Hello to you. I have the same problem but not continuous. I have had
more than one prostate infection in the past and it has left me with
urges from time to time where I don't feel safe without a diaper. I
am a male 34 and I don't need the world knowing I wear a diaper in
public. I have found that the generic brand sold at Walmart accually
absorbs more and is thinner than alot of the really expensive ones.
Just thought that may help espesially if you're on a budget. Good
luck, R.S.

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "ilovebears200406"
<ilovebears200406@y...> wrote:
>
> Hello,
>
>  My name is Katie and we are new to this group.  My mom has a
problem
> with stress and urge incontinence which started a few years ago.  I
was
> wondering if anyone knows where you can buy contour bikini diapers,
> preferabally with velcro closeures whch are very realsonalbe in
price,
> prefeabally in flannel oI ewas alo wondring iif anyone has a
pattern ot
> knows of anwhere where one can get a patern to make contour diaeprs
of
> pull up diapers in adult sizes.  we have been looking everywhre but
> cannot seem to find a patern for adults. It seems very hard to
find .
>
> If anyone  can help we would appreciate it very much.
>
> Thank you.

Hello,

My name is Katie and we are new to this group.  My mom has a problem
with stress and urge incontinence which started a few years ago.  I was
wondering if anyone knows where you can buy contour bikini diapers,
preferabally with velcro closeures whch are very realsonalbe in price,
prefeabally in flannel oI ewas alo wondring iif anyone has a pattern ot
knows of anwhere where one can get a patern to make contour diaeprs of
pull up diapers in adult sizes.  we have been looking everywhre but
cannot seem to find a patern for adults. It seems very hard to find .

If anyone  can help we would appreciate it very much.

Thank you.

----- Original Message -----

From: ilovebears200406

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Monday, March 28, 2005 10:17 PM

Subject: [Incont] Hello

Hello,

My name is Katie and we are new to this group.  My mom has a problem
with stress and urge incontinence which started a few years ago.  I was
wondering if anyone knows where you can buy contour bikini diapers,
preferabally with velcro closeures whch are very realsonalbe in price,
prefeabally in flannel oI ewas alo wondring iif anyone has a pattern ot
knows of anwhere where one can get a patern to make contour diaeprs of
pull up diapers in adult sizes.  we have been looking everywhre but
cannot seem to find a patern for adults. It seems very hard to find .

If anyone  can help we would appreciate it very much.

Thank you.

Hello,

  My name is Katie and we are new to this group.  My mom has a problem
with stress and urge incontinence which started a few years ago.  I was
wondering if anyone knows where you can buy contour bikini diapers,
preferabally with velcro closeures whch are very realsonalbe in price,
prefeabally in flannel oI ewas alo wondring iif anyone has a pattern ot
knows of anwhere where one can get a patern to make contour diaeprs of
pull up diapers in adult sizes.  we have been looking everywhre but
cannot seem to find a patern for adults. It seems very hard to find .

If anyone  can help we would appreciate it very much.

Thank you.

I am new to this group. After reading some messengers from the members
I feel more calm. I still wet and have to use diapers every night.
I have been ashamed many times but I am not alone with all this.
I am norwegian and want to meet somebody to talk to.
The group AB/DL I have seen - I think that is a good group. I have
already met somebody, incontinent and not incontinent.

the one side effect I could not stand of the
Oxybutynin was the it dried my mouth and throut out so
bad i had a hard time swolling anything had to increas
fluid intake so much that the Oxybutynin did not work.

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> --- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, aerosenman@a...
> wrote:
> > biofeedback could be very helpful, pelvic floor
> exercise.  there
> are  meds
> > for this too but they may impact the bowels and
> have other side
> effects.  Start
> > with biofeedback or physiotherapy.
> > ARosenman, M.D.
>
> Yeah, side effects like that of Oxybutynin?  I'll
> say it simply so
> as to avoid confusion.  It made me stupid.  I can't
> believe how
> spaced out, absent minded, and dizzy I felt on this
> stuff.  Not only
> that, but cognitively, I was slower.
>
> I had to think a lot harder and it took me longer to
> come up with
> answers and solutions to things.  After going off of
> it, it took me
> almost a week to "de-stupify" myself and feel
> somewhat normal
> again.  Wow, I don't want to go through that again.
> Do you hear
> this a lot Doctor, or could it be an interaction
> with a mild (100mg
> twice) dose of Wellbutrin or Adderall (15 mg twice)?
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--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, aerosenman@a... wrote:
> biofeedback could be very helpful, pelvic floor exercise.  there
are  meds
> for this too but they may impact the bowels and have other side
effects.  Start
> with biofeedback or physiotherapy.
> ARosenman, M.D.

Yeah, side effects like that of Oxybutynin?  I'll say it simply so
as to avoid confusion.  It made me stupid.  I can't believe how
spaced out, absent minded, and dizzy I felt on this stuff.  Not only
that, but cognitively, I was slower.

I had to think a lot harder and it took me longer to come up with
answers and solutions to things.  After going off of it, it took me
almost a week to "de-stupify" myself and feel somewhat normal
again.  Wow, I don't want to go through that again.  Do you hear
this a lot Doctor, or could it be an interaction with a mild (100mg
twice) dose of Wellbutrin or Adderall (15 mg twice)?

Hello Everyone,

As a new member, I would like to take a moment to introduce myself
to the group.  My name is Brad Porter.  I am 29 years old and a
senior nursing student at Illinois Central College in Peoria, IL.
I'm graduating in May and excited about entering the field of
nursing.  I'm interested in traveling and doing volunteer work as a
nurse once I have the resources to do so.  I also earned my B.S. in
Biology from Purdue University in 1999.

I have been learning allot about the conservative management of
incontinence for the last several years during discussions with my
close friend Dr. Christoph Weismayer.  He brought the Kegelxcel
pelvic floor exercise device to the market almost 3 years ago now.
In December after discussions with Christoph I decided to venture
into the business of incontinence as well, and I have started a
website that has the goal of objectively comparing all available
pelvic floor exercise devices and promoting noninvasive conservative
treatment of stress incontinence as the first-line of care.  I would
appreciate anyone's feedback about the website and how to further
improve it.  I am not trying to blatantly spam this group, but I do
want to get the word out about the site, offer my assistance, and
gain insight from the community on how to make the site better.
Please visit the site (listed below) when you have a chance and know
that I am more than happy to discuss incontinence issues with
everyone that sends me email or phones my fledgling company.

I look forward to offering assistance in anyway possible to the
group in the coming weeks, months, and years.

Best Regards,
Brad Porter
http://www.kegelcompare.com

Hi all. i've frequent urination due to Asacol and Prednisone... These
meds caused problems to me.


Liz

Hey,
  My name is Dave, I am 20 and Live in Michigan. I am also
incontinent. I am looking for some people to chat with that are also
incontinent, and understand what it's like. I am also in to music,
and am an aspiring singer/songwriter so if you are into music that is
a plus as well. It would just be cool to have someone to talk to
about these things. If your intrested in chating you can Im me on
yahoo, or you can e-mail me at Singer4u242@...
later,
Dave

hi all im new and have some questions reguarding incon. im not incon
but what happened the other night scared me. i was dreaming that i
was whizzing in a toilet and woke up to myself peeing the bed!....so
is this any form of incon coming on?????

I am in Southern California (Ventura actually) about an hour north of
Los Angeles.


Gary Evans
Owner, XP Medical
www.xpmedical.com
1-888-485-2268



On Jan 6, 2005, at 6:02 AM, victoria morris wrote:

>
>  Hi,
>
>  I'm from southern california and I am looking for a brick and mortor
>  store that sells molicare super plus briefs. Does anyone know of one?
>  Having it delivered is not an option for me.
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Hi,

I'm from southern california and I am looking for a brick and mortor
store that sells molicare super plus briefs. Does anyone know of one?
Having it delivered is not an option for me.

I just want to thank all of you for the great responces . Just to
know that ther are so many out there and I'm not alone make me feel
better .

Hi Mike. I am only 34 and can associate with your problem somewhat.
When I was only 19 I had a prostate infection. Thank God it was only
a temporary thing but it did leave some permanent side effects. When
I had this problem I would constantly have drainage from my penis,
urine and other. I usually tried using the men's guards from Depend
or other belted or self adhesive liners. They usually are more than
needed and don't stay in place when active. I found that the smallest
size bedpads seem to cover the most area and are all the absorbtion
needed without the whole world being able to see them. If it's not
hot weather, vynil pants with cheap underwear works well too.
  I posted a message on groups.yahoo.com/group/incontinenceproducts/
about how someone should make a thin diaper, sort of the thickness of
bedpads, for people with these types of problems. Maybe you want to
go there and check the replies.  RS.




--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "mike" <mikemia1@y...> wrote:
>
> I'm 45 and for the past year I have been experiencing fecal leakage
> not just mucus .
> Is there something I can do ? I realy dont want to ware a diaper if
I
> dont have to . I stuff t/p there when it happend but I have usualy
> ruined my underware .

I'm 45 and for the past year I have been experiencing fecal leakage
not just mucus .
Is there something I can do ? I realy dont want to ware a diaper if I
dont have to . I stuff t/p there when it happend but I have usualy
ruined my underware .

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
>
> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night.


I have found that tightness isn't as important as thickness. Do you
use disposables? try a Depends Booster pad in the middle to absorb
more... frankly, I've never had luck with disposables for my
bedwetting... I sleep on my side alot, and "male parts" move around,
causing leaks. I've been in cloth diapers and plastic pants for most
of my 14 years of bedwetting. Also, with cloth, you can make them as
thick as needed.

Hi niuhuskie629,

I have been traveling and I was unable to post a reply so please
forgive my tardiness.

I became incontinent in 1996 or at least that is when the bedwetting
started.  My wife, then of five years was very understanding, but I
was angry.  Well, very angry, and I unfortunately let my anger be
expressed by being verbally abusive.  I had tried condom catheters
and was excessively unhappy with the results.  She suggested
diapers, and I went ballistic.  I loved my wife however and sought
counseling.  Perhaps that is what your husband should do.  The first
time I wore a diaper to bed I leaked because I had no idea on how to
put it on.  My wife helped me tighten it up the second night.  At
the time I was using the depend overnights and the whole experience
was foreign to me.  Her helping me get "diapered" really ticked me
off.  I was mad because I wasn't looking for that kind of help.  The
psychologist helped me get over the anger.  When I finally stopped
being angry it got easier, it took about 6 months for me to come to
grips with it though.  I couldn't understand what kept my wife from
leaving me because of how I treated her, of course at the time I
blamed our issues on the diapers, but she stuck it out, just like
you.   You are very brave and very loving to hang in there, it shows
a lot of courage.  My wife has found ways of helping me feel better
about the whole incontinence ordeal so if you or your husband would
like to email us just use this email for starters and we'd be happy
to help you and your husband through this difficult time.  Even if
you'd like a woman's perspective she's offered to send you her
private email too.  Just let us know.  In the mean time we'll keep
you in our prayers.

Good Luck,

Mike aka jd_3rd@...


--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
>
> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
> been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
> cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
> since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going
to
> leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
> that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
> leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so
insecure
> about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
> feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
> matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
> about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
> advice!

-----Message d'origine-----
De : niuhuskie629 [mailto:]
Envoyé : samedi 11 décembre 2004 19:44
À : Incont@yahoogroups.com
Objet : [Incont] Husband's bedwetting

Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!

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Hi everyone

Just to let you know that drylife will be reopening mid January.I am
at the moment completing the purchase of the company from the
present owner.

For those of you who do not know drylife,we are suppliers of
tradditional child and adult
terry nappies,training pants and plastic pants  to the
incontinent community.

There will be the possibility to buy directly on line,
plus discreet and rapid delivery.I intend to keep good stock levels
of all products.Thier will also be the possibility to purchase
directly from our office based in the centre of birmingham.

The new site address will be www.drylife.co.uk which will be up and
running mid January.There is also the original Drylife brochure
avaliable by post.(just send an email with name and address)

The original drylife site is still up and running at
http://members.aol.com/drylife/diapers1/   although the address and
telephone are no longer in use.

The new telephone contact number is 0791 6173556

or email enquiries at chris@...

I am also looking for a model to do new photos of all our
products,send me an email with photo to chris@...(prfer
somebody less than 25 years old)


I look forward to hearing any of your suggestions and comments

thanks all

chris.

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