience a loss of urine when you are doing physical activities, such as lifting heavy objects or exercising?
Do you sometimes have a slight loss of urine when you sneeze, cough or laugh?
Mixed Incontinence	Yes		No
Do you have symptoms of both an overactive bladder and stress incontinence?
Symptoms of a Urinary Tract Infection	Yes		No
Do you experience a burning sensation when you urinate?
Do you frequently have a strong, sudden urge to urinate?
Do you go to the bathroom 8 or more times per 24 hours?
Did your symptoms come on suddenly?

.

I wear a reusable absorbant waterproof brief with a disposable booster
pad. I curently have a package of Poise Ultimate pads. While these are
sold primarily for women who have 'stress' incontinence, they also work
well for my 'urge' incontinence. The pad absorbs most of my urine until
I can get to a toilet, but the waterproof pants prevent leaks. I find
that changing a pad is a lot easier than a diaper or a brief.

This system works for me because of my type of incontinence and because
I am able to get around well.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Mike" <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:
>
> I looked around, but it seems like all i can find is "pads" for women,
> or womans liners.... i found 1 or 2 places with inserts, but they are
> $8 a liner.... im more or less looking for disposable ones. Depends
> has some, but they say they are for use ONLY with diapers.... any
ideas?
>
> --- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, chip091618@ wrote:
> >
> > Yes the lining keeps leaks for happening
> >
>

I looked around, but it seems like all i can find is "pads" for women,
or womans liners.... i found 1 or 2 places with inserts, but they are
$8 a liner.... im more or less looking for disposable ones. Depends
has some, but they say they are for use ONLY with diapers.... any ideas?

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, chip091618@... wrote:
>
> Yes the lining keeps leaks for happening
>

And also prevents from sweating too much. I use them in combination
with small inlays. Works fine for me.



--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, chip091618@... wrote:
>
> Yes the lining keeps leaks for happening
>

If you have heavy night time voids they they are quite
helpful at preventing leaks. I have yet to find a
disposable that doesn't leak at night. Even Abena
X-Plus will leak if you are in the wrong position when
you void. Kins makes an excellent terry-lined vinyl
pant, but they are pretty expensive.  From your
previous messages you sound like you don't experience
heavy voids at night so you are probably OK w/o the
additional protection.

Here is the link if you wanted to check them out
though:
http://www.babykins.com/adult-waterproof-covers.html#adult-lined-vinyl-pull-on-p\
ant

-Darin
--- Mike <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:

> Ive been reading people wear plastic panties w/
> liners in them over
> diapers..... that something anyone does? Should i
> concider it?
>
>
>
>
> Yahoo! Groups Links
>
>
>
>
>


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Ive been reading people wear plastic panties w/ liners in them over
diapers..... that something anyone does? Should i concider it?

General sort of article
http://www.caregiver.com/articles/incontinence/incontinence_embarassed.htm

I dont see a submit button, what a tease! hehe.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Jill Jordan <bedwetter4life2001@...> wrote:
>
>
>
> The following is a questionnaire about the symptoms of overactive
bladder,  stress incontinence, mixed incontinence and urinary tract
infection. This simple  quiz will help your doctor determine which
condition you might have.
> To complete this questionnaire, fill in the answers by clicking on
the "Yes"  or "No" box or choosing the appropriate answer from the
list. Press "Submit"  when you are finished.
> If you answer "Yes" to any of these questions, print this page and
take  it with you when you go to see your doctor.
>
>
>
> Symptoms of an Overactive Bladder Yes    No   Do you frequently have
a strong, sudden urge to urinate?
>   [input]      [input]      Do you sometimes  not make it to the
bathroom in time?  [input]      [input]      Do you frequently  go to
the bathroom 8 or more times per 24 hours?  [input]      [input]
Do you get up 2 or  more times during the night to go to the bathroom?
  [input]      [input]      How long have you  had these symptoms?
Select One<  1 year 1 - 4 years 4  years Don't Know
>     Symptoms of Stress Incontinence Yes    No  Do you experience  a
loss of urine when you are doing physical activities, such as lifting
heavy  objects or exercising?  [input]      [input]      Do you
sometimes  have a slight loss of urine when you sneeze, cough or
laugh?  [input]      [input]
>     Mixed Incontinence Yes    No  Do you have  symptoms of both an
overactive bladder and stress incontinence?  [input]      [input]
>     Symptoms of a Urinary Tract Infection Yes    No  Do you
experience  a burning sensation when you urinate?  [input]
[input]      Do you frequently  have a strong, sudden urge to urinate?
  [input]      [input]      Do you go to the  bathroom 8 or more times
per 24 hours?  [input]      [input]      Did your symptoms  come on
suddenly?  [input]      [input]
>
>
>
>
> Mike <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:                                  I
will check the website out and contact her, thx for that...
>
>  well, goodnights dont specify a waist size but suggest 125lbs max and
>  im 155, plus, they are a little to kiddish for me. im not into these
>  depends i got. they r easy to use the bathroom when i actualy use a
>  toilet, but, arent very "good looking" with this ruffly design, and
>  they fit and stay on, but tend to creep lower and lower in the front.
>
>  well, bodysuits are really nice, but, expencive. $20-25 for one. i
>  also dont mind leotard tops, but, they can be quite the pain to get
>  off. i work a 40 hr job and see a lot of different people in the
>  office and move around a lot. i hate being in the bathroom stall
>  longer then i have to.
>
>  pads? ahhhh, tried them, didnt like them. if im gunna have bulk, id
>  rather wear a diaper.
>
>  cloth/washable is out, as i still live at home (im 19) and dont wash
>  my clothes, nor do i wanna start washing cloth diapers. if i ddi go
>  that route, then id hafta wash them on my own time after work. right
>  now, the less i have to do, the better. handeling the job plus a
>  girlfriend plus my life is good enough, hehe.
>
>  i mainly ruled out UTI or any serious issue. i have increased my
>  sexual performance, no intercourse though, never have had any either,
>  but, latley its one weekend im very active and then 2 weeks in a row,
>  im not.
>
>  ive noticed i have the urge to go like 15-30 min AFTER i just went,
>  even tho i kno i dont have to go. i will mention this to the doctors,
>  as im calling for an appointment tomorrow.
>
>  thanks all!!
>
>  --- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Wulf <teslaks@> wrote:
>  >
>  >
>  > On Wed, 27 Dec 2006, Mike wrote:
>  >
>  > > with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most
call
>  > > for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not
sure how
>  > > that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style
diapers? or
>  > > even go to kids/teen diapers?
>  >
>  >    Unless you have hips, you'll probably have the same problem with
>  pull-on
>  > style diapers/briefs as with any other article of clothing: keeping
>  it in
>  > place.  For someone your size, you might try a youth size
product.  (I
>  > would stay away from goodnights, though, unless you have a very mild
>  > problem, as others I've talked to have had problems with them
leaking.)
>  >    For the problem you described earlier, if you're looking for a
>  daytime
>  > product, you might be better off with a "guard for men" type
product,
>  > which is placed in the underwear, and held in place with a tape
>  strip on
>  > the back of the pad.  These are specificly designed for guys with
minor
>  > leakage.
>  >
>  >    A few other solutions to consider:  A body shirt (also called
a body
>  > stocking, support shirt, or onesie), which would help hold any
>  product up
>  > where it belongs, especially when wet.
>  >    Alternatively, there are many, MANY excellent cloth diapers on
the
>  > market.  They take a larger up-front investment, but you only buy
them
>  > every few years, and you can layer them to adjust the absorbancy as
>  > needed.  Plus, you can pin them as high or low, snug or loose as you
>  like.
>  >    A few sources for cloth diapers can be found in the Links section
>  of the
>  > group website.  Here are a few more:
http://www.adultclothdiaper.com
>  > http://www.angelfluff.com   http://www.babykins.com
>  >    There are many others out there.
>  >
>  >    Make sure you mention this to your doc, as well.  It could be
>  "nothing,"
>  > or it could be something serious.  Or, it could be something in
>  between,
>  > such as an infection.
>  >    It's not unheard of for young guys to have prostate problems,
>  just rare.
>  > (Also, and I'm quite serious, if you've recently changed your sexual
>  > habits (such as, you used to be very active, and recently became
>  much less
>  > active) that change could cause some minor adjustment issues
which can
>  > lead to leakage, in which case, it should go away on it's own rather
>  > soon.)
>  >
>  >    Good Luck,
>  > --Wulf
>  >
>  >
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I will check the website out and contact her, thx for that...

well, goodnights dont specify a waist size but suggest 125lbs max and
im 155, plus, they are a little to kiddish for me. im not into these
depends i got. they r easy to use the bathroom when i actualy use a
toilet, but, arent very "good looking" with this ruffly design, and
they fit and stay on, but tend to creep lower and lower in the front.

well, bodysuits are really nice, but, expencive. $20-25 for one. i
also dont mind leotard tops, but, they can be quite the pain to get
off. i work a 40 hr job and see a lot of different people in the
office and move around a lot. i hate being in the bathroom stall
longer then i have to.

pads? ahhhh, tried them, didnt like them. if im gunna have bulk, id
rather wear a diaper.

cloth/washable is out, as i still live at home (im 19) and dont wash
my clothes, nor do i wanna start washing cloth diapers. if i ddi go
that route, then id hafta wash them on my own time after work. right
now, the less i have to do, the better. handeling the job plus a
girlfriend plus my life is good enough, hehe.

i mainly ruled out UTI or any serious issue. i have increased my
sexual performance, no intercourse though, never have had any either,
but, latley its one weekend im very active and then 2 weeks in a row,
im not.

ive noticed i have the urge to go like 15-30 min AFTER i just went,
even tho i kno i dont have to go. i will mention this to the doctors,
as im calling for an appointment tomorrow.

thanks all!!

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Wulf <teslaks@...> wrote:
>
>
> On Wed, 27 Dec 2006, Mike wrote:
>
> > with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most call
> > for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not sure how
> > that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style diapers? or
> > even go to kids/teen diapers?
>
> Unless you have hips, you'll probably have the same problem with
pull-on
> style diapers/briefs as with any other article of clothing: keeping
it in
> place. For someone your size, you might try a youth size product. (I
> would stay away from goodnights, though, unless you have a very mild
> problem, as others I've talked to have had problems with them leaking.)
> For the problem you described earlier, if you're looking for a
daytime
> product, you might be better off with a "guard for men" type product,
> which is placed in the underwear, and held in place with a tape
strip on
> the back of the pad. These are specificly designed for guys with minor
> leakage.
>
> A few other solutions to consider: A body shirt (also called a body
> stocking, support shirt, or onesie), which would help hold any
product up
> where it belongs, especially when wet.
> Alternatively, there are many, MANY excellent cloth diapers on the
> market. They take a larger up-front investment, but you only buy them
> every few years, and you can layer them to adjust the absorbancy as
> needed. Plus, you can pin them as high or low, snug or loose as you
like.
> A few sources for cloth diapers can be found in the Links section
of the
> group website. Here are a few more: http://www.adultclothdiaper.com
> http://www.angelfluff.com http://www.babykins.com
> There are many others out there.
>
> Make sure you mention this to your doc, as well. It could be
"nothing,"
> or it could be something serious. Or, it could be something in
between,
> such as an infection.
> It's not unheard of for young guys to have prostate problems,
just rare.
> (Also, and I'm quite serious, if you've recently changed your sexual
> habits (such as, you used to be very active, and recently became
much less
> active) that change could cause some minor adjustment issues which can
> lead to leakage, in which case, it should go away on it's own rather
> soon.)
>
> Good Luck,
> --Wulf
>
>
> "Don't dream it, be it!" -- RHPS
>
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I will check the website out and contact her, thx for that...

well, goodnights dont specify a waist size but suggest 125lbs max and
im 155, plus, they are a little to kiddish for me. im not into these
depends i got. they r easy to use the bathroom when i actualy use a
toilet, but, arent very "good looking" with this ruffly design, and
they fit and stay on, but tend to creep lower and lower in the front.

well, bodysuits are really nice, but, expencive. $20-25 for one. i
also dont mind leotard tops, but, they can be quite the pain to get
off. i work a 40 hr job and see a lot of different people in the
office and move around a lot. i hate being in the bathroom stall
longer then i have to.

pads? ahhhh, tried them, didnt like them. if im gunna have bulk, id
rather wear a diaper.

cloth/washable is out, as i still live at home (im 19) and dont wash
my clothes, nor do i wanna start washing cloth diapers. if i ddi go
that route, then id hafta wash them on my own time after work. right
now, the less i have to do, the better. handeling the job plus a
girlfriend plus my life is good enough, hehe.

i mainly ruled out UTI or any serious issue. i have increased my
sexual performance, no intercourse though, never have had any either,
but, latley its one weekend im very active and then 2 weeks in a row,
im not.

ive noticed i have the urge to go like 15-30 min AFTER i just went,
even tho i kno i dont have to go. i will mention this to the doctors,
as im calling for an appointment tomorrow.

thanks all!!

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Wulf <teslaks@...> wrote:
>
>
> On Wed, 27 Dec 2006, Mike wrote:
>
> > with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most call
> > for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not sure how
> > that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style diapers? or
> > even go to kids/teen diapers?
>
>    Unless you have hips, you'll probably have the same problem with
pull-on
> style diapers/briefs as with any other article of clothing: keeping
it in
> place.  For someone your size, you might try a youth size product.  (I
> would stay away from goodnights, though, unless you have a very mild
> problem, as others I've talked to have had problems with them leaking.)
>    For the problem you described earlier, if you're looking for a
daytime
> product, you might be better off with a "guard for men" type product,
> which is placed in the underwear, and held in place with a tape
strip on
> the back of the pad.  These are specificly designed for guys with minor
> leakage.
>
>    A few other solutions to consider:  A body shirt (also called a body
> stocking, support shirt, or onesie), which would help hold any
product up
> where it belongs, especially when wet.
>    Alternatively, there are many, MANY excellent cloth diapers on the
> market.  They take a larger up-front investment, but you only buy them
> every few years, and you can layer them to adjust the absorbancy as
> needed.  Plus, you can pin them as high or low, snug or loose as you
like.
>    A few sources for cloth diapers can be found in the Links section
of the
> group website.  Here are a few more:  http://www.adultclothdiaper.com
> http://www.angelfluff.com   http://www.babykins.com
>    There are many others out there.
>
>    Make sure you mention this to your doc, as well.  It could be
"nothing,"
> or it could be something serious.  Or, it could be something in
between,
> such as an infection.
>    It's not unheard of for young guys to have prostate problems,
just rare.
> (Also, and I'm quite serious, if you've recently changed your sexual
> habits (such as, you used to be very active, and recently became
much less
> active) that change could cause some minor adjustment issues which can
> lead to leakage, in which case, it should go away on it's own rather
> soon.)
>
>    Good Luck,
> --Wulf
>
>
> "Don't dream it, be it!" -- RHPS
>
____________________________________________________________________________
> |  ___ __ ___            ___ |    "If you live to be a hundred, I
want to    |
> |   / /  /    /   /|| / /    |      live to be a hundred  minus one
day,     |
> |  / /-- `-. /   /-||<  `-.  |      So I never have to live without
you"     |
> | / /__ ___//__ /  || \___/  |             -- Winnie the Pooh --
          |
> |         @ cox.net          |          http://www.lungs4amber.org
          |
>
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>

I have been wearing diapers all day and at night incase i do wet. i
dislike the fact i stain my underwear or the bed, etc. I am going to
make an appointment with a doctor and hopefully have that checked out
within the next week or 2. id like to know what it is. Anyone know of
any medications/perscribed drugs that treat this?



--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, James Wilson <jameswilson8546701@...>
wrote:
>
> Hi Mike Sounds like you need to be checked out by a Doctor to see
whats going on this isn,t something you should wait on it may be
something simple But you need to go see about. It,s common in older
guys But your young. You shouldn,t have to start wearing diapers yet.
I,m a bedwetter caused from a back injury si I wear diapers to bed
They work Great you should start wearing them till you get checked out
Jim
>
> Mike <daysofthundr46@...> wrote:          1-2 mornings a week i
notice i wake up wet, and ive thought it was wet
> dreams. recently i switched to white underwear and i noticed its nor
> semen or white dreams, its mainly urine, as theres yellow stains on
> them. This seems to happen when a) i sleep crappy the day before and
> the next night i get good sleep and wake up wet and/or b) i get a good
> nights rest and have a VERY deep sleep. i find when i sleep deep, i
> wake up very wet.
>
> i also noticed when im lifting heavy objects from a sitting position,
> or just get in a awkward position and then get up or move, there is
> some leakage.
>
> it seems like when i go, theres still 1-2 drops left, but, when i do
> use the bathroom, i make sure its all out. about 15-30 min later,
> sometimes, a few drops will leak out.
>
> I never have a problem going, nor any issues holding it in, if
> nessasary. I never find myself running to the bathroom.
>
> i did quite a bit or resurch online and found it can be "Mixed
> Incontinence". This website:
> http://www.ucurology.org/homeThumbs/femaleUrologyF.htm really seemed
> to break it down well for me.
>
> i highly doubt its anything serious, like my prostate or anything like
> that, im 19 and healthy, so i ruled thoes all out.
>
> any advise would be great!
>
>
>
>
>
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On Wed, 27 Dec 2006, Mike wrote:

> with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most call
> for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not sure how
> that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style diapers? or
> even go to kids/teen diapers?

    Unless you have hips, you'll probably have the same problem with pull-on
style diapers/briefs as with any other article of clothing: keeping it in
place.  For someone your size, you might try a youth size product.  (I
would stay away from goodnights, though, unless you have a very mild
problem, as others I've talked to have had problems with them leaking.)
    For the problem you described earlier, if you're looking for a daytime
product, you might be better off with a "guard for men" type product,
which is placed in the underwear, and held in place with a tape strip on
the back of the pad.  These are specificly designed for guys with minor
leakage.

    A few other solutions to consider:  A body shirt (also called a body
stocking, support shirt, or onesie), which would help hold any product up
where it belongs, especially when wet.
    Alternatively, there are many, MANY excellent cloth diapers on the
market.  They take a larger up-front investment, but you only buy them
every few years, and you can layer them to adjust the absorbancy as
needed.  Plus, you can pin them as high or low, snug or loose as you like.
    A few sources for cloth diapers can be found in the Links section of the
group website.  Here are a few more:  http://www.adultclothdiaper.com
http://www.angelfluff.com   http://www.babykins.com
    There are many others out there.

    Make sure you mention this to your doc, as well.  It could be "nothing,"
or it could be something serious.  Or, it could be something in between,
such as an infection.
    It's not unheard of for young guys to have prostate problems, just rare.
(Also, and I'm quite serious, if you've recently changed your sexual
habits (such as, you used to be very active, and recently became much less
active) that change could cause some minor adjustment issues which can
lead to leakage, in which case, it should go away on it's own rather
soon.)

    Good Luck,
--Wulf


"Don't dream it, be it!" -- RHPS
   ____________________________________________________________________________
|  ___ __ ___            ___ |    "If you live to be a hundred, I want to    |
|   / /  /    /   /|| / /    |      live to be a hundred  minus one day,     |
|  / /-- `-. /   /-||<  `-.  |      So I never have to live without you"     |
| / /__ ___//__ /  || \___/  |             -- Winnie the Pooh --             |
|         @ cox.net          |          http://www.lungs4amber.org           |
`----------------------------------------------------------------------------'

im 6 ft tall and only 155lbs with a 30-31 inch waist, and only 19 yrs
old, and a lot of the diapers out there i find seem t ve really large
or really not up my ally. i tried depends adjustable's, and, they fit,
but not snugly, and i cant tighten them to my liking. I have a pack of
tena's that are mainly classic diapers, and i like how i can adjust
the tapes.

with that said, are fitted (no tape) briefs ay good? i see most call
for a size small being 33' waist as the smallest, so im not sure how
that will fair. or should i stick with regular tape style diapers? or
even go to kids/teen diapers?

thanks
mike

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1-2 mornings a week i notice i wake up wet, and ive thought it was wet
dreams. recently i switched to white underwear and i noticed its nor
semen or white dreams, its mainly urine, as theres yellow stains on
them. This seems to happen when a) i sleep crappy the day before and
the next night i get good sleep and wake up wet and/or b) i get a good
nights rest and have a VERY deep sleep. i find when i sleep deep, i
wake up very wet.

i also noticed when im lifting heavy objects from a sitting position,
or just get in a awkward position and then get up or move, there is
some leakage.

it seems like when i go, theres still 1-2 drops left, but, when i do
use the bathroom, i make sure its all out. about 15-30 min later,
sometimes, a few drops will leak out.

I never have a problem going, nor any issues holding it in, if
nessasary. I never find myself running to the bathroom.

i did quite a bit or resurch online and found it can be "Mixed
Incontinence". This website:
http://www.ucurology.org/homeThumbs/femaleUrologyF.htm really seemed
to break it down well for me.

i highly doubt its anything serious, like my prostate or anything like
that, im 19 and healthy, so i ruled thoes all out.

any advise would be great!

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