hi walter .
yeah truly incontiennt , the fact is there is more AB DL member on
this site then truly incontiennt one . anyway i agrea with you that
wearing a wet diaper for long period of time is not good for the
skin .

me at day i use TENA ULTRA diaper and i change my self every 4 hours
or more often , at night i use depends maximum absorbancy i find them
more absorbent then the tena super and the skin is more dry .
sometime i use abena extra when i know i will sleep for a minimum of
8 hours or i use the abena x-plus for 10 hours or more , but that
hapend only couple time per year .

patrick .


--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "walsue01" <walsue01@...> wrote:
>
> I have been reading the many comments about the length of time
> various people go between changing their incontinence diapers. To
me,
> those that buy the super absorbent products in order to go 12 or
more
> hours without a change are foolish. I have been incontinent for
many
> years, and from the unfortunate beginning of my incotinence, have
> been taught and agree that frequent changing is necessary for good
> personal hygiene and skin health. Wearing a wet diaper for long
> periods of time leads to skin breakdown, odors, and general
bacteria
> development.
>
> I change atleast every four hours during the day, and more often if
I
> have an unusually heavy flow. I generally use Attends; however,
have
> found that the Abena Plus diaper is a good alternative and can
often
> be bought for the same price as Attends. On those occasions when I
> know changing could be a problem, I add a booster pad which will
> handle the extra flow. I simply don't like being in a wet diaper,
and
> can't understand why anyone would.
>
> For overnight, I do use a more absorbent product; usually the Tena
> Super. My sleep pattern is normally 6 - 7 hours, so the skin
exposure
> is greater, but surely not for 12 or more hours of wetness.
>
> I'd appreciate comments from others that are truly incontinent.
>
> Best to all,
>
> Walter
>

I have been reading the many comments about the length of time
various people go between changing their incontinence diapers. To me,
those that buy the super absorbent products in order to go 12 or more
hours without a change are foolish. I have been incontinent for many
years, and from the unfortunate beginning of my incotinence, have
been taught and agree that frequent changing is necessary for good
personal hygiene and skin health. Wearing a wet diaper for long
periods of time leads to skin breakdown, odors, and general bacteria
development.

I change atleast every four hours during the day, and more often if I
have an unusually heavy flow. I generally use Attends; however, have
found that the Abena Plus diaper is a good alternative and can often
be bought for the same price as Attends. On those occasions when I
know changing could be a problem, I add a booster pad which will
handle the extra flow. I simply don't like being in a wet diaper, and
can't understand why anyone would.

For overnight, I do use a more absorbent product; usually the Tena
Super. My sleep pattern is normally 6 - 7 hours, so the skin exposure
is greater, but surely not for 12 or more hours of wetness.

I'd appreciate comments from others that are truly incontinent.

Best to all,

Walter

Abena and Molicare diapers are probly the top 2 highest absorbency
adult diapers you can buy.there made IN Europe where
  incon products are alot more absorbent and better quality then most
any American brand out there.
their like the Cadilac or Lincoln of adult diapers.
does everybody need that much absobency ? maybe not. many do.
but if your a heavy wetter like me it's best to have all the
absorbency you can get. if your diapers aren't absorbent enough
then you have leaks.
so I say better over protected,then under protected.















--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "stom28" <stom28@...> wrote:
>
> --- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "????" <disdiaperboy@> wrote:
> > Abena makes about if not the most heavy duty disposable diaper on
> the market and I would agree the molicare is a second or maybe a
> third. I have little to no control of my bladder and can tell you
> from experience that these diapers will out preform most
incontinence
> products hands down. yes they are $$$ but you get what you pay for.
> you can find good deals on these products from time to time on
Ebay.
> I don't use these products all the time and most of the time when I
> do wear them is at night. I can honestly say that I've gone 12-14
> hours in the top of the line Abenas also known as Abri Form without
a
> leak. Most of the time I wear a more middle of the road diaper like
> attends, tranquility atn or tena's ultras or sometimes the supers
> often i use a booster pad as well along with one of these brands. I
> would agree that wearing the same brief for 24 hours would be
rather
> discussing and could promote a good rash. That sounds like a fetish
> thing to me. ...............Sandy
>
> > From what I have seen ABs general answers to diapers are abena )
> what ever
> > that is, or molicare (so ungodly expensive there  is no reason to
> buy them).
> > Their sights say that an abena can last 24 hours, and a molicare
> can last 16
> > (anyone here want to stay in the same incontinence items that
> long). I
> > wanted to see if your idea that they knew somethign  about the
> products we
> > didn't would work, they know disgusting things but any hygenic
> thing I have
> > learned from other people with "issues" or medical professionals.
> Some ABs
> > where incontinent first so if they want to talk about the
> incontinent part
> > of their life or put in the 2 cents about protective items then I
> cna
> > understand but to tell you the truth, I would prefer to avoid
> sexual stuff
> > here. There is a line because talking about co-medical conditions
> (many men
> > with incontinence also have sexual disfunction, many women have
> depression
> > which lead to sexual dysfuction), that is very different then
(fill
> in the
> > blank) turns me on or sex was (fill in the blank).
> >
> > :: gets off soap box::
> >
>

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "????" <disdiaperboy@...> wrote:
> Abena makes about if not the most heavy duty disposable diaper on
the market and I would agree the molicare is a second or maybe a
third. I have little to no control of my bladder and can tell you
from experience that these diapers will out preform most incontinence
products hands down. yes they are $$$ but you get what you pay for.
you can find good deals on these products from time to time on Ebay.
I don't use these products all the time and most of the time when I
do wear them is at night. I can honestly say that I've gone 12-14
hours in the top of the line Abenas also known as Abri Form without a
leak. Most of the time I wear a more middle of the road diaper like
attends, tranquility atn or tena's ultras or sometimes the supers
often i use a booster pad as well along with one of these brands. I
would agree that wearing the same brief for 24 hours would be rather
discussing and could promote a good rash. That sounds like a fetish
thing to me. ...............Sandy

> From what I have seen ABs general answers to diapers are abena )
what ever
> that is, or molicare (so ungodly expensive there  is no reason to
buy them).
> Their sights say that an abena can last 24 hours, and a molicare
can last 16
> (anyone here want to stay in the same incontinence items that
long). I
> wanted to see if your idea that they knew somethign  about the
products we
> didn't would work, they know disgusting things but any hygenic
thing I have
> learned from other people with "issues" or medical professionals.
Some ABs
> where incontinent first so if they want to talk about the
incontinent part
> of their life or put in the 2 cents about protective items then I
cna
> understand but to tell you the truth, I would prefer to avoid
sexual stuff
> here. There is a line because talking about co-medical conditions
(many men
> with incontinence also have sexual disfunction, many women have
depression
> which lead to sexual dysfuction), that is very different then (fill
in the
> blank) turns me on or sex was (fill in the blank).
>
> :: gets off soap box::
>

Hello;
just for clarification I said i was NOT!!! an AB/DL!!!
but anyway, the point I was trying to make is that if their not
posting fetish posting what's the problem?
many ab/dl know more about diapers or other incon products then most
of us an some may have been incon and developed their fetish as a way
of dealing with incon.
If that's what helps them cope, then that's their business.










--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Tony Di Antonio" <tinytony59@...>
wrote:
>
> Hi Brent,
> If you are an AB/DL, there are many groups that you could join
where you can post to your hearts content as it relates to AB/DL
discussions.
> If you read my last post to this group, I don't or won't judge
anyone.
> To each his/her own!
> I moderate a couple of incon groups, and we do have some AB/DL'S as
members.
> They in fact do have true and legit incontinence issues they are
dealing with, however, they must keep their AB/DL side outside of the
groups.
>
> Incontinence support groups, are just that...SUPPORT GROUPS....
> As I said, I don't judge people, but we must respect and adhere to
the rules that the owner of a group outlines for us.
> There are groups that I belong to, and don't necessarily agree with
some rules.
> However, if I wish to remaina member of that group, then I must
abide by their rules.
> Not just a few of them, but all of them.
> As I said, there are many groups on line that does cater to your
particular concerns.
> Having said that, I wish you and the group a pleasant day and week!
> Take care,
> Tiny Tony
> " WE SHARE, BECAUSE, WE CARE "
>   ----- Original Message -----
>   From: BRENT JANNERETH<mailto:bmta1970@...>
>   To: Incont@yahoogroups.com<mailto:Incont@yahoogroups.com>
>   Sent: Tuesday, November 27, 2007 9:28 AM
>   Subject: [Incont] Re: bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber
pants !
>
>
>
>   Hello
>   I agree theirs been a lot of negativity on this board lately
>   and one of the reasons I haven't posted lately, I can't stand
negativity.
>   I'm no an AB/DL but I think they need support too and could also
give support and should have the right to post here as well.
>   what ever floats peoples boats as they say.
>   Sincerely, Brent Jannereth
>

Hey guys,
    I am kind of new here. I have been a member for awhile but haven't
post in a very long time. I am 23 and have ulcerative colits, and over
active bladder. I am looking for some suport, It can be lonley
sometimes. If your intrested in chating feel free to IM me at
Kewlman6798. Or my aim is singer4u242. I am just looking for others to
chat with that know what it's like. I going to try and post here more
often.
thanks
-Dave

I don't think they should be discussing their love of diapers here, but
I certainly welcome them from the angle of having experience and
opinions on the quality of absorbent products.

I'd also like to hear more from the people who don't wear diapers,
those who use pills, exercise and other methods to control their
incontinence.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "Patrick" <patrickcroteau33@...> wrote:
>
You got my vote NO AB/DL stuff there's plenty of sites that cater to
that crowd why should we have to. I dropped out of the depend board
because of all the AB/DL people masquerading as one of us. They can
be so easy to pick out. Just by there name having something like baby
or diaper or little etc. You run a good chance that they would turn
out to be from that crowd. I'm really happy with the ISC board
schoppy does a great job with that board. but there is a lack of
participation on there so that's why I came on here......Sandy

> yeah I'm thinking the same as you .
> they have plenty of other group to talk about diaper .
>
> Patrick .
>
> --- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "formerboomer" <boomer2480@> wrote:
> >
> > My vote is no ab/dl stuff on this site. They have plenty of sites
> that
> > are devoted to that, I don't have anything against them but would
> > prefer not to delve into that here.
> >
>

yeah i'm thinking the same as you .
they have plenty of other group to talk about diaper .

patrick .

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "formerboomer" <boomer2480@...> wrote:
>
> My vote is no ab/dl stuff on this site. They have plenty of sites
that
> are devoted to that, I don't have anything against them but would
> prefer not to delve into that here.
>

My vote is no ab/dl stuff on this site. They have plenty of sites that
are devoted to that, I don't have anything against them but would
prefer not to delve into that here.

----- Original Message -----

From: Tony Di Antonio

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Monday, November 26, 2007 1:53 PM

Subject: Re: [Incont] Re: bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber pants !

Hi Everyone!

I've been reading posts from this group over the past few days, and must say that I'm very disapointed.

Once again, as I stated in a post I sent to this group, we're a support group, not a group who criticizes, chastizes and posts negative comments, thus, discouraging members to post in the group.

 

As the old saying goes: " LIVE, AND LET LIVE "

For those of us who have relegious belief's,

" JUDGE NOT, LEST YE BE JUDGED "

 

So folks, let's get back to what this group is all about.

It's about, caring, understanding, acceptance and most important: " SUPPORT "

 

As you can see, I was blunt, yet understanding, diplomatic and supportive in this post.

I'll get off my soap box once again, and hope we can all just get along!

My MS is kicking me in my diapered butt today, but like my spina bifida and incontinence, it's going to have to work around me, not me, around it!

I bid you all a pleasant and produtive day and new week!

Take care,

Tiny Tony 

" WE SHARE, BECAUSE, WE CARE "

.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, Kevin Ford <georgiabulldog0206@...>
wrote:
>
> Hi joseph where are you located get back to me
>
> ---------------------------------
> Be a better pen pal. Text or chat with friends inside Yahoo! Mail.
See how.
>
Hi there don't wory where I'm at I do travel and have a car , is there
something you wish to ask , if so ask because I'm not a shy person and
yes I think wearing nappies and rubber pants is a turn on .Contact
me :: iluv3469@...

> Don't count me into your idea of us all being "Babies" I'm a full
grown fully active Adult. With only one draw back I have a bad
bladder. I don't enjoy having to wear diapers but it's part of my
life. I've never thought diapers to be kinky. And I don't much care
for the Idea of being considered a baby at heart. I have very little
respect for anyone with the AB/DL mentality. If you reading this are
one. I would hope that you would keep it to yourself and not share
your perversion. Or use this board to feed your perversion.  Anyone
else feel the same way?  Sandy

> Hi guys / girls the truth as I see it is we are all babies at heart
and enjoy wearing nappies the thrill of being different is a bit
kinky and I love it if you would like to meet for a coffee and a yarn
contact me ? Joseph
>
> stephen laws <laws36@...> wrote:          hi  idid  not  enjoy
wearing  my   nappies  at  first   just  a  1yer  ago  now  its
just  like  wearing  JIM JAMS   FOR  BED IM  OK  WITH  IT  NOW  stphn
>
>
> ---------------------------------
>   To: Incont@yahoogroups.com
> From: renegerkwa@...
> Date: Thu, 22 Nov 2007 14:25:05 -0800
> Subject: Re: [Incont] bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber
pants !
>
>           you just have to enjoy ur diapers and plastic pants like
I do.
>   I have also wett my bed all my life
>
>
>
>   ----- Original Message ----
> From: bigbabyindiapers1952 <bigbabyindiapers1952@...>
> To: Incont@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Thursday, 22 November, 2007 4:56:52 PM
> Subject: [Incont] bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber pants !
>
>     I HAVE BEEN A BED WETTER SINCE I WAS 7 YEARS OLD, IAM NOW AGE
55 AND
> STLL WET THE BED. MY DOCTOR TOLD ME THAT , I HAD INCONTIENCE DUE TO
> THE WAY, I WAS TREATED AS A BOY. MY MOTHER KEPT ME IN DIAPERS AND
> RUBBER PANTS,I WAS TREATED LIKE A BABY TO THE AGE OF 25 YEARS OLD.
A
> QUESTION ! WAS THIS THE REAL CAUSE OF MY INCONTINENCE? ??? CAN SOME
ONE
> GIVE SOME ADVICE ??
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
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To: Incont@yahoogroups.com
From: tinytony59@...
Date: Sat, 24 Nov 2007 11:41:02 -0500
Subject: Re: [Incont] Re: bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber pants !

Hi Tiny Tony here.

I got a little concerned with cubittriangle1's ending comments to bigbabyin diapers when he suggested that he shouldin't bring his concerns to this group.

I thought we were suppose to be a support group?

Not a group who places judgment on members concerns and then threatens the individual that he'll be reported to the authorities, stating that a group such as our's is not a proper place to seek help/advice.

 

I offered bigbabyindiapers the same basic suggestions re: seeking help/advice from a urologist and physcologist.

Obviously, we are not doctors here, but we in fact are a support group, hence, if in any way we can help, we can and should.

 

If you read my original reply to bigbabyindiapers, you would note that I offered support and suggestions....Not judgements or threats.

Having said that, let's remember that we all have our own unique and bonified concerns re: our particular incontinence issues.

Support means just that! SUPPORT!!!

Ok I'll get off my soap box now lol.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Take care,

Tiny Tony 

----- Original Message -----

From: cubictriangle1

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Friday, November 23, 2007 5:11 PM

Subject: [Incont] Re: bed wetting , wearing diapers and rubber pants !

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "bigbabyindiapers1952"
<bigbabyindiapers1952@...> wrote:
>
> I HAVE BEEN A BED WETTER SINCE I WAS 7 YEARS OLD, IAM NOW AGE 55 AND
> STLL WET THE BED. MY DOCTOR TOLD ME THAT , I HAD INCONTIENCE DUE TO
> THE WAY, I WAS TREATED AS A BOY. MY MOTHER KEPT ME IN DIAPERS AND
> RUBBER PANTS,I WAS TREATED LIKE A BABY TO THE AGE OF 25 YEARS OLD. A
> QUESTION ! WAS THIS THE REAL CAUSE OF MY INCONTINENCE???? CAN SOME
ONE
> GIVE SOME ADVICE ??
>
First you should not be asking here you should be asking your
urologist. If you dont have one, get one. You need to get some answers
from him/her as to why your wetting your bed/pants. If they canot find
a problem you need to see a physcologist and ask them if its a result
of your childhood.
Second you need to find an adult board to post your fanatasies you
should not be talking to young girls and boys about your wetting
problems.
Third if you continue to do so you will be turned into the autorties
as to your behavoir. It is not proper for an adult to have such
contact about your wettinjg problems.

For the past nine year I have been incontinent and for the last two
years I have been unable to retain any urine is it passable that my
bladder is shrink ink?

Hi Sandy I'm troy20772 I've dealt with incontinence all my life. I'm 35
& married with 2 kids I use Depends Guard for men during the day.
Depends adult diapers or Tena overnight pads & pants system at night.



- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "stom28" <stom28@...> wrote:
>
> Hi my name is Sandy I'm around 40 years old and plan to stay 40ish
> forever. I've been bladder incontinent for around 20 years. I have
very
> little control of my bladder and out of the last 20 years at least 15
> I've  had to wear full briefs 24/7 I've recently started using cloth
> briefs and plastic pants with the help of my friends on the ISC board
> or incontinence support center. were I'm a very active member. I'm
> other wise a fully active person with no other disabilities other
then
> incontinence. JUST A NOTE: I REFUSE TO BE HELD BACK BY INCONTINENCE.
>   My husband is the one that found this group for me. He was cruising
> the groups the other night and found this one for me. it looked
rather
> well maintained so I thought I would give it a try. Funny my husbands
> the one that got me going on the ISC board as well. Anyway I plan to
> check in here day to day to see the happenings.....Keep smiling SANDY
>

---

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com
From: troy20772@...
Date: Fri, 23 Nov 2007 20:12:39 +0000
Subject: [Incont] Back to using diapers or overnight pads at night

Hi I'm back to use pads or adult diaper at night. I have an overactive
bladder. Have been to the urologist. Any suggestions would be helpful

Hi I'm back to use pads or adult diaper at night. I have an overactive
bladder. Have been to the urologist. Any suggestions would be helpful

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "bigbabyindiapers1952"
<bigbabyindiapers1952@...> wrote:
>
> I HAVE BEEN A BED WETTER SINCE I WAS 7 YEARS OLD, IAM NOW AGE 55 AND
> STLL WET THE BED. MY DOCTOR TOLD ME THAT , I HAD INCONTIENCE DUE TO
> THE WAY, I WAS TREATED AS A BOY. MY MOTHER KEPT ME IN DIAPERS AND
> RUBBER PANTS,I WAS TREATED LIKE A BABY TO THE AGE OF 25 YEARS OLD. A
> QUESTION ! WAS THIS THE REAL CAUSE OF MY INCONTINENCE???? CAN SOME
ONE
> GIVE SOME ADVICE ??
>
First you should not be asking here you should be asking your
urologist. If you dont have one, get one. You need to get some answers
from him/her as to why your wetting your bed/pants. If they canot find
a problem you need to see a physcologist and ask them if its a result
of your childhood.
Second you need to find an adult board to post your fanatasies you
should not be talking to young girls and boys about your wetting
problems.
Third if you continue to do so you will be turned into the autorties
as to your behavoir. It is not proper for an adult to have such
contact about your wettinjg problems.