I'm posting this on a few incontinence groups .
Right now I'm using Depends regular underwear for my lite bowel
leakage . They are ok but a little tight in the crotch area and the
larger size is too big . I'm looking to check out others but don't
need or want something too thick . I thought there was a on-line
company that let you creat your own sample pack . But I cant find it and
don't remember the name . I would appreciate any help . Thanks Mike

Glad you like it. Can you suggest anything that would
make it a better fit? Does it fit ok on the waist as
far as crotch depth?

Leslie


--- garyh422 <GHames@...> wrote:


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  I purchased a Windpro cover and it works pretty good
The velcro is good and strong for a good fit.I needed
a different cover other than plastic because of skin
getting all red from the elastic.I guess it's to many
years of incontinence





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I purchased a Windpro cover and it works pretty good
The velcro is good and strong for a good fit.I needed
a different cover other than plastic because of skin
getting all red from the elastic.I guess it's to many
years of incontinence

I've noticed the same thing about different brands,
sizes evidently are not standard.

I think that this suggestion might be the only answer;
I've never heard of diaper manufacturers making
in-between sizes.

--- "Maren M." <maren1999de@...> wrote:

>
> --- Patrick <mrfoshizelmynizel@...> schrieb:
>
>
> ---------------------------------
> I was just wondering if it is possible to get wider
> diapers? I guess
> that would mean you would have to get a bigger size,
> but could you just
> get wider ones, for bigger thies or a middle
> section.
> The only reason I
> ask this, is because I am between a medium and a
> large. I fit into a
> medium size tight, but a large is too loose. a lot
> of
> time, I just wear
> one medium and one large. or just double up on the
> large. Any good
> advise on that?
>
> Perhaps you should try another brand. Size M is not
> always the same, some brands are wider at the legs
> than others. I had this happen with Attends S (to
> tight), while Tena Slip S fits me just fine.
> Greetings, Maren
>
>
>
>
>
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Wow. Losing one's dad is always tough, my "old man" pass away 10
years ago. I still miss him. I'm 37 male By the way, there's a time
to greave for our dead and we continue to live until we die and
someone greaves for us. That's life, but what your boy friend has is
more than that. Your relationship is still young and you should ask
yourself if your ready to embark in a journey like this. I'm not
saying not to do this, but just think before starting this because
before you know it, you may be up to your neck in trouble. Be
prepared, like a good boy/girl scout. You will need it. You might
have a lot of emotional ups and downs to deal with. Remember your
dealing with the human mind, capable of creating beautiful things,
equally capable of terrible things.
  I suggest getting professional help for your boyfriend. There may be
something buried deep down in his mind since his childhood that he
does not want to resurrect. Maybe you could encourage your boy friend
to get help. It is a good sign that he trusts you in telling you
this "private" problem. I would ask you that if he'd mind you asking
other people for help. He may feel that you betrayed this trust by
going on-line and telling everyone about his problem despite your
good intentions.

I believe that in asking for help you truly care for this person and
I hope your boy friend gets to slay his demons that torment him.
REMEMBER I am not a professional, I am just another person that
cares, only you really know your boyfriend, I hope you find your
answers…

  I wish the both of you all the best, God bless.

Mike V.



--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "blingsohard" <blingsohard@y...> wrote:
>
> Ive been dating someone for 5 months, and he has a history of pretty
> severe depression. We are both 21 and his dad just died of cancer a
> month ago, so he has plunged into a depression.
>
> He admitted to me the other night that when he was 13-14 and also
when
> he was younger, he would have this problem of when he would go to
> peoples house, he would have this fear of asking where the bathroom
> was, and would end up peeing in his pants. No one ever said anything
> to him, and I am the first person who he has told. he hasnt done it
in
> 7 years, but is still horribly embaressed about it, and is worried
> because wetting ones pants can be a sign of a serious psychological
> problem.
>
> Can anyone give me any information on why he could have been doing
> this/what this could have been a symptom of/etc? Around this time he
> also was self mutilating, had no real close friends, and was
> depressed. His parents never did anything about any of his
depression
> problems so he was left to deal with it on his own and soon started
> smoking pot. This problem of wetting himself when at other peoples
> house when he was 14 has caused him great distress and depression
over
> the years.
>
> And what am I supposed to say to all of this?
>

--- Patrick <mrfoshizelmynizel@...> schrieb:


---------------------------------
I was just wondering if it is possible to get wider
diapers? I guess
that would mean you would have to get a bigger size,
but could you just
get wider ones, for bigger thies or a middle section.
The only reason I
ask this, is because I am between a medium and a
large. I fit into a
medium size tight, but a large is too loose. a lot of
time, I just wear
one medium and one large. or just double up on the
large. Any good
advise on that?

Perhaps you should try another brand. Size M is not
always the same, some brands are wider at the legs
than others. I had this happen with Attends S (to
tight), while Tena Slip S fits me just fine.
Greetings, Maren






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There are so many products out there that deal with light leakage i find its
really sad that they all try and get into this market..

But when it comes to heavy wetting its like they just dont want to know
about it...

:(
Pawy

>Hi All,
>
>I am looking for 30 men with slight to moderate urinary incontinence
>to provide feedback for a new urinary incontinence product – the
>ActiCuf disposable pouch.
>
>The ActiCuf disposable pouch is a discreet alternative to diapers
>and pads. To learn more about the ActiCuf or my company, GT
>Urological, check out the web site: www.gturological.com.
>
>If you would like to help me evaluate this product, call our office
>toll-free at 877-488-4379 or send me an e-mail
>(gturo_ssmith@...). I will mail you a sample pack and survey
>to get started.
>
>Thanks in advance for your help in evaluating this new product.
>
>
>Sam Smith
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>Phone: 612-379-3578
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>
>
>
>





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There are so many products out there that deal with light leakage i find its
really sad that they all try and get into this market..

But when it comes to heavy wetting its like they just dont want to know
about it...

:(
Pawy

>Hi All,
>
>I am looking for 30 men with slight to moderate urinary incontinence
>to provide feedback for a new urinary incontinence product – the
>ActiCuf disposable pouch.
>
>The ActiCuf disposable pouch is a discreet alternative to diapers
>and pads.  To learn more about the ActiCuf or my company, GT
>Urological, check out the web site:  www.gturological.com.
>
>If you would like to help me evaluate this product, call our office
>toll-free at 877-488-4379 or send me an e-mail
>(gturo_ssmith@...).  I will mail you a sample pack and survey
>to get started.
>
>Thanks in advance for your help in evaluating this new product.
>
>
>Sam Smith
>Business Manager
>GT Urological, LLC
>Phone:  612-379-3578
>e-mail: gturo_ssmith@...
>
>
>
>

I'm Pvid, m, 51, living in No California and have an
incont problem too -- and it is worse as I grow older.
...Where are u located? Do u want to chat
occasionally? ...Compare notes and feelings? Look me
up. U can see my face there too. ...ovidd_us for yahoo
and ovidd for AIM/AOL (no AOL address though).

Ovid-

--- Debbie <rain_wolfe@...> wrote:

> I am a 34yr old female with one child.
> I started having stress incontinence when I was
> pregnant 10 years ago,
> and it's deteriorated to the point that I frequently
> have leakage. This
> is something which is very humiliating to me and
> really detracts from
> my self-image. I had hoped that the local hospital
> would have a support
> group but have not found one in their listings, so
> here I am with you.
> Thank you!
>
>
>
>

You have a real problem Lu. Incontinence and
boyfriends and u being in a wheelchair requires you to
FACE THOSE PROBLEMS head on, and we can 'converse'
about the isues here or chat in private if u feel more
comfortable. If you want us to chat I'll have to
inform u that I will save all our chats JUST IN CASE.
I'm sure that u understand my position of never
wanting to be accused for talking 'delicate issues w/a
minor' -- which unfortunately is common nowadays,
esspecially over the net. ...I had to put this in Lu,
please try to understand.

OK, sex and sexual feelings ALTHOUGH EXCITING do freak
out teens a lot, especially boys (and they never want
u to know by the way). Mix those feelings with
incontinence and diapers (unfamiliar things) and a boy
will freak and go away, u saw that Lu. SOOOOO, u just
have to come up with a strategy, i.e. a set of rules
that u will ALWAYS abide by. Why? Because by following
those rules you will improve ur chance of holding on
to ur boyfriend or later on lover or husband. Because
I'M CONVINCED Lu that there will be a b/f and a lover
and a husband in ur future. Why I'm saying it? 'Cuz u
are a special girl. How do I know? Because you had the
guts to become a member and write at ur age -- I
wouldn't have done it! ...And even if ur mom or dad
suggested u to do it, u are still special and gutsy --
because u did it.

Enough for now, you have a good & fun day. Next
emessage /chat will contain some of the rules I'm
talking about. And by the way, we will both decide on
what & how & when. Why? Because it is ur life -- urs,
and I can never live ur life for u -- and it wouldn't
be fair for me to do that.

Ovid ,m ,51, Calif  [...and do me a favor pls ...make
a file on ur computer where u save all OUR emails
...'Lu-ovids' would be an OK name, don't u think?]

--- LUANN PEDRICK <luannp1990@...> wrote:

> Hi Ovidd
>   Yea I would like to write to a lot of people so
> you can be one of them.and your right your are much
> older then me you older than my father. LOL
>    Talk to you soon
>   LU
>
> "ovidd_us@yahoo" <ovidd_us@...> wrote:
>   Hi Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy
> young
> woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much
> much
> older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
> California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
> the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a
> coma,
> etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
> with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
> I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
> electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be
> happy
> to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
> other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
> I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
> older.
>
> Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
> ovidd_us]
>
> --- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:
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> > Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> > my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have
> nothad
> > a dry day in 10
> > yrs.
> > I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> > hips and pelviis
> > along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old
> and
> > was in a body
> > cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> > incontnent and I can no
> > longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one
> else
> > here had an
> > experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> > Boyfriends?
> > everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> > my diaper he freaks
> > and leaves me.
> > Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a
> wheelchair
> > fulltime.
> >
> > LU
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
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You should try different brands of diapers. I have
found that certain brands mediums are bigger than
others. For instance Euron's mediums are a lot bigger
than say Attends mediums.  A lot of the Euro mediums
are bigger than US mediums I have found.

If you can't find a good fit with disposables go with
cloth. You can get custom made cloth to fit you. If
you want to know a few places that do custom cloth let
me know.

-Darin

--- Patrick <mrfoshizelmynizel@...> wrote:

> I was just wondering if it is possible to get wider
> diapers? I guess
> that would mean you would have to get a bigger size,
> but could you just
> get wider ones, for bigger thies or a middle
> section. The only reason I
> ask this, is because I am between a medium and a
> large. I fit into a
> medium size tight, but a large is too loose. a lot
> of time, I just wear
> one medium and one large. or just double up on the
> large. Any good
> advise on that?
>
>
>
>
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I was just wondering if it is possible to get wider diapers? I guess
that would mean you would have to get a bigger size, but could you just
get wider ones, for bigger thies or a middle section. The only reason I
ask this, is because I am between a medium and a large. I fit into a
medium size tight, but a large is too loose. a lot of time, I just wear
one medium and one large. or just double up on the large. Any good
advise on that?

Thank you Doug. It is quadra-paresis from now on.
...In my native language (Romanian) I use to say
semi-paresis -- until I grew older and 'semi' became
'quadra'. ...And my incontinence is very distressing
to me, and I can never wear diapers -- since I'm
wearing no underwear for 25-26 years now. ...And your
profile says "Dont take it off...just wet it some
more" -- which all of a sudden sounds sexy to me ...if
it would only come from a woman. :)   ...On the other
hand, I'm glad you and your wife reached the point
where you guys are making it fun /playful /sexy. IT IS
OUR MINDS AFTERALL that are the ultimate aphrosidiacs.

Ovid, m, 51, no Calif

--- diaper dougie <diaperdougie@...> wrote:

> Hello Ovid.
>   Welcome.
>   I believe the correct term for your condition is
> quadra-paresis.
>   Plegia connotates full paralysis.
>   I am a hemi-paretic from a c4-5 dislocation in
> '74.
>   And I am incontinent (finally) after 25 years of
> coping with a weakened bladder.
>   I don't mind wearing diapers 24/7.
>   Doug
>
> LUANN PEDRICK <luannp1990@...> wrote:
>
>
> "ovidd_us@yahoo" <ovidd_us@...> wrote:   Hi
> Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy young
> woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much
> much
> older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
> California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
> the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a
> coma,
> etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
> with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
> I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
> electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be
> happy
> to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
> other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
> I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
> older.
>
> Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
> ovidd_us]
>
> --- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:
>
> > Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> > my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have
> nothad
> > a dry day in 10
> > yrs.
> > I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> > hips and pelviis
> > along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old
> and
> > was in a body
> > cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> > incontnent and I can no
> > longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one
> else
> > here had an
> > experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> > Boyfriends?
> > everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> > my diaper he freaks
> > and leaves me.
> > Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a
> wheelchair
> > fulltime.
> >
> > LU
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
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My Urologist has told me that I have a valve in my bladder stuick closed
which is why I have incontince and why I retain urine and why I never feel
like my bladder is empty.

What could cause this? He wants me to go to a Physical Therapist for
Bio-Feedback and Bladder Retraining. What does that involve?

Also ever since the used the straight cathaters and also put in the
die that
shows up on X-Ray I no longer ejaculate.

What could have caused that?

Thanks,
Ron Simpson

"ovidd_us@yahoo" <ovidd_us@...> wrote:

Hi Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy young
woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much much
older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a coma,
etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be happy
to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
older.

Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
ovidd_us]

--- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:

> Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have nothad
> a dry day in 10
> yrs.
> I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> hips and pelviis
> along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old and
> was in a body
> cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> incontnent and I can no
> longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one else
> here had an
> experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> Boyfriends?
> everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> my diaper he freaks
> and leaves me.
> Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a wheelchair
> fulltime.
>
> LU
>
>
>
>
>
>

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Hi Ovidd

Yea I would like to write to a lot of people so you can be one of them.and your right your are much older then me you older than my father. LOL

 Talk to you soon

LU

"ovidd_us@yahoo" <ovidd_us@...> wrote:

Hi Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy young
woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much much
older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a coma,
etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be happy
to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
older.

Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
ovidd_us]

--- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:

> Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have nothad
> a dry day in 10
> yrs.
> I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> hips and pelviis
> along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old and
> was in a body
> cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> incontnent and I can no
> longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one else
> here had an
> experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> Boyfriends?
> everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> my diaper he freaks
> and leaves me.
> Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a wheelchair
> fulltime.
>
> LU
>
>
>
>
>
>

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Hi Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy young
woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much much
older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a coma,
etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be happy
to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
older.

Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
ovidd_us]

--- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:

> Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have nothad
> a dry day in 10
> yrs.
> I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> hips and pelviis
> along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old and
> was in a body
> cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> incontnent and I can no
> longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one else
> here had an
> experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> Boyfriends?
> everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> my diaper he freaks
> and leaves me.
> Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a wheelchair
> fulltime.
>
> LU
>
>
>
>
>
>

My Urologist has told me that I have a valve in my bladder stuick closed
which is why I have incontince and why I retain urine and why I never feel
like my bladder is empty.

What could cause this?  He wants me to go to a Physical Therapist for
Bio-Feedback and Bladder Retraining.  What does that involve?

Also ever since the used the straight cathaters and also put in the die that
shows up on X-Ray I no longer ejaculate.

What could have caused that?

Thanks,
Ron Simpson

Hi Lu! I'm so glad you wrote. You are a gutsy young
woman and I admire you. My name is Ovid, I'm much much
older than you, 51, male, living in Northern
California, and also disabled. At 13, while crossing
the street, I was hit by a truck, went through a coma,
etc. I am tetraplegic, meaning slow in all my limbs,
with my right limbs much weaker than the left limbs.
I'm using a walker to walk (VERY slowly), or an
electric scooter, or my minivan. ...And I'll be happy
to be your penpal /online friend and emessage each
other or chat occasionally -- if OK with you. ...Ah!
I'm also incontinent; grew more and more as I grew
older.

Ovid- [You can see my face at yahoo, profiles,
ovidd_us]

--- luannp1990 <luannp1990@...> wrote:

> Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
> my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have nothad
> a dry day in 10
> yrs.
> I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg
> hips and pelviis
> along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old and
> was in a body
> cast for over a year. the Cathater left me
> incontnent and I can no
> longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one else
> here had an
> experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur
> Boyfriends?
> everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about
> my diaper he freaks
> and leaves me.
> Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a wheelchair
> fulltime.
>
> LU
>
>
>
>
>
>

Hi I'm New here and Thanks for letting me Join
my name is Luann and I'm 16 yrs old and have nothad a dry day in 10
yrs.
I have  OI and break bone easily. I broke both leg hips and pelviis
along with my left shoulder when I was 6 yrs old and was in a body
cast for over a year. the Cathater left me incontnent and I can no
longer use caths due to to many UTI's. any one else here had an
experiance like mine and how do you handel ypur Boyfriends?
everytime I get a boyfriend and he finds out about my diaper he freaks
and leaves me.
Ogh and just for the record I'm also in a wheelchair fulltime.

LU

Hi All,

I am looking for 30 men with slight to moderate urinary incontinence
to provide feedback for a new urinary incontinence product – the
ActiCuf disposable pouch.

The ActiCuf disposable pouch is a discreet alternative to diapers
and pads.  To learn more about the ActiCuf or my company, GT
Urological, check out the web site:  www.gturological.com.

If you would like to help me evaluate this product, call our office
toll-free at 877-488-4379 or send me an e-mail
(gturo_ssmith@...).  I will mail you a sample pack and survey
to get started.

Thanks in advance for your help in evaluating this new product.


Sam Smith
Business Manager
GT Urological, LLC
Phone:  612-379-3578
e-mail: gturo_ssmith@...

HI CHRIS,
WELL MY FRIEND, I TOO EXPERIENCED DEPRESSION DUE TO MY BEING
INCONTINENT.
HOWEVER, THE DEPRESSION CAME ALONG IN MY YOUTH AS I WAS BORN WITH A
MODERATE SPINA BIFIDA WHICH CAUSED MY BLADDER TO LEAK.
MY FOLKS DIDIN'T LIKE THIS DIAGNOSIS, NOR THE IDEA THAT WAS SUGGESTED BY
THE DOCTOR TO KEEP ME IN CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS FOR PROTECTION.
THEY DID SO, BUT WITH GREAT DISGUST AND RELUCTANCE.
ADD TO THAT THE PHYSICAL ABUSE I RECEIVED DUE BECAUSE OF THE
INCONTINENCE AND HAVING TO WEAR DIAPERS 24/7.
IN MY EARLY 30'S I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS WHICH HAVING IT
OVER THE YEARS ALSO DAMAGED MY BLADDER.
I SAW A SHRINK BECAUSE OF THE DEPRESSION I WAS GOING THROUGH, AND SHE
HELPED ME REALIZE THAT INCONTINENCE IS A TRUE MEDICAL PROBLEM.
SHE TOLD ME THAT I'M NOT BEING LAZY AS I WAS TOLD THROUGH MY GROWING
YEARS.
I FINALLY SAT DOWN AND RE-VISITED MY MEDICAL PROBLEMS, REALIZED THAT I
HAVE THEM, ACCEPT THEM AND GET ON WITH LIFE.

TODAY I LOOK AT WEARING DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS AS JUST BEING ANOTHER
FORM OF UNDERWEAR.
I VIEW MY MEDICAL PROBLEMS AS JUST BEING INCONVENIENT NUSCIANCES, AND
ALSO REALIZE THERE ARE A LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE A HELL OF A LOT WORSE OFF
THEN ME.
MY MEDICAL PROBLEMS HAVE TO WORK AROUND ME, NOT ME, AROUND THEM.
I WILL NOT, NOR DO I LET THEM INTERFERE IN MY PERSONAL OR SOCIAL LIFE.
MY PHILOSOPHY ON THIS WHOLE INCONTINENCE SITUATION IS QUITE SIMPLE,
WHEN LIFE HANDS YA A LEMON,
MAKE LEMONADE.
TAKE CARE,

" WE SHARE, BECAUSE, WE CARE "
GOD BLESS YOU, BIG HUGS,
TINYTONY

Hi everyone

how are you all?

I got a bit depressed over this incontinence the last couple of weeks
but hey that seems to be lifting now thank goodness.

Has anyone else here found they have got depressed over this and how
do you cope?

Also i am interested in finding out how the stigma of inco affects
you, for me that is the worst part.

Well my nappy rash is gone. I made sure my butt got a lot of fresh air
and that seemed to have done it, thanks for your advice everyone.

Chris

I own a company that makes custom outerwear and a few special needs
products. We make the swim diaper that Mike was saying he liked in a
post recently.  I am "experimenting" with Windpro diaper covers. Up
until now, they have only been available for babies but they are super
comfy and breathable...so I decided why not try it out for adults. So,
I did a couple of sizes and had a few people try them. So far they are
saying that they love them. Since then I have been getting calls and
emails asking for custom diaper covers in Windpro. Windpro is a
specialty fleece made by Polartec (polartec brand by Malden Mills is
the original inventor of fleece, and still makes the best quality
anywhere...it doesn't pill like other fleece) Windpro is a SUPER tight
weave of fleece made with incredibly soft micro-fiber yarns, so it
feels as soft as a chamois. It is treated to be water repellant, but
it is breathable. It is intended for jackets etc. but makes great
diaper covers because it repels water, so keeps your pants dry even if
your diapers are wet, and it breathes so you don't get as hot as with
plastic pants. It comes in some nice colors, but rarely in patterns. I
happen to have a couple of patterns right now, but when that runs out
I may not get patterns again. So I made a couple with the patterns I
have and posted them in our photos section of this group.
I have a website...but the diaper covers are NOT on it, because I am
still just trying them out. I like to get a whole lot more feedback
before I go into producing something on a larger basis. So if anyone
wants a windpro diaper cover, they have to contact me through my
website, or phone my shop at 250 286 6577 (We are in Canada) and we
can make one to fit you. They will be around $40. for a custom diaper
cover from windpro. These may sound expensive, but they last for
years, and the fleece is very specialized, as I said.Regular fleece
will not work for diaper covers as it wont keep the moisture contained.
I have a feeling from the response I am getting so far that we will
likely go into production in the diaper covers in a few months. The
style we are using is similar to our swim diaper, its adjustable
velcro closure on both sides, elastic waist and leg.
Hope that answers your questions....
Leslie
Discovery Trekking Outfitters Ltd.



--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Paul G." <brwmeistr9@y...> wrote:
>
> I just saw the photo of the Windpro diaper cover in the photo
section,
> and am wondering about size and availability.  A quick Yahoo search
for
> it turned up only baby diaper sites.
>
> Will the member that posted the pics please tell us about any sites
> where they can be found in adult sizes, if they are so avaliable?
Can
> you also give us more info about them, such as material and
> construction?
>
> Thanks!
>
> Brew
>