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Hi all,

I'm new here and can't tell how serious this group is but I wanted
to share my experience in the hope that it can help others.

Like many menopausal women, I suffer(ed) from stress and urge
incontinence.  When I would cough or sneeze or even laugh I would
leak urine (sometimes a little, sometimes a lot) all over myself.  I
had this after I gave birth too but it went away so I thought it
would go away this time too...but it didn't.  After several years
and a lot of pads and dry cleaning and embarassing moments, I
finally talked to my dr about it.  He basically told me that my only
options was surgery.  Having had a very bad surgical experience in
the past, I wasn't about to have another operation without some
serious research.

In doing my research I came across a device which claimed to be able
to help me strengthen my pc muscles to the point that I wouldn't
need the surgery.  I was skeptical but willing to try since the
surgery was such an unpleasant concept.  I was a bit hesitant at
first because of the expense ($80) but I went ahead and tried it
since I realized that pads and/or surgery would eventually cost me
way more than that.  IT WORKED!!  After exercising for about 3.5
weeks, I stopped leaking completely.  I can laugh and even go
running again.  It's so, so wonderful that I had to share for anyone
having the same problem.  The device is called the Kegelmaster
(didn't really like the name but hey, it worked).  It's available
all over but I found the best deal at
http://www.informedchoiceproducts.com

I really, really recommend it for any woman suffering from stress or
urge incontinence.  I'm happy to answer questions about my
experience using it so feel free to email me. I hope this email
helps at least one other person, then I'll feel I've done a good
thing.

Blessings to you all,

Tip

I'm suffering of bowel incontinence due to a rectum operation .is
there anybody in the same case ?

I mix cloth and disposables to keep the costs of incontinence down.
When I  am at home and have no plans to leave the house I try to wear
cloth, but disposables are just easier for when I am busy (which is
most of the time.)

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "auairman" <auairman@a...> wrote:
> i hope you are doing better with it when i was a kid but all we had
thgen was cloth diapers which im still in but cause of cost now gary
>   ----- Original Message -----
>   From: Mikey
>   To: Incont@yahoogroups.com
>   Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2003 5:15 PM
>   Subject: [Incont] Getting to Know You....
>
>
>   Well, since we're trying to get this group going again, how about
>   some introductions?
>
>   My name is Mike, I am 27 with urinary incontinence for which I
>   usually wear Abri-Form brand diapers (most absorbent I've found)
>
>   Aside from this group I also run a fetish site for those who
choose
>   to wear diapers because when I first needed incontinence advice
the
>   fetish-wearers were much more open and helpful than the
incontinence
>   groups (which were still very 'in the closet' about the condition
at
>   that time.)
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HI

MY NAME IS TONY.
AGE 56
I LIVE IN JACKSON MICHIGAN
NEWLY MARRIED ( 5 MONTH'S )

I AM ALSO AN AB.
MY WIFE IS ALSO MY MOMMY.

I WAS BORN WITH A MODERATE SPINA BIFIDA WHICH CAUSED MY BLADDER TO LEAK.
I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH PROGRESSIVE MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS IN MY EARLY 30'S.
I'VE HAD IT NOW FOR ABOUT 17 YEARS.
IT HAS AFFECTED MY BLADDER AS WELL.
IT HAS PRETTY MUCH DESTROYED MY BLADDER, AND I AM WEARING CLOTH DIAPERS
AND PLASTIC PANTS 24/7.

I'VE WORN DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS SINCE BIRTH, AND HAVE NEVER
EXPERIENCED WEARING REGULAR UNDERWEAR.
I AM MEDICALLY RETIRED DUE TO THE PROGRESSION OF MY MS, AND AM MOMMYS
BABY BOY PRETTY MUCH 24/7.
DON'T GET ME WRONG, I DO HAVE ADULT RESPONSIBILITIES, AND CARRY THEM OUT
IN A RESPONSIBLE ADULT MANNER.
HOWEVER, MOMMY ENJOYS BABYING ME, AND I SURE ENJOY IT AS WELL.

I'M PRETTY VERSITILE IN MY TASTE IN MUSIC AND I AM ALSO AN ELECTRONIC'S
FANATIC.
I LOVE PRO WRESTLING AND SCI/FI AS WELL.

HOPE EVERYONE HAS A SAFE, BLESSED AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING.
BIG HUGS,
BABY TONY  :):):):)

" I DA BABY... GOTTA LOVE ME"
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http://community.webtv.net/TINYTONY2/BABYTONYSPLAYPEN
" MOMMY'S LIL CHUNKY MONKEY "

----- Original Message -----

From: Mikey

To: Incont@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Wednesday, November 26, 2003 5:15 PM

Subject: [Incont] Getting to Know You....

Well, since we're trying to get this group going again, how about
some introductions?

My name is Mike, I am 27 with urinary incontinence for which I
usually wear Abri-Form brand diapers (most absorbent I've found)

Aside from this group I also run a fetish site for those who choose
to wear diapers because when I first needed incontinence advice the
fetish-wearers were much more open and helpful than the incontinence
groups (which were still very 'in the closet' about the condition at
that time.)



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Well, since we're trying to get this group going again, how about
some introductions?

My name is Mike, I am 27 with urinary incontinence for which I
usually wear Abri-Form brand diapers (most absorbent I've found)

Aside from this group I also run a fetish site for those who choose
to wear diapers because when I first needed incontinence advice the
fetish-wearers were much more open and helpful than the incontinence
groups (which were still very 'in the closet' about the condition at
that time.)

Thats all!

Sorry about all the Spam. I got way behind on work and didn't get to
moderate this group the way I usually do. I'm back on the job now :)

Just wonder if anyone here wets their diapers on purpose like I do.
I LOVE to wet my diapers in public, especially when the girls can
tell.

24 male i have bed time probs in both areas and looking to talk to
others i am new to the net

Hi,

     My name is Anthony, first let me tell you about me, I'm a 25 year
old male who lives in the Albuquerque area. I'm about 6'3" and I'd
say 280 lb. I have brown hair. I have blue eyes and I wear glass. I
work as a manager for a national company, and I love it. I like,
Sowing, Medieval stuff, Swords, Armor, Castles, etc., Building sand
castles, Star Trek, Star Wars, I guess sci-fi in general, Cars,
Computers, Religion, Art, Home making, Cooking, Drawing, Movies,
Music, Toys in general. I'm also Dyslexic so my reading and writing
is not so good, so please forgive the bad grammar. That is about it,
ok so why am I writing this? I'm a bed/pants wetter! You see I was in
a car wreak, and now I wet the bed almost ever night and my bladder
control is not to good. Needless to say I'm in diapers both day and
night. Plus I'm tired of being alone, and I have a lot to offer
someone. I just can't seem to find that someone, I've tried
everything from personals to the web with no luck. So I'm going to
give it one last try, my hope is this letter will find it why to
someone who like me needs someone. So what am I looking for, Well I
guess for starters is a friend. Someone I can trust, and in return
trusts me. I would like to find someone open, friendly, funny,
spontaneous, you know the type we all like to hang out with. Someone
who is comfortable with herself. She would need to be able to put up
with a guy in diapers. Or if like me she needs of wants to wear
diapers day or night or both, that would be cool beans too. What can
I offer, well I guess first I'm a nice guy, I don't smoke, I don't
drink, I don't use drugs. I have a good but sometimes twisted sense
of humor, I get along with just about everyone I know. I have a good
job and make good money, and I have a house, I'm a fairly clean guy,
(as guys go), I can sow, and cook, I also have a softer side as well.
I guess all and all I'm the biggest little kid you'll every meet. On
top of it all I alone, I'm sick of coming home to an empty house. I'm
sick of not having anyone to talk to, hang out with, to cuddle with.
I'm tired of well I guess of just being by myself, I want someone I
can care for. Someone I can help, someone who is like me is strong on
the out side, but fragile on the inside. Someone who just needs to be
loved! I know I have a lot of faults, I'm human and far from
perfected. I also know there has to be someone out there who is
looking for what I am. In writing this letter I'm hope that is finds
that one person who is in need as I. Well I guess I don't really have
much more to say so have a great day.

Anthony(soggy_sleepers@...)

Hi

     My name is Anthony, I'm a 25 year old male who lives in New
Mexico. I'm posting this as I hope to find someone to love. I make
good money, I even have my own house, all I need now is a girlfriend.
Why post here, for all I have the one thing I don't is bladder
control. You see I was injured in a car wreak, so I now am in diapers
full time. I can't seem to find a girl who can deal with that, SO I
figure, since I'm having so much trouble, there has got to be a girl
like me out there with the same problem. What I'm looking for is a
girl between 21 and 25, who is funny, fun to be around, and just all
around cool. She needs to be able to deal with a guy in diapers. She
can be a bed wetter, or just like to wear diapers too. What I'm not
looking for is a mommy (I can change myself thanks), or a high
maintenance brat (my brothers got one of those). I'm hope that there
is a girl out there for me. If it is you, please write, I've been
looking for you for a long time. Soggy_Sleepers@... Thanks for
your time and have a great day.

Anthony

Hi there;
I saw your message and thougt that I should answer you. I have been
incontinent for ten years now. I have to be in diapers 24/7. In the
beginning I thought it was bad but now I have learn to live with and
I know that you also have to do that, It´s better to be in diapers
than wet your pants or bed. I hope to hear from you.
Lasse




--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "mnosded" <demarshall@s...> wrote:
> Hello,
>
> I am a teacher with double incontinence difficulties and wish to be
> involved in your group.
>
> This is a reasonably new problem for me and I don't know how I'm
> managing to cope with this but I am.
>
> David

Hi;
I hope to hear from you again under this adress.
worker9se@...
Lasse




--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, brwmeistr <brwmeistr9@y...> wrote:
>
> --- "Lars Andersson <military33@h...>"
> <military33@h...> wrote:
> > Hi there;
> >
> > I thank you very much for this group. I´m 53 years old and
> > have been
> > incontinent for 10 yers now and have learned to live with
> > it. I wear diapers 24/7.
>
> Hi, Lars!  Your address is intriguing to me.  Care to divulge
> it's meaning?
>
> You and I share the 24/7 diapers and the feelings we're just
> fine with them.  Sorry for teh short note, but I'm a touch
> busy tonite.
>
> Brwmeistr9
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Hello,

I am a teacher with double incontinence difficulties and wish to be
involved in your group.

This is a reasonably new problem for me and I don't know how I'm
managing to cope with this but I am.

David

I think this is the page your looking for.
http://gourmetconnection.com/bb/forum.cgi?forum=6

Hi , I was wondering if anyone new what happened to a forum that use
to be on the net calle Incontinence Discussion Forum? It had a lot of
people that would post differant question or problems that other
would leave feed back on . It seems as if it has just vanished???
       Anyone know? info would be awsome. Thanks, Diaperbruce

Looking for the internet's best site for purchasing adult diapers and
incontinence supplies?

Please check out NorthShore Care Supply at
http://www.northshorecare.com

We offer the best products at the best prices, same day shipment and
totally discreet delivery.  Finding the right products has never been
easier!

Thanks for giving us a look...you won't be disappointed!!

Sincerely,
Adam

--- "Lars Andersson <military33@...>"
<military33@...> wrote:
> Hi there;
>
> I thank you very much for this group. I´m 53 years old and
> have been
> incontinent for 10 yers now and have learned to live with
> it. I wear diapers 24/7.

Hi, Lars!  Your address is intriguing to me.  Care to divulge
it's meaning?

You and I share the 24/7 diapers and the feelings we're just
fine with them.  Sorry for teh short note, but I'm a touch
busy tonite.

Brwmeistr9



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Hi there;

I thank you very much for this group. I´m 53 years old and have been
incontinent for 10 yers now and have learned to live with it. I wear
diapers 24/7. I use Tena Slip Super Maxi and I love this diapers very
much. I also wear plastic pants so I can be in diapers all day at
work without changing. If there is somebody outthere who need someone
to talk with, don´t hesitate to drop me a line

Regards
Lasse

--- "amwet2you <crankt@...>" <crankt@...> wrote:
> if someone was to open a store that would carry any and all
> products
> that we as incont adults and others would that make a
> living at it?
> in NE.ohio or western pa. walk in and on line .talk with
> other and
> post in group .emploees would be incontinent and
> understanding. also
> may have a meeting area for group support and open friend
> ship among
> use that are disabled and have to wear these dang diapers.

I am just now listening to a man who owns a health products
company, with 60 employees total.  His business isn't
completely in they tank, but he's not having the best time of
it.  He suggested that it's not particularly a business he'd
recommend others get into, though obviously he has an
interest in keeping others out to maintain his customers.
One major complaint he's offering is the increase in costs
for health care for his own (Diamed) company.

I'm not sure this is exactly what you're looking for, but
it's my contribution....

Brwmeistr9

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if someone was to open a store that would carry any and all products
that we as incont adults and others would that make a living at it?
in NE.ohio or western pa. walk in and on line .talk with other and
post in group .emploees would be incontinent and understanding. also
may have a meeting area for group support and open friend ship among
use that are disabled and have to wear these dang diapers.

http://www.ecnad.com/vinyl/

i have been incon 24/7 now for more years than i like to remember.
started after an accident. used disposos at first that was when you
could not find one that didnt leek i would stuff them 2&3 at a time
to stop leeks. could not find plastic pant that was any better.then i
started to make my own plastic pants [ i hate a wet bed]i found that
large bath towels make very good diapers. i used to be very self
conious about wearing diapers was very depressed. i even thougt of
killing myself but i went to a good srink.[thank god]now after meny
sessions i no long let them get to me and i dont hide the fact that i
wear diapers at all.i have learned to make light of the fact i wear
diapers .not the fact im incontinent that can be serous if you dont
go to doctor to see what is wrong. you can cause your bladder to over
fill and shut your kidneys down if not watching what you do. that is
what was about to happen to me.so from an old gramps go to the doctor
regurly. so laugh at your diaper back side and live a good long time.
later.

Diapers help people of all ages
Seeing people placed in homes because they're incontinent gave ex-
nurse her idea

Margie Mason
AP


Monday, December 30, 2002

AP / Peggy Lu Fay, owner of Life Styles Emporium, poses with reusable
diapers inside her sewing room in Santa Cruz, Calif. The county
government awarded her a $20,000 grant to support her efforts to
develop a reusable product for incontinent adults. Each year,
disposable adult underwear accounts for an estimated one ton of waste
per adult in landfills, and the county is hoping to promote reusable
diapers to cut down on that waste.

ADVERTISEMENT


Peggy Lu Fay spent years visiting nursing homes, where she met many
patients who were forced to leave their homes for only one reason:
their loved ones simply could not handle caring for them after they
became incontinent.

It was a heartbreaking scenario that led Fay to search for a way to
help. She started selling adult reusable diapers that were cheap,
environmentally friendly and custom-made to make it easier for
caregivers.

"Couples who are married 50 or 60 years are pulled apart and
separated at the end of their lives," said Fay, a former nurse. "This
gives them what they need to stay home."

Santa Cruz County awarded Fay a $20,000 grant last January to
manufacture her own cloth diapers, complete with a laundering
service.

Inside the nondescript green warehouse that doubles as a showroom,
she has an array of fabrics, prints and sizes to fit everyone,
including babies.

Von Wilmot discovered Fay's Life Styles Emporium and asked her to
design something that would comfortably fit her husband's large size
and absorb night-time accidents. The couple came in for a fitting,
and after a few alterations ended up with a personally designed cloth
diaper complete with thick layers that fold together to form several
centimetres of padding.

"They're wonderful. It was just sort of magic," Wilmot said. "It was
about keeping him dry at night, not having to throw out stuff and not
having to pay out money all of the time."

And saving is really the reason Santa Cruz County got involved. A
fully incontinent adult contributes about a tonne of waste to the
landfill each year, said Jeffrey Smedberg, the county's recycling
programs co-ordinator.

"We had a lot to learn about adult diapers, and, in a sense, they may
be even more of an impact on landfills than baby diapers.

"(Baby diapers are) smaller and people outgrow them fairy quickly,"
he said. "Once people need to start using (adult diapers) it could be
years and years and they're still using them."

The concept is catching on elsewhere. In November, officials in Santa
Clarita announced a six-month pilot project that will involve 500
families putting disposable baby diapers on the curb to be recycled.
The materials will be reused in non-food packaging and products such
as wallpaper, plastic decking, even shoe insoles.

"This is the first city in the United States that has done this,"
said Fiona Hutton of Knowaste, the New York-based company behind the
pilot program.

"Not too many years ago, there was no bottle or aluminum recycling.
They've done a great job with those items. It's really easy to
recycle, and city and county leaders have to look to the next step."

Knowaste has a major diaper recycling plant in Arnhem, Holland, that
processes 100,000 tonnes of diapers each year, much of which consists
of adult diapers from nursing homes and hospitals.

And while that's important to Fay and her four co-workers, it's just
one of many reasons people come to her.

Cloth diapers cost about $30 to $60 US a piece, but they're good for
about 300 washes. That compares to disposable diapers, which can cost
$1.25 a piece for a bag of 40 to 45. But disposable diapers do have
their place, and some say cloth contributes to more skin irritations,
especially rashes.

"Older people who tend to be on a fixed income are trying to get by
on less than more," said Nancy Muller, executive director of the
National Association For Continence. "They don't change the garments
often enough or they stuff reusable towels in there and then they end
up with skin problems."

But Muller said she's happy the subject is at least starting to be
discussed more openly. Many adults are so ashamed of their
incontinence problems, she said, they end up locking themselves away
at home far from society.

Many young women experience some type of leakage after giving birth
and require some type of absorbency product, along with men and women
suffering from spinal injuries or diseases such as multiple sclerosis.

But Fay said Life Styles Emporium also caters to those younger
clients. The company makes everything from bright colours with lace
ruffles, such as lime green and lemon yellow, to leopard-print
bikinis.

One young woman in a wheelchair came into the showroom with her
mother and just started crying as she looked at the different
products available.

"She said, 'I had no idea anyone would think to make anything like
that for someone like me,' " Fay recalled. "It makes you feel like
what you're doing is worthwhile."

Hi Melvyn

There's a list of support groups at this web page that might also be helpful
http://metroped.org/Restroom/Regs&Support.htm

You could also help the Public Restroom Initiative by letting me know of any
situation in the UK should be included in this web page
http://metroped.org/Restroom/Problems.htm

Bob Brubaker

Metroped Inc.
P.O. Box 15077
Alexandria, VA.   22309-0077
robert.brubaker@...     www.metroped.org



----- Original Message -----
From: <melvyn.hill2@...>
To: <Incont@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Sunday, December 15, 2002 11:06 AM
Subject: [Incont] Im New to this club.


My name is Melvyn,im 56 and have had a problem with my bladder all my
life,I all ways belived it was because i wet my self it was just me.
and didnt know it was a medical problem untill i was 38, i was tould
i was incontinent. this may sound daft but to be tould that it has a
name made me feel good, it wasnt just me after all. after some tests
it was found i had a small bladder the size of a 13-16year old and
thats why i was always going to the toilet, not always getting there
in time. i had an opp to make my bladder bigger by putting a piece of
my bowel over the top of the bladder to make it bigger, that was 15
yrs ago. i still need to wear a pad(diaper)& plasic/ rubber pants
every time i go out, i still have urgancy. i live with my partner who
is 110 persent behind me and helps me in every way she can.i live in
the UK, Im pleased to of found this group.



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My name is Melvyn,im 56 and have had a problem with my bladder all my
life,I all ways belived it was because i wet my self it was just me.
and didnt know it was a medical problem untill i was 38, i was tould
i was incontinent. this may sound daft but to be tould that it has a
name made me feel good, it wasnt just me after all. after some tests
it was found i had a small bladder the size of a 13-16year old and
thats why i was always going to the toilet, not always getting there
in time. i had an opp to make my bladder bigger by putting a piece of
my bowel over the top of the bladder to make it bigger, that was 15
yrs ago. i still need to wear a pad(diaper)& plasic/ rubber pants
every time i go out, i still have urgancy. i live with my partner who
is 110 persent behind me and helps me in every way she can.i live in
the UK, Im pleased to of found this group.

Dear Group

If any of you find that where you travel is limited because you may not be
able to find a restroom, you may be interested in the Public Restroom
Initiative.
http://www.drdonnica.com/display.asp?article=5390

If you'd like to help, and you can write, our current project involves
writing "model code"
http://metroped.org/Restroom/Policy/ModelCode.htm

Corrections and suggested text are welcomed.

Look forward to hearing from some of you.

Robert Brubaker, Director

Metroped Inc.   P.O. Box 15077   Alexandria, VA.   22309-0077
robert.brubaker@...     www.metroped.org

are dutch members here to chat