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#185 From: "R. S." <leathrpnts@...>
Date: Sun Jan 2, 2005 8:20 pm
Subject: Re: Fecal Leakage
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Hi Mike. I am only 34 and can associate with your problem somewhat.
When I was only 19 I had a prostate infection. Thank God it was only
a temporary thing but it did leave some permanent side effects. When
I had this problem I would constantly have drainage from my penis,
urine and other. I usually tried using the men's guards from Depend
or other belted or self adhesive liners. They usually are more than
needed and don't stay in place when active. I found that the smallest
size bedpads seem to cover the most area and are all the absorbtion
needed without the whole world being able to see them. If it's not
hot weather, vynil pants with cheap underwear works well too.
  I posted a message on groups.yahoo.com/group/incontinenceproducts/
about how someone should make a thin diaper, sort of the thickness of
bedpads, for people with these types of problems. Maybe you want to
go there and check the replies.  RS.




--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "mike" <mikemia1@y...> wrote:
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> I'm 45 and for the past year I have been experiencing fecal leakage
> not just mucus .
> Is there something I can do ? I realy dont want to ware a diaper if
I
> dont have to . I stuff t/p there when it happend but I have usualy
> ruined my underware .

#184 From: "mike" <mikemia1@...>
Date: Mon Dec 27, 2004 8:11 pm
Subject: Fecal Leakage
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I'm 45 and for the past year I have been experiencing fecal leakage
not just mucus .
Is there something I can do ? I realy dont want to ware a diaper if I
dont have to . I stuff t/p there when it happend but I have usualy
ruined my underware .

#183 From: James Wilson <jameswilson8546701@...>
Date: Sun Dec 19, 2004 5:18 pm
Subject: Re: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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Hi Yes Cloth works the best for me to. But for travel I us disposables from XP MEDICAL and use booster pads thay sell and I don,t have any leak problem.plus I wear plastic pants over them.I,d really embarreset if I had a leak when staying at friends houses. I spend alot of time there.They know about my bedwetting problem and they understand.You can also get a big pad to lay on.You can get them at most drug stores.There very helpful to.Hope your Husband can find someting that works Ok for him assure him he,s not alone. Jimbob

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--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
>
> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night.


I have found that tightness isn't as important as thickness. Do you
use disposables? try a Depends Booster pad in the middle to absorb
more... frankly, I've never had luck with disposables for my
bedwetting... I sleep on my side alot, and "male parts" move around,
causing leaks. I've been in cloth diapers and plastic pants for most
of my 14 years of bedwetting. Also, with cloth, you can make them as
thick as needed.





#182 From: "Dave" <davebw9876@...>
Date: Sun Dec 19, 2004 1:37 am
Subject: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
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> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night.


I have found that tightness isn't as important as thickness. Do you
use disposables? try a Depends Booster pad in the middle to absorb
more... frankly, I've never had luck with disposables for my
bedwetting... I sleep on my side alot, and "male parts" move around,
causing leaks. I've been in cloth diapers and plastic pants for most
of my 14 years of bedwetting. Also, with cloth, you can make them as
thick as needed.

#181 From: DR Hammer <sailrup@...>
Date: Sun Dec 12, 2004 2:32 am
Subject: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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There is really no need to worry about the bed wetting problem with all the advances in bladder control technology today.  I would recommend you check out www.cnyurology.com-or talk to a doctor Bashar Omarbasha 315-363-8862 regarding the AMS800 Urinary control system. Also contact American medical systems, inc. 800 -328-3881.Dennis

niuhuskie629 <niuhuskie629@...> wrote:

Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!






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#180 From: "Mike" <jd_3rd@...>
Date: Fri Dec 17, 2004 7:06 am
Subject: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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Hi niuhuskie629,

I have been traveling and I was unable to post a reply so please
forgive my tardiness.

I became incontinent in 1996 or at least that is when the bedwetting
started.  My wife, then of five years was very understanding, but I
was angry.  Well, very angry, and I unfortunately let my anger be
expressed by being verbally abusive.  I had tried condom catheters
and was excessively unhappy with the results.  She suggested
diapers, and I went ballistic.  I loved my wife however and sought
counseling.  Perhaps that is what your husband should do.  The first
time I wore a diaper to bed I leaked because I had no idea on how to
put it on.  My wife helped me tighten it up the second night.  At
the time I was using the depend overnights and the whole experience
was foreign to me.  Her helping me get "diapered" really ticked me
off.  I was mad because I wasn't looking for that kind of help.  The
psychologist helped me get over the anger.  When I finally stopped
being angry it got easier, it took about 6 months for me to come to
grips with it though.  I couldn't understand what kept my wife from
leaving me because of how I treated her, of course at the time I
blamed our issues on the diapers, but she stuck it out, just like
you.   You are very brave and very loving to hang in there, it shows
a lot of courage.  My wife has found ways of helping me feel better
about the whole incontinence ordeal so if you or your husband would
like to email us just use this email for starters and we'd be happy
to help you and your husband through this difficult time.  Even if
you'd like a woman's perspective she's offered to send you her
private email too.  Just let us know.  In the mean time we'll keep
you in our prayers.

Good Luck,

Mike aka jd_3rd@...


--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@y...>
wrote:
>
> Hello everyone,
> I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
> recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
> event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
> night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
> get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
> been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
> cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
> since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going
to
> leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
> that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
> leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so
insecure
> about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
> feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
> matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
> about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
> advice!

#179 From: "Bachellerie, Cedric" <cbachell@...>
Date: Mon Dec 13, 2004 10:03 am
Subject: RE : Husband's bedwetting
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You could use Depend pull-on pants instead of diapers. Your husband could pull them on on his own and they shouldn't leak neither. Their texture make them more like ordinary underwear too. You can find them in any store.
Good luck !
Cedric.
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Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!





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#178 From: "happyinanappy" <dubberle@...>
Date: Mon Dec 13, 2004 5:33 pm
Subject: DRYLIFE REOPENS MID JANUARY
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Hi everyone

Just to let you know that drylife will be reopening mid January.I am
at the moment completing the purchase of the company from the
present owner.

For those of you who do not know drylife,we are suppliers of
tradditional child and adult
terry nappies,training pants and plastic pants  to the
incontinent community.

There will be the possibility to buy directly on line,
plus discreet and rapid delivery.I intend to keep good stock levels
of all products.Thier will also be the possibility to purchase
directly from our office based in the centre of birmingham.

The new site address will be www.drylife.co.uk which will be up and
running mid January.There is also the original Drylife brochure
avaliable by post.(just send an email with name and address)

The original drylife site is still up and running at
http://members.aol.com/drylife/diapers1/   although the address and
telephone are no longer in use.

The new telephone contact number is 0791 6173556

or email enquiries at chris@...

I am also looking for a model to do new photos of all our
products,send me an email with photo to chris@...(prfer
somebody less than 25 years old)


I look forward to hearing any of your suggestions and comments

thanks all

chris.

#177 From: charles sweet <nonechuck2000@...>
Date: Mon Dec 13, 2004 2:14 am
Subject: Re: Im new
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Hi` Brantly,I`m Chuck wecome Let`s chat. I`m a bedwetter every night.
brantley99@... wrote:
Hi all...... I am new to the group.

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#176 From: Dippityduf@...
Date: Sun Dec 12, 2004 5:22 pm
Subject: Re: Im new
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Welcome aboard. It is a pleasure to see you with us.

#175 From: brantley99@...
Date: Sun Dec 12, 2004 10:15 am
Subject: Im new
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Hi all...... I am new to the group.

#174 From: aerosenman@...
Date: Sat Dec 11, 2004 7:19 pm
Subject: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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Hopefully you and your husband have seen a doctor about this problem.  DDAVP is a nasal spray that can reduce the output of urine while he sleeps and can help immeasurably with this problem.  It is a nasal spray and safe enough for children.  It is available by prescription.  Hope it helps.
AERosenman, M.D.

#173 From: David Barnes <barnosaur@...>
Date: Sat Dec 11, 2004 7:50 pm
Subject: Re: Husband's bedwetting
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Dear "wonder-woman". I surely back you up a lot....for caring for the one YOU really love. God bless you and him, and you are not alone out there! LOVE is (or should be) the only thing to keep..and you 2 are a perfect couple.......no matter what!

niuhuskie629 <niuhuskie629@...> wrote:

Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!








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#172 From: "niuhuskie629" <niuhuskie629@...>
Date: Sat Dec 11, 2004 6:44 pm
Subject: Husband's bedwetting
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Hello everyone,
I am married to a wonderful man (we're both 32 years old) who has
recently started wetting the bed at night because of a traumatic
event he was involved in recently. (He only has urinary problems at
night.) He has been wearing diapers to help, but he is unable to
get them on tight enough so that they don't leak at night. I have
been helping him put them on, which he says he appreciates, but he
cries every night when I put one on for him. (They have not leaked
since I've started doing this for him.) He is convinced I'm going to
leave him over this, and even though I've told him a thousand times
that I love him more than anything in the world and would never
leave him over something as trivial as this, he is still so insecure
about it. I need help - I just don't know what to do. Sometimes it
feels like holding him and telling him that I'll always love him no
matter what just doesn't seem to be enough. I'm really worried
about him. Hopefully someone here will be able to give me some
advice!

#171 From: "genovese12000" <genovese12000@...>
Date: Sat Nov 13, 2004 9:34 pm
Subject: hello im incopntinent in pittsburgh
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if u live in pittsburgh or penna. and would like 2 talk pm me at
genovese12000. or e-mail me at genovese12000@.... im 34 year
old male just looking 4 freind in the pittsburgh area

#170 From: "diaper_man1" <diaper_man1@...>
Date: Thu Nov 11, 2004 5:31 pm
Subject: incontinent support homepage
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Hello

Im a new member to this group but wanted to tell everyone of a new
Incontinent Support homepage that I found through Google.

The homepage is ran by fellow incontinent people and has some great
info on dealing with incontinence.

Its located at: http://www.incontinentsupport.org/

Thankyou

#169 From: "K." <cuggle@...>
Date: Mon Nov 8, 2004 7:43 pm
Subject: INCONTINENCE PROGRAM IN SEATTLE AREA
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Do you suffer from Urinary or Fecal Incontinence?

*During excercise?
*When coughing or sneezing?
*During long journeys?
*After childbirth?
*Due to diabetes?
*Enlarged prostate gland or prostate surgery?
*Back injury?
*Increased frequency throughout day and night?

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!  We offer a personalized non surgical, non drug
based proven effective treatment to help you regain urinary control.

At BACK TO HEALTH CENTER our Urinary Control program is performed by a
state licensed Physical Therapist who has training in incontinence,
pelvic pain and dysfunction.

Evaluation and treatment
includes:
*Musculoskeletal (thoracic,
   lumbosacral & lower extremity) evaluation.
*Manual muscle testing &
   observation of pelvic floor.
*SEMG baseline
*Home exercise program of pelvic floor muscle strength
  & endurance training with stretching and
  strengthening of lower trunk & quarters.

Further  treatment
includes:
*Biofeedback
*Electrical stimulation & TENS
*Ultrasound
*Soft tissue mobilization
*Joint mobilization
*Pelvic floor muscle training
*Lower quarter/trunk training
*Bladder training
*Voiding diary instruction
*Dietary instruction

Stop urine leakage, regain bladder control, relieve embarrassment,
resume travel activities and stop using absorbent supplies!

Covered by most insurance plans including Medicare!

For more information contact:

BACK TO HEALTH CENTER
2425 152ND AVE NE, BLDG. 17, SUITE 2425
REDMOND, WA 98065
(425) 702-0200

#168 From: "Mike" <ecnadmike@...>
Date: Mon Nov 8, 2004 7:09 pm
Subject: Re: IS IT ACCEPTABLE TO POST....
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--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "K." <cuggle@c...> wrote:
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> I manage a clinic that has a wonderful incontinence program.  Is it
> acceptable to post services here?

I welcome the discussion of all methods of treatment, please feel
free to discuss your program!

Mike (mod)

#167 From: aerosenman@...
Date: Mon Nov 8, 2004 2:02 pm
Subject: incontinence care
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I don't know what the moderator of this group thinks about posting individual clinic services for incontinence but I can't see how it could do anything but help.  Where is this clinic?  I am in southern California and also provide clinical services for incontinence.
Amy Rosenman, M.D.

#166 From: "K." <cuggle@...>
Date: Mon Nov 8, 2004 7:22 am
Subject: IS IT ACCEPTABLE TO POST....
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I manage a clinic that has a wonderful incontinence program.  Is it
acceptable to post services here?

#165 From: "plbroek" <de_ruijter1@...>
Date: Fri Oct 29, 2004 10:24 am
Subject: New pants at Maree Medical
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There are new pants for sale at
www.maree-medical.com

#164 From: "emma anderson" <emma1anderson@...>
Date: Mon Oct 18, 2004 10:58 am
Subject: napppies for sale
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I have 10 pkts of tena flex nappies for sale there are 28 nappies
per pkt all 10 pkts for £100, buyer collects. Please call
07765547929 between 8-9pm for details. I do not answer witheld
numbers and am London based.

Emma

#163 From: tinytony2@...
Date: Thu Oct 7, 2004 12:38 am
Subject: Re: helow
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HI NEIL,
WELCOME TO THE GROUP.
I'M TONY, AND AM URINARY INCONTINENT DUE TO A MODERATE SPINA BIFIDA AND
PROGRESSIVE MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS.
I WEAR CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS 24/7.
I'M MEDICALLY RETIRED, AND MARRIED. ( 16 MONTH'S )
YOU CAN EMAIL ME AT:
TINYTONY2@... OR REACH ME ON MY MSN MESSAGER BY TYPING MY EMAIL
ADDY INTO YOUR BUDDY OR FRIENDS LIST.
HOPE TO TALK TO YA SOON.
TINYTONY  :)

#162 From: "kcscaven" <kcscaven@...>
Date: Wed Oct 6, 2004 9:06 am
Subject: helow
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helow just a thank you for leting me youne this grope
my name is neil and i live in the uk
im trying to find a cupal of pen pales to talk to and may be to give
me a cupal of tips

#161 From: "John Selmon" <john_selmon@...>
Date: Wed Aug 25, 2004 1:37 am
Subject: My life history
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Let me see. Were to begin? Oh, I got it. I served in the army going
on 13 years now. I'm also a disabled war vetern. I suffer from
migraines due to my military service as well as a few other medical
problems. One of them is obvious, I use diapers. I sometimes wet
myself when I have a severe migraine. I don't know about you, but I
really hate it when this happens. It is a good thing that I love
diapers though.
In the past, I have been a father figure to adult baby. I really love
seeing others in diapers more then myself. I'm a very careing &
loveing person. I make a pretty good father. At least that is what
others have told me.
When I'm not working in the army, I'm working on the ambulances. I've
been an Emergency Medical Technician for the past 13 or more years.
Started as a volunteer. Now I do it for a private company. The
company pays me little compared to other ambulance companies, but I
just enjoy taking care of the patients! What good is life if you
don't share it with others?
Thank you,

John Selmon

#160 From: "boernie_2003" <boernie_2003@...>
Date: Fri Jul 9, 2004 4:58 am
Subject: Hello
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Hello everyone,

i surfed around the web because my inco got worse these days :-(
I am a 38, straight male from germany who suffers from both urinary
and bowel incontinence. My inco starts when my mother died, i was 14
years old, but i also had accidents in my childhood i remember very
good. I have an descending perinum syndrom and sometimes i have ibs
like right now. Like nowadays i am feared of becoming 24/7 diaper use.

wish you well
Boernie

#159 From: tinytony2@...
Date: Wed Jun 30, 2004 3:46 pm
Subject: Re: Hi from Sweden
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HI AKE,
WELCOME TO THE GROUP.
I'VE BEEN INCONTINENT FROM BIRTH AND HAVE WORN CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC
PANTS.
HEY, THERE JUST ANOTHER FORM OF UNDERWEAR AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED.
HOPE YOU ENJOY THE GROUP.
TONY  :)

#158 From: Åke <avaester@...>
Date: Wed Jun 30, 2004 9:37 am
Subject: Hi from Sweden
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Hi all, I joined this  group 6/30/2004. I thought I'd
introduce myself to you all.

My name is Åke from Sweden and I'm 45 years old and straight. I wear
diapers 24/7 because an accident and I'm urinary incontinent.
So Girls do not be afraid to send me a mail.I´an a very nice person
and lite shy..

#157 From: "patrick" <patrickcroteau33@...>
Date: Tue Jun 29, 2004 11:42 pm
Subject: some pics of me .
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hi all .
i have uploaded some pics of me .
PATRICK .

#156 From: brwmeistr <brwmeistr9@...>
Date: Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:45 pm
Subject: Re: Help
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--- depend65 <depend65@...> wrote:
> My problem is bladder control at night when I lie down.
> After I lie
> down for a few hours I lose control. I use protection but
> it gets
> worse after 2 p.m. I am a male, 69 years old. I have had
> this
> condition for at least four years. Help!

Sorry for the delay replying.  Have been in the hospital a
week.

Have you discussed this with your doctor?  MANY times such
problems can be treated or cured, but you have to ask for
help or you won't get it.  I PROMISE you won't be the first
guy your doc has heard from.

My best to you!

Brwmeistr9



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