HOW DO I FEEL ABOUT BEING INCONTINENT?

I'VE BEEN INCONTINENT SINCE BIRTH DUE TO BEING BORN WITH A MODERATE
SPINA BIFIDA, CAUSING MY BLADDER TO LEAK CONTINUISLY.
IN MY EARLY 30'S I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS WHICH I'VE HAD
FOR ABOUT 18 YEARS NOW.
IT FURTHER DAMAGED MY BLADDER.

I WEAR EITHER CLOTH DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS, OR DISPOSABLE DIAPERS. (
DISPOSABLES WHEN I GO OUT ON LONG DAY TRIPS)
I'VE ACCEPTED MY BEING INCONTINENT, ACCEPTED WEARING DIAPERS AND PLASTIC
PANTS 24/7.
EVERYONE ON BOTH MY SIDE AND MY WIFS SIDE OF OUR FAMILIES KNOWS THAT I
WEAR DIAPERS, AND THAT MY WIFE CHANGES ME MOST OF THE TIME.

DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS ARE JUST AN ALTERNATIVE PAIR OF UNDERWEAR.
DO I WORRY ABOUT BEING INCONTINENT? NOT AT ALL.
DO I WORRY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE FINDING OUT THAT I'M DIAPERED??
NOT AT ALL.
IF THEY ARE CURIOUS, I TELL THEM, IF I DON'T, MY WIFE DOES.
NO BIGGIE AS FAR AS WE'RE CONCERNED.

HEY, THERE ARE FAR WORSE MEDICAL PROBLEMS OUT THERE THAT COULD HAVE
BEFALLEN ME.
AT LEAST I KNOW I HAVE PROTECTION FROM WEARING MY DIAPERS, HENCE,
AVOIDING ANY POSSIBLE EMBARRASSING ACCIDENTS IN PUBLIC OR WHEN WE ARE
SOCIALIZING.

WHAT KIND OF PROTECTION DO I USE FOR MY INCONTINENCE?

AS I STATED EARLIER, CLOTH DIAPERS, PREFERABLY WITH FITTED LEG AND WAIST
BANDS AND VELCRO CLOSURES, SOMETIMES USE PADS FOR EXTRA ABSORBENCY,
ESPECIALLY FOR NIGHT TIME WEAR.
COVERING MY DIAPERS ARE PLASTIC PANTS, PULL ON STYLE MOSTLY, SNAP ON
STYLE OVER MY DISPOSABLES WHEN WE GO OUT.
I HAVE THEM IN COLORS AND NURSERY PRINTS.
AM I ASHAMED TO WEAR NURSERY PRINT PLASTIC PANTS?
....NOPE....
I'M A BIT ADVENTOROUS LOL.
I GOT TIRED OF WEARING THE DULL DRAB WHITE PLASTIC PANTS LONG AGO.

MY WIFE AND FAMILES ARE EXTREMELY SUPPORTIVE OF ME, AND THINK NOTHING OF
VISITING US UN-EXPECTEDLY, FINDING ME WEARING NOTHING BUT A TANK TOP,
DIAPERS AND PLASTIC PANTS.
LIFE IS TO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT THIS INCONTINENCE OF MINE.
I'LL NOT EVER LET IT HINDER OR INTERFERE IN OUR ACTIVE LIFESTYLE.
THE MS HAS RENDERED ME MEDICALLY RETIRED, BUT I STILL GET AROUND PRETTY
GOOD.
JUST RECENTLY, I'VE HAD A TOTAL LEFT HIP REPLACEMENT.
( APRIL 26TH OF THIS YEAR )
AND WAS ALSO DIAGNOSED WITH FIBRO MYALGA AND DIABETES.
MY WIFE LIKES THE IDEA THAT SHE ALMOST ALWAYS NOW HAS TO DIAPER ME DUE
TO THE MS AND FIBRO AFFECTING FULL USE OF MY HANDS ON MANY OCCASIONS.
SHE ALWAYS KIDS ME ABOUT BEING THE 3RD BABY SHE ALWAYS WANTED, BUT COULD
NEVER HAVE.

I COME FROM A PHYSICALLY ABUSED BACK GROUND DUE TO MY CONSTANT
BEDWETTING AND PANTS WETTING.
OBVIOUSLY, NO LOVE, CARING OR NURTURING IN MY GROWING YEARS.
I HAVE IT NOW TEN FOLD, AND LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT.
THE BOTTOM LINE FOR ME IS SIMPLE:

WHEN LIFE HANDS YOU A LEMON....
" MAKE LEMONADE "

I'M VERY OPEN ABOUT THIS SUBJECT AND OFFER ANY AND ALL SUPPORT TO ANYONE
IN NEED OF IT.

" I SHARE, BECAUSE I CARE "
HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GREAT DIAPERED WEEKEND!
BIG HUGSSSS,
TINYTONY :)

--- In Incont@yahoogroups.com, "jeff" <fastcarz442@y...> wrote:
> 1) how do you fell about bing incontinent? It is very annoying, but
I manage with the help of my wife and my faith in Jesus, especially
when it comes to coming up with the money to pay for expenses related
to it..

> 2) what type of incont. control do you use? Daytime, Depend
Refastenable Briefs or Attends, or Condom Cath(unusual wetting
epsisodes) for just regular wetting, or Abena(my favoorite),
Tranquilty Slim Line-(my second favorite) Molicare for Heavy Wetting
or will be trying cloth diapers with overpants soon.
>
> Interested in getting some discussions going........feel free to
> contact me.........
>
> I'm a good guy willing to share and discuss almost anything....Jeff